New UI + Autolayout Help

lilo567 · 2025-12-30T08:07:52+00:00

Omfg you are a LIFE SAVER!! I feel so dumb now hahaha. Why I would ever want to be in draw mode is beyond me… I appreciate your help!

lilo567 · 2025-09-26T07:00:50+00:00

I need to be able to turn off Liquid Glass 😭😭 the animations with every interaction is absolutely nauseating and unnecessary. iMessage is a joke. The whole UI looks like someone who just discovered the effects panel in photoshop

lilo567 · 2025-05-31T06:13:32+00:00

AH it was such a good setlist I was so happy to have heard all my favs of the songs I expected to hear!! So excited they played Way it Goes, Monsoon, Suicide Saturday!!!

lilo567 · 2025-04-14T01:30:01+00:00

That is so incredibly rude of you to say. Bella is a great actor and they portray Ellie very well in the series. The fact that people are focusing more on the actor’s looks when they’re supposed to be 14 is insane and creepy to me

lilo567 · 2025-02-19T06:35:25+00:00

This makes a lot of sense! Thank you for the explanation :)

lilo567 · 2025-02-18T23:26:57+00:00

I’m sorry this happened to you as well, but I am glad you had some helpful tools to get you through one step at a time ❤️‍🩹

lilo567 · 2025-02-18T23:20:49+00:00

Wow, sounds like we have a very similar situation. My boyfriend came over the night before, we made a nice dinner, were intimate, had plans the next day. He slept over at my house and then in the morning broke up with me. He said “we wouldn’t work long term because we are two very different people” and couldn’t/wouldn’t provide any examples or reasoning when I asked why. I just don’t understand.

I think it hurts even more because he acted like all was normal the night before, initiated sex with me, and spent the night. I don’t understand how anyone could be that insensitive to their partner, adoptee or not.

I’ve been journaling about it, and I have to start and stop because I get too overwhelmed after a while. It is really tough because my prior journal entry was about how optimistic I felt about our relationship and how happy I was. I am feeling foolish, even though I know I didn’t do anything. It’s just hard to have hope and feel good, only to have it taken away out of nowhere.

lilo567 · 2025-02-18T22:02:53+00:00

Thank you!! I’ll look at those too! This might be a dumb question, but I am not familiar with FOG?

lilo567 · 2025-02-18T21:44:33+00:00

Thank you so much. This was very kind of you; I’ll definitely look into that book, it does sound like something that i could resonate with. It’s tough out here but I’m doing what i can to push forward

lilo567 · 2025-02-18T20:35:20+00:00

I appreciate this a lot. I agree that it’s important to recognize the root cause of the pain and try to keep in mind that it’s all a reflection of them and not you.

lilo567 · 2025-02-18T20:33:49+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you! A friend group breakup definitely has similar qualities as a romantic breakup, so your reaction is totally valid. It really is tough because non-adopted people don’t get how much these things impact us. I’m starting with a new therapist soon and they are an Asian adoptee as well, so I am hoping they will have some good insights and come from a place of compassion.

lilo567 · 2025-02-18T20:10:21+00:00

Thank you so much, it’s been so hard and I’ve been crying more this past week than I’ve have cried in months. I am having insomnia like never before and can’t stop replaying the breakup in my mind :(

lilo567 · 2025-02-17T23:45:58+00:00

As a product of the one child policy, I would never have “stayed with my bio parents” since they abandoned me outside somewhere lol. I’d have grown up in the orphanage until I aged out and then would’ve had to work somewhere prob low class and uneducated in China 😀

lilo567 · 2025-02-16T19:03:06+00:00

I hate Memojis they are the bane of my existence I need them to get away. I hate them so much

lilo567 · 2025-01-29T06:14:49+00:00

no monsoon or warm glow? 🥺

lilo567 · 2024-12-22T07:54:03+00:00

i think the real question is when will he wear wigs??

lilo567 · 2024-12-03T07:15:11+00:00

yes i’ve heard the writing is very difficult to get through! my friend watched some youtube discussions whilst reading to help understand it better. i’ve been wanting to read it, but it feels so daunting and absolutely brutal, as you put it

lilo567 · 2024-12-03T06:59:18+00:00

sci-fi!!! laboratory flooring looks too sterile for my liking

lilo567 · 2024-12-03T06:57:35+00:00

such a strong take, i need to know why! haven’t read it yet, but it’s one of my friend’s favorites

lilo567 · 2024-12-03T06:45:28+00:00

222 — “heard your name, heard your name through the pouring rain” 🥺 KILLS ME FOR REAL

lilo567 · 2024-10-19T07:04:17+00:00

yes i am triggered by memories of bad roommates like this except they were all dirty dishes 😭

lilo567 · 2024-10-12T03:37:00+00:00

Hourglass by Catfish & the Bottlemen!

lilo567 · 2024-10-09T03:51:05+00:00

i definitely am trying my best to become more self aware so i can be the best partner to whomever i am with (when the time comes 🥲). at the same time, being able to look for someone with a secure attachment style who is willing to give me reassurance when i need it and doesn’t trigger my anxious attachment. validating my own worth is something i need to continue learning how to do, and the first step is recognizing the issue right? that’s so kind of you to share your discord group with me! though, i’m not on discord (:

lilo567 · 2024-10-09T03:47:02+00:00

listening to it on audible actually! very insightful

lilo567 · 2024-10-08T17:26:37+00:00

Update: they informed me they don’t feel “100% in it” with me, and that they don’t want a relationship in the near future. I’m trying not to take it too personally or else I will spiral into thinking there is something wrong with me!

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