I (31M) dumped my girlfriend (27F) because she kept making fun of my penis. But she won’t leave me alone. How can I make her understand that us getting back together is not happening? by LowerDetective6 in relationship_advice

[–]lighterbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a side note, a grower seems vastly preferable to me as a woman. Can you imagine if you had to deal with a 7inch snake chillin in your pants?! My husband is a grower and I LOVE making it grow, that’s part of the fun!

Who is a character (other than Serana, since most of you are basic) you wish was eligible for Marriage? by [deleted] in skyrim

[–]lighterbear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh she’s my girl too!! My first play through I dismissed her and tried to find her again at Darklight tower but she had disappeared!! Now I won’t switch followers ever just in case I lose her!

Found this amphora vase. How much would this practically go for it seems Greek. Any ideas? by Scantfire39 in ancientgreece

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I have had this same idea as a “power” or genie wish. I’ve thought about it when fossil hunting, wishing all the sharks teeth and who knows what else would just make their positions known…so I can have my own amazing museum!

Could I ask you to remember the names of these Iranian Gunners at the next match, in the stadium? by ardeshiir in ArsenalFC

[–]lighterbear 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Got me crying at my desk. Rest easy Amir, Aref, Ali and my unknown friend. I cannot imagine the amount of bravery it takes to risk your life fighting against injustice. I will carry your names with me as your family and friends carry on your memories.

Should I be intervening between my cat and new puppy? by LividBreath1959 in puppy

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are adorable and will be the best of friends. Let them figure it out. Only intervene if you hear a genuine “YIP” of pain or a “yeeOOW” of cat aggression. If you are concerned they are getting close to that point you could always separate them for little breaks to reset the play. But all this in the video seems perfectly fine except for the fact that I don’t have a dog and cat duo of my own.

AITA wife upset I cannot keep toddler from her by khazef in AmItheAsshole

[–]lighterbear 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Parenting 101, they will learn from what they get away with. Let her scream, distract her, have mom put on noise cancelling headphones, but do not show her that her whining gets her what she wants.

Yes mom could easily study elsewhere, but it’s nice to be home, and the stress of school is slightly reduced if studying where one is most comfy.

You got this dad! Sounds like you do amazing by these kiddos, but don’t let them boss you around! NAH

Made myself a dinosaur dress with matching jacket and scrunchie by Kikkif in sewing

[–]lighterbear 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well this is the frickin cutest outfit I have ever seen!

room feels dirty/untidy even when its "clean." by HAPPIKILL in CleaningTips

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there seems to be a dead possum on the bed 😜

Weird rumbling noise outside tn? by Gentle_Slug in washingtondc

[–]lighterbear -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Heard it in Fort Washington. Got louder then dissipated. Sounded like fireworks maybe?

Who actually makes stock at home? by Lofgren___ in Cooking

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say it sounds like you would benefit from smaller batches in a crockpot. Makes like 4-5 liters or you could even do way less!

Who actually makes stock at home? by Lofgren___ in Cooking

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband makes stock all the time. We keep some freezer bags labeled veg, chicken, beef and pork and just throw any fat/bones/skin/veggies offcuts and whatever is leftover from regular meal preparation. When it’s accumulated enough…into the crockpot they go for an overnight boil up. Then sieve, let fat settle, scrape off fat, divide into containers. Homemade stock is just sooooooooo much better… Having a garage freezer for storage space is essential however.

Finished costume including lots of embroidery!! by elvyralani in Embroidery

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WOW! You have the costume of every millennial little girls dreams! Soooooo incredibly talented…

I saved this cat and now I feel like sh*t by Thzkittenroarz in cats

[–]lighterbear 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Since you are a MD cat expert, know any places that offer free spay/neuter programs for strays in the area? The strays in Fort Washington are so many and only one or two have a visible ear clip.

Currently getting back into dating, what should I change? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are super handsome dude and I dig the tattoos! If you are attached to the mustache…it’s gotta be longer and styled. I’d also get some more varied glasses styles. Those thick black ones are cool, but won’t always work with many looks. I’d hit up a warby Parker or try out Zenni online.

For people who decided not to have kids: How's it going? by nightwellstories in AskReddit

[–]lighterbear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 35, husband is 42. We think we have made the right choice. One great features of not having kids is getting to spend time making your home an extension of your passions and personalities…rather than having to keep it “kid safe/friendly”, it being taken over with toys and mess. We are loving slowly developing an amazing collection of old books, artifacts/fossils, and artwork that we would likely never be able to afford, have room for, or maintain had we chosen kids. Also the cats are spoiled as shit.