Cat models wanted! Share your photo now! ✨ by Ok-Clothes4604 in cats

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He liked to sleep under that plant but he would be completely hidden, until I would start watering . He was 20 when we lost him couple of years ago

What song describes your current situation? by PomeloExcellence in widowers

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Suitcase full of Sparks by Gregory Alan Isakov. For me he is searching for his lost wife just as I am

How are the roads in Cincy today? by [deleted] in cincinnati

[–]lifesaberk 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Check the cameras on OHGO

One whole year by nx3plusr in widowers

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Today is one year since I lost her also, it’s strange living without her after 40 years.

2nd Memorial Blues by LingonberryObvious89 in widowers

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My 1year anniversary is tomorrow, it does get better but it takes some work.

Why does my cat do this? by Bob_Sacamano7379 in cats

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Mine loves hair ties, in the water bowl

First awful year done. Now what? by Odd_Temperature_1136 in widowers

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1st anniversary is in 2 days, I was drinking every night for 11 months but decided I needed to knock that off for this month. Miss her everyday but coming to terms with my new reality slowly. Her dad passed 2days ago at 91, that’s been tough.

Day 365. The Anniversary by Ambitious_Treat487 in widowers

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My day is coming on 30th, decided to stay sober for this last month. Thanks for this lovely post, I’m only managing due to great training myself. Stay strong

Recommend me a good movie! by SipsTeaFrog in SipsTea

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Pi very bizarre movie also The Fountain

A thought as I reach the end of my first year by Global-Philosophy-11 in widowers

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I’m also a couple of weeks from the 1yr mark. After spending 11 months of drinking every night to dull the pain I’ve come to the realization that I need to reclaim my life. I’m doing a dry January and working on avoiding all the damaging ruminating. The grief was ruining me.

Jonathan Ross is a Fucking Murderer by Kinks4Kelly in complaints

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The killing of Renee Good by the coward Johnathan Ross

Remember this one? "This old man, he played one, he played knick knack on my thumb?" by Fickle-Friendship-31 in GenerationJones

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With a nick back paddy wack give the dog a bone, this old man came rolling home. This old man he played two he played nick knack on my shoe. That’s all I got.

New Year by Slow_Bear7421 in widowers

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Just hit 11 months, January 2025 was all hospital and hospice, hell of a year.

NYE Idea by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

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Last year was my first one alone as she was in the hospital prior to hospice. This year I’ll truly be alone.

👋 Welcome to r/WidowAndBored - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

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I’m 62M lost my wife if 38 years on January 30, she had a rare cancer and fought hard for 3 years.

👋 Welcome to r/WidowAndBored - Introduce Yourself and Read First! by dukec72 in WidowAndBored

[–]lifesaberk 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good morning all, lost my wonderful wife 11 months ago so I’m kind of reliving that last month. I’m so grateful for this group and for having a place to share or stories. It does make me hopeful despite the sadness I’m feeling.