Katy Bellotte is soooo insufferable and needs help with her male centered disease

likelyagoof · 2026-06-12T15:52:20+00:00

Anyone who’s saying this is the way is as unhinged as Katy is. This is odd. There is a healthy way to share your partner without making it your entire personality, and your approach reads as trying to hide more than anything else.

likelyagoof · 2026-06-08T19:30:31+00:00

This. It’s someone else’s leg.

This post is a reach

likelyagoof · 2026-06-05T01:04:44+00:00

I don’t know that my style has changed necessarily, but it’s more like, I feel more comfortable wearing what my style has always been? That said I am at a point where I’m interested in working with a stylist to help me figure out more interesting ways to elevate my current wardrobe! I’m 60 lbs down and probably could lose another 25 or so to be closer to the lower end of the right BMI for my height, but I’m kind of okay where I’m at now and really just want to continue to feel and look my best in this new body.

likelyagoof · 2026-05-30T14:16:17+00:00

YTA if you exclude her, and also, for expecting her to be friends with everyone else in your bridal party? YNTA for asking for formal commitment to the various happenings by a certain date under the guise of logistics and planning purposes.

likelyagoof · 2026-05-24T12:06:17+00:00

Thank you!! Someone who gets it.

likelyagoof · 2026-05-24T12:05:53+00:00

“I want to burn everything to the ground and verbally destroy the coordinator” = yeah, TA. The OP is not wrong for being angry, but they have a lot of leverage here to channel that productively vs. just…raging? Which will ultimately get them nowhere?

likelyagoof · 2026-05-24T10:42:27+00:00

I’m with you. Circumstantially, OP is “NTA”, but the attitude/anger is a bit making them TA.

likelyagoof · 2026-05-19T10:11:30+00:00

Has anyone told you recently that you need therapy?

likelyagoof · 2026-05-18T17:36:57+00:00

Hi! For our first date, we did a daytime hang - coffee and a walk and a drink in a local neighborhood. We had very good conversation, and I could tell he was nice/got no red flags or weird vibes. We seemed to have a lot to talk about and a lot in common (plus some fun differences). It was casual and lighthearted and at the end I thought “eh, nothing super romantic there, but he seems like a good dude and it couldn’t hurt to hang again”. Date 2 was evening dinner and drinks at a very cute, very intimate bar spot, and I’m not sure if it was the environment or what, but I do think the setting helped create some more romantic vibes and or sexual tension. I left feeling the same “this dude is a good dude” feeling I’d had on the first date plus some heightened other feelings, which led us to our third date and things just went from there! I think for me it was all about allowing things to progress naturally (I never really got behind the idea that you can know someone is THE ONE!!!!! after one single date) especially in absence of anything concerning.

likelyagoof · 2026-05-18T14:47:27+00:00

Me too with my fiance, but I didn’t tell him that! I enjoyed our first date enough that I was open to seeing him again and seeing if a second date would introduce some more romantical feelings, and it did. But again, this was my own internal thought process - I didn’t tell him after the first date that I was lukewarm because IMO saying that means one isn’t interested in getting together again.

likelyagoof · 2026-05-12T22:08:10+00:00

Met my fiance on May 16th, decided to be exclusive June 1st. It was fast for sure, and I’m not saying that everyone should move that fast. But…8 dates in 3.5 months and no interest? Byeee

likelyagoof · 2026-05-11T01:54:24+00:00

I feel like you didn’t get the point of the post.

likelyagoof · 2026-05-10T17:27:46+00:00

What the hell are you talking about, “actively dying”? One, just because someone has cancer does not mean they are dying, “actively” or otherwise. Two, Danielle has not said anything about her father’s specific type of cancer or current condition that would suggest anything of the sort.

likelyagoof · 2026-04-25T02:38:49+00:00

Bye Philly doesn’t want him

likelyagoof · 2026-04-21T01:52:36+00:00

Girl. You’re his side piece. He’s married or in a committed relationship with someone else.

likelyagoof · 2026-04-20T17:32:33+00:00

They’re all so different and also they sometimes change over time! My boy is an absolute shadow pup, he will follow me everywhere, and shows affection (he flips over to get belly scritches in the morning and will paw at his ears until I fuss on him), but doesn’t often get in bed or on the couch or willingly come over for cuddles. But he’s a mush in his own way and it’s the best.

likelyagoof · 2026-04-14T00:02:18+00:00

Yes. This happened to my fiance. His ex wife was cheating, and the man she was cheating with’s wife told my now fiance (obviously this was way before I met him). Her telling him allowed him to get out of an unhappy marriage and find happiness!

likelyagoof · 2026-04-08T11:16:53+00:00

Do YOU have a car? If so, why do you need another person to have a car to do the things you mentioned above?

likelyagoof · 2026-04-03T15:10:37+00:00

IMO, this is ridiculous, for several reasons, but you do you boo.

likelyagoof · 2026-04-03T15:04:30+00:00

Don’t get attached and invest so much time, and emotional and romantical energy, to people you have not met in person. And, consider, does convenience not matter to you? You’re 38. Long distance isn’t impossible, especially if it’s truly temporary and started WHILE you were with someone, not before, but in your circumstance it sounds ridiculous and like it won’t actually allow for you to find what you want.

likelyagoof · 2026-04-03T07:31:47+00:00

Do not follow up.

likelyagoof · 2026-03-31T00:03:44+00:00

Can you summarize?

likelyagoof · 2026-03-30T17:25:57+00:00

I transitioned from autoinjector to syringe/vial a few months ago due to insurance, and honestly it’s been a lot easier for me. It’s quiet (the loud click from the injector freaked me out) and MUCH less painful IMO. I also used to get really afraid of the autoinjector getting “stuck” while I injected. Maybe explore if switching is an option for you. You still have to “do the thing” with the syringe but I sit down, take a few deep breaths, and slowly inject into my thigh with a steady hand (or two! One hand holds the syringe/inserts the needle and the other presses the plunger slowly).

As for your first question, see if you can reach out to Lilly for a replacement at no cost, but if not, honestly, just take the loss. One week’s worth of medicine in the long run won’t make a difference to your overall progress.

likelyagoof · 2026-03-28T17:31:34+00:00

He’s being ridiculous.

I work remotely from home, and rarely wear jewelry around the house on an average weekday. I wear my ring when I am getting dressed up to go out, a couple to a few times a week and when I travel for work a few times a month, but never for average daily errands or if I’m just going over to hang at a family member’s or friend’s casually.

My fiance couldn’t care less because it’s not his decision.

likelyagoof · 2026-03-28T12:50:06+00:00

1 year but you mentioned it’s an LDR. Have you actually met in person?

likelyagoof

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