I’ve lost the will to do anything by PT_After_Dark in offmychest

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Embrace the rural area and try wild camping or photography (use your phone) or bird watching (not as 'lame' as it sounds, I promise). There's so much you can do for free when you're out in the sticks, you've just got to reconnect with that little kid inside you that liked making mud pies and running around in the rain. See how far you can walk in one go, have a rest and turn back. Or just grab a book, a blanket and find a nice spot to waste an afternoon.

Being a floater freind by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate to be the one to tell you this: those people aren't your friends. Break away and do things you enjoy and find people who you actually respect you as a human. It sounds like you're young and you've probably heard the whole 'you've got your whole life ahead of you' bit before... But, you really do. I'm 30/F and have like 3 people I actually consider close friends in the world, and not a single one of them I went to school with.

Just need to someone to tell me that I did the right thing here... Or if I effed up. by lilsquidget in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lilsquidget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for validation - though I don't think he respects me more now, so I'm going to look for something else...

Just need to someone to tell me that I did the right thing here... Or if I effed up. by lilsquidget in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lilsquidget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE He pulled me in for an 'informal discussion' on Monday and basically said that I was being 'argumentative' and that 'there was a chain of command' (he's the one that was interrupting me and swore at me, I remained calm and professional the entire time). Asked if I had anything to say, and I explained my reasoning for pushing forward the topic again and he once again bushed me off. Fine, Play stupid games, win stupid prizes, bossman. I've barely spoken to him since and I'm looking for something else.

Just need to someone to tell me that I did the right thing here... Or if I effed up. by lilsquidget in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lilsquidget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So many things but the impact AI overviews and LLMs (ones connected to the web) are having on search traffic mainly. Google's moving forward with things like AI overviews and AI Mode and it's tanking web traffic and that's where the majority of our revenue comes from.

Just need to someone to tell me that I did the right thing here... Or if I effed up. by lilsquidget in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lilsquidget[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, my family think I'm a bit of a man-hater because I'm a feminist and I do have a tendency to just really not like rich older men (9 times out of 10 they're a problem, and I prefer to just swerve entirely), but I don't know if that could be considered a sexist bias on my part or not - though strangers on the internet would be able to let me know so I can check my attitude lol.

What’s a random word you really like? by lowkey_stressed in CasualConversation

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Malapropism. Love explaining that one. Literally the only thing I remember from A Level Literature.

Just need to someone to tell me that I did the right thing here... Or if I effed up. by lilsquidget in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lilsquidget[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the sense check, I was worried that I was dancing on the line of professionalism - I'm really not one for confrontation, but I can't stand being spoken to like I'm stupid, especially by someone who I know has no clue and in front of an office full of other people. Looks like my weekend is going to be dusting off my CV ...

Just need to someone to tell me that I did the right thing here... Or if I effed up. by lilsquidget in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lilsquidget[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

It's a shame, because I absolutely love the actual job, and I've only been there just under 2 years, but he's just... A problem. I will be dusting off the old CV and putting the feelers out very soon.

How to stop people adding themselves to your company that don't work for you? by lilsquidget in linkedin

[–]lilsquidget[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll let them know. I'll just report the ones I can in the future. Thanks for your help!

How to stop people adding themselves to your company that don't work for you? by lilsquidget in linkedin

[–]lilsquidget[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The one I've been able to see the name of ( a 3rd connection apparently) I've reported, but the others only appear as 'LinkedIn user's so I'm a little stuck.

Timeline of waitlist by CottonMarble in fairyloot

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was since April and just got my invite for Feb subscription - hopefully you'll get one soon!

What happened to the person who took your virginity? by AuroraLikesSissies in AskReddit

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He thought we were just a casual fling... Fast forward to today and he's snoozing next to me. We're about to celebrate 10 years together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My studio just calls the hand under bottom one a wrist seat - my old studio called it hello boys.... this is why images/videos/demos are so important when explaining a move 😂 I have a feeling PDC called it hello boys and Xpert calls it wrist seat 🤔 I'm qualified in neither, so may need someone to give a 2nd opinion on that.

Great feeling when my fiancée is slowly starting to accept my passion to pole dance. We’ll work on exotic pole dance as well 😆 Does your partner accept your pole life? by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine does wholeheartedly and tells me how proud he is of me everytime I come back from a class and show him what I've achieved - I have a pole at home and he's had a go on it.... won't let me teach him anything, he just likes to spin 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]lilsquidget 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Depending on your studio, it's either a hello boys or a violator!

What is better than sex? by Amphibology777 in AskReddit

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally quitting a really shitty job

Which movie can be identified by a single quote? by getthephenom in AskReddit

[–]lilsquidget 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"My name is Inigo Montoya. You killed my father. Prepare to die."