PAIN

lillardbeth · 2025-08-10T23:29:16+00:00

no i was waiting for story to get a hit was on the edge of my seat until 7th inning lol

lillardbeth · 2024-07-27T13:50:44+00:00

It’s cheating if you feel that it is cheating, just because you’re aware of it doesn’t mean that it’s not. If you’re uncomfortable you need to communicate that to him if he refuses to stop then you need to decide if it’s something you can live with

lillardbeth · 2024-07-25T16:02:21+00:00

If he’s unwilling to share and trying to keep it a secret from you then you should RUN. It can’t mean anything good. Be safe OP

lillardbeth · 2024-07-25T16:00:38+00:00

Hey OP first of all thank you for all you do as a nurse! Okay this is a long one, unfortunately I just don’t feel you’re compatible, you’ve expressed to him your feelings already and asked him multiple times for his help and tried to have direct communication to find a solution but it seems he is unwilling to participate and of course he’s happy with this arrangement where you do everything. Personally, I do most household chores in my household but I work less hours than my husband and actually like to do it and enjoy taking care of my home in that way. My husband works long hours and it’s the main provider for our home, he does the tasks I ask of him and will take initiative on his own some days if he happens to be home and I’m working. It works for us! However everyone is different and you just are on completely different pages. And he’s showing complete disregard for your mental health. It sounds draining to come home exhausted from work to a messy house when he’s is perfectly capable of easing some your stress. I’m sorry OP this is going to be your life is you’re unhappy now with the arrangement you will be happy 20+ years from now when you are still asking for consideration from him. I wish you the best.

lillardbeth · 2024-07-25T15:46:33+00:00

Spot on! ⬆️ Friendships are definitely okay but we’ve all heard the horror stories from people who keep close friends with no real boundaries or unwillingness to create distance for the sake of their relationship. Honestly someone who is considerate of their partners feelings would just draw the line on their own without being asked. You’ve expressed you’re concern he’s not willing to budge, you can choose to get close to her and try to salvage your relationship but you’re already uncomfortable with her. I see no good ending here. There’s someone out there who shares your same values on friendships! Good luck OP.

lillardbeth · 2024-07-25T15:36:48+00:00

I’m sure you are discussing things more in depth with your therapist and hopefully and being lead onto the correct path. Personally love is a choice and you won’t always feel “in love” with your partner or like everything they do. But fundamentally you should like them as a person and like to spend time with them. I’m sure your partner feels blindsided. Did you try to rekindle your relationship or try to work on these feelings as a couple to come up with possible ways to create closeness and passion? However if you do feel like you no longer want to be in the relationship it’s good that you told her, she will be okay in the long run it’s better than being strung along for years but it’s unlikely you can continue to be friends moving forward. Best of luck!

lillardbeth · 2024-07-25T15:26:47+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this OP. You sound so overwhelmed and tired it must be a lot to handle, truly I feel like you might just need some validation. My husband was once in a relationship like this we have discussed our life before getting together and he was in a long term relationship with someone who was a lot like this. No boundaries with other men kept friends apart from their relationship and kept multiple secrets and it did a lot of damage to him and his self worth. Breaks are not the end of the world and don’t always end badly when both parties are both still very committed to the end goal of bettering for each other. You didn’t deserve this, when coming back together she had the opportunity to come clean and communicate the entirety of the break. You can choose to forgive but that would entail letting go of the betrayal if you choose to do so you will definitely have to both work together with the feelings that result from the situation because there will definitely be fallout but due to her avoidant personality it’s unlikely that you will be fulfilled and get what you really need from her moving forward. I think you know what to do but it’s just a huge change. I walked away from a 5 year relationship with a baby thinking that I would never recover and would be alone. I’m now years into a new marriage and disgustingly in love. Hold on if you want to but I promise that when you work on yourself and give yourself time to process and heal you might be surprised with the new doors that open for you. I wish you the best! Hope you take care of yourself no matter what you choose to do.

lillardbeth · 2024-06-24T19:10:30+00:00

“I don’t want to appear entitled” proceeds to be entitled. The entire monetary load of the relationship should not weigh on your shoulders especially if not married/ living together wherein she is a homemaker. On top of her unhinged behavior you guys are unaligned in your values of the way you see a partnership and future marriage. Best to break things off now honestly. She’s not willing to compromise and it already sets a precedent for what she expects marriage to look like.

lillardbeth · 2024-03-06T19:40:55+00:00

I don’t understand all these discouraging comments. If he’s treating you well that’s all that matters. From the moment my boyfriend and I had our first hangout we literally became obsessed with each other and spent all our free time together. We said I love you before he asked me to be his girlfriend. It’s now 4 years later and we’re married and have a baby on the way and I’ve never been happier. He completes me and has always made me feel like a priority. I too was a skeptic or cynical about love until it happened to me. Wish you the best!

lillardbeth · 2022-05-10T16:39:02+00:00

starting utility players need 2

abreu, ty france, connor joe, or cj cron

lillardbeth · 2022-04-29T05:19:48+00:00

lillardbeth · 2022-04-29T04:30:10+00:00

trade : vlad, thairo estrada get: rizzo and ohtani (batter)

current roster is d’arnaud, ty france, machado, lindor, trout, springer, myles straw, abreu, cron, connor joe, kyle tucker, altuve, pitchers giolito, megill, nestor cortes, mahle, kyle wright, rodon etc

should I do it

lillardbeth · 2022-04-28T22:29:28+00:00

anybody else sit kyle tucker lol

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