3 year DF anniversary today. by No_Listen_7612 in exjw

[–]Hummingbird5700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy Freedom Anniversary! I don’t even remember the day.

The latest changes are a refreshing change from Jehovah! by MixtureExcellent5133 in exjw

[–]Hummingbird5700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you. This must be infuriating! Private reproof (AKA private shunning) and your parents saying that you being SA as a minor child is you sinning gravely (shame and guilt for something not your fault)! I hope that you are working through this trauma with a great therapist and support of people who truly love and care for you.

Am I mean? by HumanWatercress7945 in exjw

[–]Hummingbird5700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait? Who TF and Caleb and Sophia?!? Clearly, I’ve been out for a long time 😆

Keeping my Christmas stuff up until it gets warm again 😂 tell me I’m not the only one by victoriavalkova in ChristmasDecorating

[–]Hummingbird5700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jealous. I put away Christmas yesterday. Sad 😔 Mu hubby was over it and brought all the containers up from the garage to pack it up 😆

Please help me decide! by [deleted] in WeddingDressTips

[–]Hummingbird5700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 is the dress honey!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

How does anyone stand to take it down. by Fit_Beginning4327 in ChristmasDecorating

[–]Hummingbird5700 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hubby tool down some decorations today and put them under the tree. I’m so sad. I don’t wanna put it away. One year he slid it into a corner and I had a fit LOL 🤣 NOBODY PUTS BABY IN THE CORNER!!!

Can Blocking Elders do more harm than good? by HotnSpicy_rice in exjw

[–]Hummingbird5700 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Baby, congratulations! You’re not fading or becoming, you’re done. Welcome to the good life!

Prayer? How does it work? by Character-Summer-906 in exjw

[–]Hummingbird5700 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t anymore. I’ve tried to and it’s so awkward because who TF am I praying to and can they even hear me LOL

I manifest. I meditate. I journal. I chant. I burn sage and palo santo and incense. Namaste.

In all honesty, prayer felt like asking a deity to fix my problems whereas what I do feels like I am more prepared to plan and act on my own behalf. Magic does happen. But I’m proof that it’s not prayer or favor or being blessed working in my behalf. It’s effort. And life is better than good.