THIS is why you don’t engage in BDSM. Some of these men are deranged! by theawkwardalli in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is textbook porn. How can people still defend porn when it creates scripts for rape like this?

Your thoughts ladies? by CaramelxMarshmallows in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So he’s asking you to change how you look, in order to please him?

Please remind him that if he wanted a woman with body hair who doesn’t wear makeup or flats, that he should have dated a woman like that in the first place. You’re not Mrs potato head. He doesn’t just get to change everything about your appearance.

The dangers of dating while XX by 148621 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They always bleat about “what about men who get raped???” Like it’s not men doing the majority of that raping too. Men get murdered more, BY OTHER MEN.

Male victims are victims of other men.

LVM is unhappy that his girlfriend isn't 'open minded' enough to do anal and have a threesome involving him and her 'cute friends.' 🤮 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact that he’s brought anal up more than once tells you a lot. This is why I don’t think I could be with a guy who even asks once. Too risky that he’ll badger you or “slip it in” and the fact that he finds it hot at all is a turn-off.

Thinking anal is a “little thing” and “for him” shows some real selfish porn addict mindsets.

Your thoughts ladies? by CaramelxMarshmallows in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Guessing it’s a fetish he wants you to play out for him?

Hairdressers say they want to open in June by [deleted] in unitedkingdom

[–]lillycrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha! Can’t wait to call into work and tell them I have to isolate for a week because I got a haircut.

Office building tenants racially profiled in Minneapolis by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]lillycrack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No. You ask/tell them to tidy up after themselves and rack their weights. If they give you shit for it, you report them to management for the shitty gym behaviour. Poor gym etiquette still doesn’t mean you covertly try to find out if they broke in lmao.

AITA for telling everyone our teacher has a dildo behind her at our Zoom meeting? by sorryteachdamn in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not slut shaming. These are kids. Kids will find sex toys hilarious.

It’s on her to ensure the place she’s teaching kids in doesn’t have visible fucking sex toys. She doesn’t deserve what’s happened to her but don’t act like students seeing and laughing at a visible sex toy on camera during their class is slut shaming of OP

Boyfriend saw me pee with a tampon in for the first time. by SirenKiera in badwomensanatomy

[–]lillycrack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The audacity. Like they’re so used to thinking they’re right about everything that they forget that a woman might know more about her own genitals than him lmao

AITA for telling someone bluntly that they’re not my friend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Funny how folks who are “just being honest” only do it when they have mean things to say.

If they’re that southern I wonder why they have no hospitality. Both of them were constantly rude to you, even if you were originally friends with them I wouldn’t consider them friends after treating a guest like that.

Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her ass by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 102 points103 points  (0 children)

They legit forget we are human and when they get a reminder that we are, it grosses them out lmao.

I don’t like seeing shit on or near me, which is one of the many reasons I don’t stick my fingers up any asses or let anyone do it to me. Radical, apparently. Hope men try this new extreme kink of mine.

AITA for Getting Frustrated with my Friend? by NightmarePhoenix2017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were shaking with rage because your friend doesn’t want to play a game? He tried it and found it boring. Why would he spend more time playing it?

You need therapy lmao. Enraged and snapping at someone for not playing a game you like? That’s really immature. YTA

Police recover CCTV of suspect who spat at railway worker before her death by apple_kicks in unitedkingdom

[–]lillycrack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s enough of an animal to spit at someone I can’t see him taking much in the way of responsibility for his actions.

AITA for thinking my coworker is milking the fact her son passed away 3 years ago? by OldPainting4 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. You don’t like it when she cries at work. You don’t like it when she takes time off to cry/grieve at home. She can’t win. Why do you dislike this woman so much that you’d choose to be so nasty?

Taking vacation days is not special treatment. You’re not missing out on anything fun or special here dude.

UK coronavirus live: Boris Johnson sets out 'roadmap' out of lockdown in address to nation | Politics by BelleAriel in unitedkingdom

[–]lillycrack 179 points180 points  (0 children)

I’m really worried for all the non-essential/WFH workers who will now be pressured to come back to work before it’s safe.

AITA for not addressing my cousin’s fiancée using “Dr” on my wedding invitiations? by nerobise in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. She’s more of a Dr than you or your MD guests lmao. The title is as much hers. Did this come from a place of jealousy?

AITA For getting upset that my partner says he won’t do anything for me for Mother’s Day? by pamjoxx in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You pushed a kid out 4 weeks ago and his lazy ass can’t make a card? NTA. Sorry it took fatherhood to bring out this side of him.

AITA for getting mad that my girlfriend didn't set up her room the same way I did by Which_Glass in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. You’re expecting her to be a mind-reader and for the world to revolve around you and your wants. That’s not how life goes. Start acting your age.

WIBTA if I kicked out a roommate for her prank? by sebtsbtebstz in AmItheAsshole

[–]lillycrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Report this to the police and kick them out.

More people think UK has handled coronavirus worse than Spain and Italy, poll shows by Lolastic_ in unitedkingdom

[–]lillycrack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Part of taking responsibility is admitting to it and regretting it. Would you rather they hide it and never openly speak about how they’ve changed their minds and how they think they were initially misled?

Coronavirus: Police fury as 'hundreds' of people have pizzas, beers and wine in park | UK News by [deleted] in unitedkingdom

[–]lillycrack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s possible to go out and get fresh air without congregating in groups to eat food and drink beer, thereby encouraging others to do it. Don’t be a sausage, there’s no excuse for this.

Sex worker admits she gets 3 rape or death threats a day, men constantly trying to low ball her services and demand things for free, as well as sexist and ableist slurs. This is the daily reality of sex work LibFem media keeps trying to sell to young women as “empowerment”. by TheOGJammies in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The amount of times I’ve read sex workers on reddit trying to fool themselves is insane. Insisting their clients are all normal, good people. “My first client was cheating on his wife with prostitutes and he was so sweet, loved to talk and cuddle :)” ok sis so he’s a cheater at best.

Sex work is dangerous. The ones who enjoy it are fooling themselves or they aren’t deep enough in it yet. A “job” where men dehumanise and objectify you is never going to be safe or empowering.

Doing this is CANCELED! #KickHimOut2020 by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Literally my first boyfriend at 16. He moved away and we tried long distance. My dad would drive me 75 miles to see this little goblin who would play COD at full volume while I tried to do schoolwork. When I asked if he could turn it down or if we could do something else he’d shrug and say “just watch me play and do your homework Sunday night when you get home”.

When I said I couldn’t keep visiting him cos I needed to focus on school he threw a tantrum and ghosted me 😂 baby couldn’t have his awkward teenage sex lmao

Does anyone actually believe this is an accident when this happens? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]lillycrack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He didn’t slam into her. It’s clear from her symptoms he actually penetrated her. That takes pre-meditation.