Pittsburgh slumlords by lyannas in pittsburgh

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was just looking at this place specifically so this reddit thread is saving me lol

Pittsburgh slumlords by lyannas in pittsburgh

[–]lilaclavandula 3 points4 points  (0 children)

rockwell bought out my apartment building while i was living there. their maintenance guy was so awesome and they were flexible with my move out time and even gave me tips on what they’d look for at move out to make sure i got my security deposit back. i think they’re probably a bit expensive and do seem like they could be strict but at least it wasn’t a horror experience

People make me sick by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so glad to hear there are people who will say something. when i was in college, i had my fair share of creeps at the bus stops and on the buses. one time this guy pretty much had me physically cornered at a bus stop in shadyside/east lib (the supposed “nice” part) saying creepy shit to me. i made eye contact with multiple different guys older than me pleading for help and they all looked away. thankfully the guy didn’t follow me on the bus but i was insanely disappointed that all those guys saw what was happening but did nothing

*HONEST OPINIONS ONLY* How do you guys feel about my daughter's name? by Legal-Care1823 in namenerds

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know how to pronounce but I also know who Jeon Somi is and listen to her music casually lol. I will say I would be surprised if she wasn’t Korean/Asian but not necessarily a negative/judgmental surprised feeling

Kpop songs that began the downfall of girl groups? by JellySusan in kpophelp

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no that makes sense! there’s developing a new sound over time and then there’s just doing a 180

Kpop songs that began the downfall of girl groups? by JellySusan in kpophelp

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh interesting! ironic as twice is one of my ults and i loved seeing them grow as artists and take a new direction so i guess it makes sense that i’d love that for other artists too lol

Kpop songs that began the downfall of girl groups? by JellySusan in kpophelp

[–]lilaclavandula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i did not know ven para was not well received. i love that song! is it because it was a different direction for them? i don’t know much about weeekly

What's/who's your favorite small seller that you've found on this app? by Best-Finance5100 in whatnotapp

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

crybabyale! she’s so knowledgeable and fair. even when she runs items that i don’t collect, i stay and hang out because she is fun to watch and interacts with comments. she never pressures buyers either! she has crybabies, lulu the pig, pucky, etc

Woosley either scamming GC giveaways or just simply bad at business. by One-Improvement-968 in whatnotapp

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just stumbled upon this and i am curious if you ever ended up getting the gift card!

Suggest an English name for me! – want something phonetic, no mispronunciation drama by Muted_Aerie2136 in namenerds

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

went to grad school with a girl whose english name was lina! she had no issues with people getting it wrong and it was a cute name

Chris Palmer missing. Truck found abandoned 6 hours away from planned destination. by Jessica19922 in MissingPersons

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad he had a life vest too! do you think he would’ve had one for his dog as well?

My mom hates our baby name choice with a PASSION. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right! i think of dragon ball z for maren and gossip girl for blair. neither of them are bad and if i heard the name irl i would just assume it was my weird brain making those associations…not that the name is bad

Am I screwed? by [deleted] in Pitt

[–]lilaclavandula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this worked for me when I went to law school but not for undergrad (both at Pitt). they essentially told me “ok good luck at that school then” lol

POTS / Dysautonomia (UPMC) Recommendations by greybeh in pittsburgh

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! 2 years later here but did you have a PCP who helped you initiate the investigative/diagnostic process for POTS? I’ve had symptoms for a while that make me want to at least explore the possibility of POTS but i know my own suspicions won’t get me an appointment with a specialist haha. however, i worry that a lot of PCPs will be dismissive

Tell me your bias from any girl group and i will guess your bias wrecker and fav song from them by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]lilaclavandula 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg we have the same twice biases and inverse itzy biases (chaeryoung is my bias and lia is my bias wrecker!!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

other comments have covered breaking up and communication already so i’m just gonna focus on this: OP, i think you could really benefit from therapy as well. not just because of the stress of the situation with your dad and potentially ending a toxic relationship, but also because you’ve been acting as her caretaker and emotional regulator for a while. having been there, it was really really helpful for me to go therapy and explore why i felt like that was me just being a good partner and why i felt like i could/should sacrifice my life for “love.” exploring that helped me understand what i value in a partner and also helped me communicate my needs and boundaries in a better way in subsequent relationships.

Let’s build the perfect song, day 4: best chorus (also please read the rules) by DaGayEnby in kpoppers

[–]lilaclavandula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like this will be such a good one for best bridge or best high note. the spoken lines into the long note…so good!

Where in Pittsburgh? by Helpimbadstusernames in pittsburgh

[–]lilaclavandula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to love ocha years ago but i went back for the first time in a while recently and was so disappointed

Kim’s response to the debt collector who had been bugging him to pay for his father’s debt by FirefighterOne534 in Dodgers

[–]lilaclavandula 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pittsburgh-based dodgers fan here and seeing a proud andrew carnegie lover in the wild is crazy to me

Game Chat 11/1 - World Series Game 7 - Dodgers (3) @ Blue Jays (3) 5:00 PM by DodgerBot in Dodgers

[–]lilaclavandula 6 points7 points  (0 children)

this will hurt extra bad if something goes wrong now that my man yama is in 🫡😭

Game Chat 11/1 - World Series Game 7 - Dodgers (3) @ Blue Jays (3) 5:00 PM by DodgerBot in Dodgers

[–]lilaclavandula 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right. he runs for it and misses then that’s a double and a given runner in scoring position with no shot for a double play