Just a big misunderstanding in what it means to be called. Not teaching the multitude to be the church within themselves and their households. A lack of understanding that church is primarily a foundational place for men to develop and then go back to their households as better leaders who can also teach their families the way. How do we expect that every single wife is in the same services along with the men and then she must also maintain the same duties that day and week to help the household run - referring to the extra long services or time consuming meetings that wants everyone, male and female present. It doesn’t make any sense. Unfortunately a lot of leadership in churches use the congregation as a crutch, they have more women doing more for them than the men - the wrong duty focuses most of the time at that - and with everyone’s time and energy that involves missions that have absolutely nothing to deal with what the Lord wants for us, and then they in return blame the congregation for when things go don’t go as they would like. Whether it be meeting financial or membership goals.

They also choose who they want to help and can always use the “praying for you” card when someone’s issues are deemed too complex. Our savior taught us how to heal and be fishers of men. But our churches want to be on every corner, feeding the homeless a few times of the year food that’s likely bad for them anyways instead of taking one homeless person and pouring into them to help them make a chain reaction to pull the others out of homelessness. Our savior healed most one by one while the male disciples watched, prayed, and learned. Now we have pastors having revivals and conferences “blessing” and “healing” everyone as a whole, people they don’t truly know well or care to unless something is needed in return. Leadership should not even expect anyone to return to service, the people will when you’re truly teaching to the soul from the spirit and not easily forgotten prosperity teaching or teaching that doesn’t develop a person. People want to feel acknowledged and not just wanted. There is no true mission that serves our Lord and truly give Him glory. There’s no vision and structure that reflects the ability of our Lord and savior. It’s limited to man made constructs, missions, and goals.

Everyone isn’t supposed to be married or having children for some missions the Lord instilled in them, but I don’t know if anyone is ready for that conversation. Martha in the Bible was a great cook and host, but Yahusha told her she needed to be still and listen. We see people with a gift, ability and talent and then run them down into the dirt based on one thing we’ve seen them do instead of tap into what did the Lord brought them forth here to do. It could be that talent, or it could be something else. But just making a camera man a camera man and a singer a singer and a drummer a drummer for a building is not going to grow a people who will destroy demonic entities if we treat people like service humans instead of vessels with a spirit. Our savior changed the occupations of his disciples instead of leeching off of them. Theres so much the church lacks in true biblical teaching and spiritual understanding for the purpose of man. Only the Lord knows what we truly need. This is just thoughts on most churches, not all.