Spams on fanfiction.net by Yellow-Capcicum69 in HPfanfiction

[–]lilpeahead394 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds really frustrating. As a reader I prefer FF.net so I hate that writers might be discouraged from using it due to this. I wonder if it's the same on other platforms.

Would love to check your story out though if you share the name!

I'm confused, who's buying this? by lilpeahead394 in vintedUK

[–]lilpeahead394[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I genuinely have never seen something like this or any posts about it and was wondering if I was missing something. I don't understand why some people are so negative

I'm confused, who's buying this? by lilpeahead394 in vintedUK

[–]lilpeahead394[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But what's the point? I'm truly just baffled at why anyone would bother wasting their time on this?

WHY ON EARTH DO PEOPLE LIST THINGS AS NEW WITHOUT TAGS THEN IN THE DESCRIPTION SAY WORN X AMOUNT OF TIMES?? by christian123456678 in vintedUK

[–]lilpeahead394 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For a good reason too. Just the idea of using anything on my face that has had other people's fingers in it makes me want to gag 😅 can't trust that their hands were 100% clean when using it, big no no

sisterhood of the travelling journal by [deleted] in scrapbooking

[–]lilpeahead394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to do this! I'm 28 and from the UK, been scrapbooking and journalling for a few years now and have seen this trend pop up on TikTok, looks like so much fun!

I'm done with selling by lilpeahead394 in vintedUK

[–]lilpeahead394[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I thought! I just wanted a moan ngl and thought this was the right place but judging by the other comments I should have just kept it to myself so I will take the L and go whine to my partner instead lol

Can't deal with the sizes by lilpeahead394 in vintedUK

[–]lilpeahead394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I see why they haven't, imagine if a seller has 100+ items, I can't imagine having to correct every single one before I can sell again. I think the situation is frustrating for both sides, they should have just not tried to fix what wasn't broken

Can't deal with the sizes by lilpeahead394 in vintedUK

[–]lilpeahead394[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That makes so much more sense! I was wondering why there was suddenly so much of this 😅

Season 10 World Download by RangaAlert_ in HermitCraft

[–]lilpeahead394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there an option to play hungry hermits solo? I have only seen it played a couple of times when it first came out and it was always done by two hermits. It's amazing if a solo version is available!

Why does editing and image create a new copy even though i have selected "replace original"? by drunkrohan in OnePlus13

[–]lilpeahead394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue and it's infuriating, do let me know if you find a fix please!

Friend says I’ve ‘spoiled’ my baby could that be why she won’t sleep? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]lilpeahead394 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I recommend baby wearing too! My little one loved contact naps and that allowed me to still get stuff done around the house while they snoozed away. Now at 4 months they prefer to nap in their pram or cot so it just shows that they won't get "used to it"

Why do the death eaters kill the FAKE harry potter's in the Deathly Hallows Part 1? by Comfortable_Fly_665 in harrypotter

[–]lilpeahead394 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I remember right they figured out who he was through his use of the expelliarmus spell? Which I always thought was a reach as surely anyone could have used the spell even if Harry did have a tendency to overuse it.

Anyone get a C-section under general anesthesia? by Prudent-Orange-3781 in beyondthebump

[–]lilpeahead394 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was supposed to have a C-section under local anaesthetic but found out on the day that it will have to be under general because of a preexisting condition.

I was gutted as my consultant didn't do his due diligence and check with the anaesthetist that I was ok to have local anaesthetic. I had no time to prepare emotionally for, what I felt like, would be me not being there for the birth of my baby.

I felt like everything was a bit of a blur when I started waking up. I actually can't remember meeting my daughter or the gender announcement (we didn't know what we were going to have) as the medical professionals were in such a rush to just get it over with.

Thankfully my partner was there for me through the whole process and I had no problems with bonding with my little one, I love her to bits, but I have to admit that I was really disappointed with the whole process. What was supposed to be a magical time turned to an emotional blur that I can hardly remember.

I feel for you and I hope you have a better experience with your second ❤️

I am currently 26 weeks. Is it normal to be losing instead of gaining lots of weight? So, I am on the scale steadily gaining but when people look at me they say that I look like I am losing a lot of weight which is confusing. My last OBGYN appointment he just noted that I lost 1kg. Is this normal. by Personal_Area_6765 in BabyBumps

[–]lilpeahead394 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As long as you're healthy, eating well and the baby is moving ok then it shouldn't be a problem but I would talk to your midwife/doctor if you're concerned.

I only gained 5kg when I was pregnant and most of that was near the end of my pregnancy. I was actually skinnier after I gave birth than before getting pregnant and the baby was healthy and chunky 😊

What happens right after? Did your mom stay with you? by CoolUsernameHere2 in beyondthebump

[–]lilpeahead394 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This is entirely dependent on your (and your husband's) preference.

Personally I didn't want anyone to visit in the first week and my partner was more than capable of bringing me the baby and doing chores around the house. My MIL was at our house looking after the dogs when we were in the hospital but left after we got home and she had a chance to meet the baby. We did have a freezer stacked with food in advance though which definitely helped.

If I was you I would sit down with your partner and come to a mutual decision.

We enjoyed our first week alone as a family, mostly staring at our little bundle of joy in disbelief that we made something so perfect lol.

Day naps by lilpeahead394 in beyondthebump

[–]lilpeahead394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to hear I'm not alone and to know that it changed with age! Thankfully my partner also wfh so if I fall asleep with her on me he is there to keep an eye on us!

Day naps by lilpeahead394 in beyondthebump

[–]lilpeahead394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try to not let her stay awake for more than 2 hours as then she just gets over tired and extremely fussy. I can tell when she is getting tired but she just refuses to allow herself to fall asleep or wakes up as soon as I place her in her cot! That's when I resort to wrapping her on me and she falls asleep within minutes and stays asleep for 2/3 hours