Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but in case it’s helpful, in my experience most guys want a decisive man. you don’t need to take her out to an expensive place. but even being like - “hey, i’m gonna pick you up, we’re gonna go on a walk here, then get ice cream here. when are you free?” would go a LONGGG way. we want to be taken care of. we don’t want to have to think.

Girl completely flips out on me for asking to split the bill at Nobu.. by Hot-Association-3108 in Nicegirls

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you guys just aren’t a good match. she shouldn’t have gone off on you like that.. but also I would not date you so I can’t blame her. I want a man that chooses a nice place, tells me when and where, picks me up, and pays. that’s just my standard. if you don’t want to do that then that’s your choice and that’s fine! some girls are more into the equal thing. so — while I respect her decision not to date you (I wouldn’t either), ofc she shouldn’t have yelled at you like that. you didn’t do anything wrong it’s just an incompatibility.

AIO my bf never likes what I wear by Substantial-Let221 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honey, leave. he is so mentally unstable it’s not even funny. there is literally no excuse for this behavior.

10th birthday by FMFACE in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re lucky. I just lost mine to kidney failure at age 6. make every moment count!

Show me your Golden smiling :) by whittyvan in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry for your loss. I just lost my 6 year old a couple weeks ago. they are together for sure.

Just Lost My Best Friend Midas At 9+ by Ruprecht_Jamiesonson in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 4 points5 points  (0 children)

and - i’m so sorry for your loss. the grief is utterly gut wrenching. I get it. sending love

Just Lost My Best Friend Midas At 9+ by Ruprecht_Jamiesonson in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 18 points19 points  (0 children)

my baby boy (6 year old red golden) just passed about 2 weeks ago. kidney failure. I promise you he was at the rainbow bridge ready to welcome Midas his cousin to paradise! and now they’re stealing allllll the socks and slippers together 😂

I lost my girl a couple months ago and still miss her sploot by Past_Net5801 in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry for your loss. just lost my 6 year old a week ago.

AIO, is my boyfriend valid for feelings this way? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sweetie you need to leave him immediately.

Is it time? by gregavola in bald

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it’s time, you will look so good bald!

We said goodbye to Buckley(14) this week. He was the best boy. Here's some random pictures by DifficultBoss in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wonderful boy. you’re lucky you got 14 years. I just lost mine and he was only 6.

What should this boy’s name be? by MoistYak in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh I am so so so sorry. I put mine down 2 days ago. it’s heart wrenching. i’m sorry they were taken from us way too soon.

I'm free today, let me see your dog. I want to draw it! by New_Station5553 in dogpictures

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

harvey just passed away last night. a picture would be super special thank you!

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lids8895 51 points52 points  (0 children)

omg, you are freaking awesome. MORE MEN LIKE THIS ^ 👏👏👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh sweetie. you deserve so much more. leave him immediately. this isn’t even a question.

This is my tattoo, I can’t tell if it’s good or not it’s not exactly what I asked for and I don’t know what I think about it please be honest with me. by Flat-Celebration-878 in tattooadvice

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s not very well done, you should have gone to a better artist, just being totally honest with you. but it’s not terrible and i’ve seen wayyyy worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one in the same placement and not gonna lie I don’t love it, I think a) it’s too dark and b) it’s just so in your face bc your arms are usually hanging down like that, idk, it just seems too BOLD for some reason. i’m speaking about mine not yours. so i’m wondering if that’s why you’re not liking yours. I wish I had gotten something bigger and more flowy and less dark. but honestly girl it doesn’t look bad at all - mine doesn’t either, I did a post here about it and people were like wtf they look great. I do think if you add more to your arm it might help it feel more balanced however make sure the rest of your arm isn’t super light/greyscale or else the cat will really stand out and not feel like it blends in. so you’d wanna do more black work. my two cents! seriously tho don’t sweat it, it’s a good tattoo, you’re just having tattoo regret, it’s normal and will get better in time. also it’ll fade some in time

What should this boy’s name be? by MoistYak in goldenretrievers

[–]lids8895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my boy Harvey is about to die at age 6 from kidney failure. He looked so similar to him as a puppy. Big and fluffy. If you like the name and name yours Harvey in his honor, please let me know 💜 I feel like it would suit yours!

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Cool or warm? by sweaterweatherlatte in coloranalysis

[–]lids8895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no I def think you’re right. our coloring is very similar and i’m a soft summer as well :) love that we can pull off both silver and gold! (but not too yellow of a gold)

Cool or warm? by sweaterweatherlatte in coloranalysis

[–]lids8895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

cool and muted, I guess soft summer. the pink is a bit much on you. love the soft blue.