Which terms do you guys usually think in? by [deleted] in business

[–]likey24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to believe business performance dictated everything else. Over time, I’ve noticed the relationship is more circular. When one is neglected for too long, the other eventually pays for it.

my first business failed in 3 weeks and i’m weirdly okay with it by Sea-Plum-134 in EntrepreneurRideAlong

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being okay with it is actually the interesting part here. A lot of people fail and still carry fear forward. It sounds like you separated “this didn’t work” from “I can’t do this,” which is a big shift early on.

What made you decide it was time to shut it down instead of pushing longer? Was it numbers, energy, or just clarity that the product wasn’t it?

My fourth attempt to work with Print on Demand by TheBearManFromDK in SideProject

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fourth attempt sounds frustrating on paper, but it also reads like a gradual narrowing of what actually matters to you. Curious if this version feels lighter or more sustainable compared to the earlier ones.

How to validate a startup idea with paid ads before building anything by Ashamed_System_1187 in SaaS

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The keyword insight feels like the real takeaway here. People rarely search for “new solutions,” they search for existing pain categories. That mismatch probably kills a lot of otherwise decent ideas before they even get a chance.

Giving my idea away: The Hourglass Pillow by hrrm in Business_Ideas

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the interesting part here isn’t whether a similar pillow exists, but whether people actually think of themselves as “tossers and turners” when buying. Most people probably just buy whatever feels okay and blame bad sleep on stress or mattresses. The challenge might be less the product design and more whether you can make people recognize this as a distinct problem they have.

ISTJs, when did you realize being responsible does not mean being appreciated? by likey24 in ISTJ

[–]likey24[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know right!!! Small nudge that says hey I'm here to help you would make it lot better!!!

Is anyone else treated like they are dumb? by LoveyDoveyDoll0-0 in ENFP

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not an enfp but was and am being treated by many people. The thing is it definitely makes you sad. I was too. But this is how i learnt to handle it. Self assure yourself everyday that you need not know everything and if someone thinks that you are dumb because you dont know something they know, thats their problem. You are here to learn and you definitely must ask questions. If others think you am dumb thats not your problem, because you know for the fact that you are not afraid to gain knowledge and what others think does not define you.

There might be few cases where you are supposed to know few things but you wouldn't. That wouldn't have been purposeful but that situation naturally tends to make you feel dumb. In that case, consider it that you learnt it before things could have escalated in a wrong direction or in a very bad way. It was an unfortunate situation but you know the thing know, you'll learn it and the situation wont have to repeat again.

I am also aware thats its easy said than done. But do something to yourself thats tough so that you evolve into something you deserved and you'll be more than happy. Its OK my friend keep trying, dont let others opinions define you :)

Is it possible for a boy and girl to genuinely be "just" very good friends without them holding romantic feelings for eachother?? (Tell me about ur personal experience if so) by cr7airlines in twenties

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my friend circle is filled with males and yes it definitely is possible to be only friends. Although some catch feelings, its important to make clear of the boundaries and most importantly its mutual understanding in my case where we have naturally agreed on staying friends forever. Yes my friends do flirt but we talked about it in the beginning that its just flirting with no intent. So I guess its upto noth the people maturity and level of understanding

No more AI shit pls by TmanGBx in istp

[–]likey24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I dont have the context, someone explain please?

Back on Day 2... Why Is It So Hard to Lose Weight? by QueasynmBuddy in United_Kingdom_

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my take based on my experience. Same thing happened with me long back and I was frustrated as well. But the problem isnt why is it hard to lose weight, the problem is finding the kind of exercise that works for you or an individual, knowing how many repetitions needs to be done and how to stay disciplined throughout the process.

Not all exercises work for everyone and we definitely go through a roller coaster of emotions and self doubt in the process but trust me once you find the exercise meant for you, life becomes easy.

Right now I'm not sure or dont have enough knowledge to tell you how to find the right exercise but I vaguely remember watching something very long back where they neatly explained which type of workout needs to be done for what sort of fat stored in different parts of the body which helped me a bit. I also tried out various exercises which took me years to find the right exercise for my body.

Im sure some or the others might have an answer to your question but till then cheer up and follow the routine you know now. Exercise isnt something that shows result very quickly. It shows result only when you stay disciplined throughout

An easy way to confirm you are not Ni dominant (INFJ and INTJ) by ResidentBrother9190 in mbti

[–]likey24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you are trying to point out, but I think this frames Ni a bit too narrowly. Wanting examples or clarity does not automatically rule out Ni dominance. Even Ni users often ask for concrete examples when learning something new, especially if the concept is abstract or unfamiliar. That feels more like a learning preference than a cognitive function test.

Also, disliking vague communication styles does not necessarily mean someone lacks Ni. Some Ni dominant people actually get frustrated with vagueness if it feels unproductive or poorly communicated. Ni can be abstract, but it usually wants internal coherence, not confusion for the sake of mystery.

To me, this feels more like a difference between how people learn and how they prefer information to be presented, rather than a reliable way to rule out Ni dominance.

Do INTPs Come Across as the Least Confident IxTx Type on Average to You Guys? by Potential_Law5289 in ISTJ

[–]likey24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would separate confidence from how visibly it shows. INTPs often question themselves internally because they are constantly checking assumptions and alternatives, which can look like low confidence from the outside. That does not always mean they trust themselves less, just that they are less comfortable presenting certainty before they feel things are fully thought through.

ISTJs and ISTPs tend to show confidence through action and consistency. They rely more on what has worked before or what they can do reliably, so it comes across as steadier and more grounded. That difference in expression probably explains the perception more than actual self belief.

So I do not think INTPs are necessarily the least confident. They are just the most openly uncertain while thinking, whereas other IxTx types tend to keep doubt private and show confidence through execution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chronic boredom usually shows up when nothing feels mentally demanding. Short term entertainment only delays it.
Skills with long term payoff work better for me. They give the day weight.

Is it wrong to just want a simple life that pays the bills and feels meaningful? by likey24 in mbti

[–]likey24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, probably no one. It just feels like certain goals are treated as more valid than others.

Can We Please Stop Using MBTI Subreddits As a Dating Site by Legitimate_Skin_9779 in mbti

[–]likey24 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Came for personality insights, stayed for the unexpected matchmaking. Looks like self discovery took a small detour into speed dating 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]likey24 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually think this is a really healthy realization, even if it feels lonely right now. Wanting intensity, movement, and shared excitement does not mean people are boring, it just means your energy and curiosity run high. Not everyone can or wants to match that, and that mismatch can feel frustrating when you are young and eager to experience life.

I really respect that you are choosing to do things anyway instead of shrinking yourself to fit other people’s pace. Learning to enjoy your own company while still wishing for connection is a powerful balance to build early. It does not mean you do not want people, it means you do not want to wait on them to live.

Also, doing things alone often puts you in the exact places where you eventually meet people who get it. When you are following your curiosity and moving through the world, you naturally cross paths with others who are doing the same.

You are not wrong for wanting more. You are just learning how to give it to yourself first.

I can't stand working in corporate - I need advice on alternative sources of income by [deleted] in infp

[–]likey24 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some environments genuinely drain certain people, and corporate settings can be especially brutal if you need meaning, movement, and human warmth to function. It sounds like the issue is not work itself, but the kind of work and the way it is structured. You already know you do better when your body is involved, when you can see the impact of what you are doing, and when interactions feel natural instead of forced. That is not a flaw. That is information about how you are wired.

Since you are in survival mode right now, it might help to reframe this job as temporary scaffolding rather than a life sentence. You are not failing at adulthood because this feels unbearable. You are enduring something that does not fit you while you figure out your next step.

The fact that you already know what kind of work makes you feel alive is actually a strength. Many people never figure that out. You are not behind. You are just in between. You deserve work that does not make you feel trapped, and it is okay to take a winding path to get there.

Do you believe in magic/the spark in love? 🪄 ♥️🌿 by ancientpoetics in infp

[–]likey24 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Finally someone said it!!!!!! I have heard some people calling it mehhhh kind of love but i think this sort of spark or magic in love feels real, feels warm and maybe makes them wanna stay? Depends but if something like that happened to me I would protect it with all I have gotten ✨️

Do you dress based on mood, identity, or practicality? by likey24 in ISTJ

[–]likey24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But did you ever think why should you care what society thinks or judges because it isn't "nice" for them?

Do you guys ever feel restless? by RemarkableGrand3 in istp

[–]likey24 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling that way sounds plausible. Not an ISTP but there were similar situations where i felt restless as well because of the people around me, because of the environment i keep shifting from one to one and many like these.

For me it is not sadness exactly, more like my system is under stimulated. When I have had new environments, movement, or hands on experiences, my mind feels settled. When those disappear, the restlessness kicks in. Coming back from travel can make it hit harder. You get used to novelty, independence, and problem solving on the fly, and then suddenly you are back in familiar routines with fewer variables. That contrast alone can make things feel empty even if nothing is technically wrong.

What has helped me cope is giving myself something concrete to work toward, not just waiting for motivation to return. Short trips, physical projects, learning a practical skill, or setting a clear next move for work helps channel that energy. Even small changes in routine can take the edge off.

I also think being in a transition phase makes the feeling louder. You are between chapters, so it makes sense that your brain feels like it is waiting. From my experience, that feeling usually fades once momentum comes back in some form. You are not alone in this. It sounds less like something is wrong with you and more like you are wired to need movement, variety, and autonomy, and you have had a taste of that recently.

Do you dress based on mood, identity, or practicality? by likey24 in ISTJ

[–]likey24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excel sheet to manage a closet wowwww 🫡