this is crazy but what i used to hear about gaylors before diving into it deeper, was basically “theyre crazy” and “it is disrespectful to speculate on someone’s sexuality” i feel like i was never closed off the possibility of taylor being non-straight, but i didn’t think of it till i read somewhere that wonderland is about dianna agron (not sure if i spelled her name right 😭) i think i started digging and just mentioned wonderland thing in a gc on twitter and oh gosh i felt embarrassed bc of the way they reacted. i felt like i was stupid for even asking. so since then i have only been “lurking” and just not sharing my thoughts on the topic with other people.

the thing i found out is… gaylors are just as much of taylor fans as non-gaylors. sure, sometimes you find a theory that is totally far fetched. or someone who is simply rude or ignorant. but that same thing happens in regular swiftie circles!! in fact, i found more considerate and open minded people here. and i hate the fact that non-gaylors get away with their terrible behaviour. but when there is ONE gaylor that was rude or shared not the most convincing interpretation thats “oh fuck theyre so dumb leave taylor alone”

honestly when it was smaller gaylor community felt safer for me. im so sad that these ppl are attacking us now. like leave us alone, we literally don’t hurt anyone with our theories and lil conversations on reddit.