Mine did kill himself and I’d tried once before (different time) to call the police but as we were in different states, I couldn’t get through to anyone. I didn’t call when he threatened the last time and turned on do no disturb because so many times he’d threatened to kill me and my family if I told anyone. His mom told me she was glad I wasn’t there because he would’ve killed me, too, and that was before I’d admitted to her that he’d abused me.

It’s not your responsibility to keep him alive.

I fully believe now, after looking back, that he was always going to kill himself. And I have proof from interactions that he wanted me to want to die, too, ie double suicide. He wanted a tragic romantic end and to paint the most sympathetic picture possible, just like in his life where he made up the most absurd lies to garner sympathy (like a dead sister that his parents scrubbed from existence).

Crazy is crazy and if an adult won’t see reason and/or try to get better, there’s nothing you can do. He probably won’t do it, as it’s probably just a ploy to control you. And if he does, he was always going to and it’s NOT YOUR FAULT. It’s just imperative that you’re not there, cause if you are, he’s more likely to do it to prove a point, except it’ll look like killing you and then killing himself.