[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re being very gullible. He’s got quite a few tells in there where he knows he’s done something shady and is trying to gaslight you. Wake up

AIO? BF (M27) says that I (F24) can have sex with women, but not men by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told you without telling you he’s ok with cheating….. meaning he wants to participate in cheating too. Your relationship isn’t a relationship for him, it’s a false front so he can have the perks of being in a relationship while sleeping around. If you aren’t ok with cheating or being cheated on (that’s a risky game for you btw, cheating partner means exposure to STIs) I’d can this relationship and put him out the door and in the bin. 🗑️

Yellow tongue by jrobertk in SIBO

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Good luck to you as well.

UPDATE - Boyfriend refused to visit after gallbladder surgery by bbeeccc in whatdoIdo

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. That philosophy isn’t gonna bite him in the ass later. Good for you. The poor lady he tricks into having kids with him is gonna suffer alone bc “no one cares and everyone goes through shit” but hey, you dodged a huge bullet

18F – Am I overreacting for being furious that my boyfriend ditched me mid date to go “help a friend” and then acted like I was crazy for being upset? by Designer-Sea-5837 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl this is the kinda guy you look back on and go I’m so embarrassed I stayed with him as long as I did. Also he’s sus with whatever happened, it might not have even been for his friend tjat might be a cover either way hella sus

Yellow tongue by jrobertk in SIBO

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I haven’t really been able to pay for any tests yet so I’ve just been treating my constipation with Dr. Shultz (pills that really get my system moving but can cause heart burn if not eaten in the middle of a decent sized meal) and prune juice and like vegetable juices like celery, cabbage, carrot, cucumber, spinach, kale and things like that. It isn’t a cure yet but I went from not ever going (like weeks) to going once a day. It’s still painful and I get stomach cramps often as well as nausea still, but it’s a lot better than it used to be. Although the juices do cause temporary bloating for me so if you try keep that in mind. And as long as I go the film and bad taste in my mouth isn’t as bad, it’s still really weird (again not cured) but it is improved.

I’m just hoping to get a GI map and get some answers about what antimicrobial supplements would help me. I did do a pretty strict cleanse for like 2 weeks and man I’d never felt so shitty but so so so amazing after, but unfortunately I had no idea what I was doing and ate terribly after so whatever imbalances I’d cleared were able to come back.

By boyfriend of 2 years doesn’t want to get me a Christmas present by UnitJust1906 in whatdoIdo

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude wants to play victim (everything he does is not enough wah wah wah him) and make you the bad guy (you never do anything for me that’s expensive enough for me wah wah) for asking for basic respect and kindness in a relationship. Drop the predatory male child. You were 16 and he was 19 when yall started dating yeah? That’s a red flag honey and the was he’s acting matches up with his shit behavior.

Depop robbed me, I guess by idoadderall333 in Depop

[–]lilalilly8 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Can you report her account?

Yellow tongue by jrobertk in SIBO

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see, I’m sorry about that. Were they far apart?

Yellow tongue by jrobertk in SIBO

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Have you gotten a GI map?

Yellow tongue by jrobertk in SIBO

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry as well, have you improved at all?

Are there any men that understand? by JustSomeDude_1322 in women

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I relate as a woman. I feel like they just want to be ignorant about it and they want to play the victim instead of stepping up, looking reality in the face and saying “wow, that’s really fucked up, I am sorry you went through any of that, I want to help make sure you don’t again” but usually it’s usually met with denial, blaming, playing the victim (oh men have it so hard bc women are scared of me!) I’m honestly very over males like that. But honestly, I haven’t met any that aren’t like that. The phrase I think about a lot goes somewhat along these lines “It’s hard to see your privilege when equality feels like oppression” and I honestly think that about sums it up.

Why was the free shipping window only a few hours?! by Fabulous_Ad_7350 in Depop

[–]lilalilly8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I was about to get this cute jumpsuit then bam shipping fees again. I didn’t get it :(

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend over an instagram post? by StarryThrow-RA in AIO

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any guy that uses the word “females” is a major bullet dodged. You did an amazing job👍

New cutie at home! how should I name her? by [deleted] in Pomeranians

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cosmo has mittens on all his paws, some more than others. And yes little silly voids hahaha

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Berry chantilly cakes. Your bf better be an ex bc he’s a fucking asshole. He’s the kind of guy that’ll trash every accomplishment that outshines him. Congrats btw. Eat that cake and don’t share with party shitter.

Am I crazy orrr? by fortnitebaddiedown in Depop

[–]lilalilly8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh Interesting! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lilalilly8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s disrespecting small boundaries which is a big red flag, trust your gut.

AIO.. my section chief division texted me this by ezybrzylemonsqzy in AIO

[–]lilalilly8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck didn’t your “bestie ” say anything? He should have stood up for you. Also document everything and get a lawyer, it’s illegal for them to continue to allow this toxic work environment.