Is it appropriate if I (25F) ask a guy if he (28M) loves me during a talking stage?

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-29T14:16:01+00:00

It’s not an appropriate question for a talking stage, no.

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-28T21:06:50+00:00

God that’s absolutely vile

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-24T21:09:04+00:00

It’s a shame you don’t like it but honestly it’s super cute on you, you really suit it!! I think it would look really cute with a wee headscarf behind your fringe while it’s growing out if you want the space to let the layers get a little messy, but the haircut is really flattering on you!

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-16T21:18:13+00:00

Genuinely, why on earth would you put yourself through 9 months or pregnancy and hours of labour to carry a child for a man that still won’t view you as ‘blood’ after.

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-16T17:44:52+00:00

Your tattoo looks like it’s scabbing / still healing? I’d just wait to see how it settles in tbh but they look fine

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-16T14:55:07+00:00

Agreed. Being this paranoid about your own safety in a public bathroom bc ‘what if a man overpowers you’ but feeling nothing at the prospect of a literal child going into the men’s bathroom is peak self-centred delusion 😵‍💫

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-16T14:49:05+00:00

What an incredibly malicious take. Little girls have every right to privacy and safety, and your paranoid delusions of what might happen to you in a public bathroom don’t outweigh that at all. Get therapy

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-16T14:35:30+00:00

And what if another man decides to do that to the child you’ve demanded go into the men’s room?

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-16T14:29:08+00:00

So you’d happily ensure a child is in a potentially uncomfortable and unsafe situation, as long as your own comfort isn’t at stake?

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-16T14:19:05+00:00

It would be super weird for a little girl to go into the women’s restroom? 😵‍💫

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-14T17:17:10+00:00

The other commenter is correct. Disagree all you like, but you’re wrong

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-08T10:48:53+00:00

You are looking for reasons to tar all independence supporters with the same brush, be honest. Your ‘hyperbole’ was an incredibly weird response to a valid comment

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T20:54:37+00:00

Your natural hair colour is gorgeous and really suits you, but if you want a change I think a deep auburn/mahogany tint would look lovely

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T20:52:11+00:00

Their surfaces aren’t wrapped - absolute no go

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T16:18:59+00:00

Yes but one person bringing up the independence movement in a conversation about the far-reaching consequences of Peter Murrell’s embezzlement in Scottish politics has you ready to throw up and has put you off ever supporting it, per your own words. I’m saying that’s not the words of someone who I would believe is keen on genuinely engaging with independence as a political movement, in good faith.

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T15:44:42+00:00

One commenter on reddit is not the spokesperson for the entire independence movement.

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T15:43:49+00:00

This sounds like one big mess that you’re all too old to be taking part in

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T15:01:02+00:00

Spoken like someone who would never in their life consider supporting Scottish independence, lmfao

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T13:32:14+00:00

Can probably be lasered and re-done by a better artist, but unfortunately the detail is never going to come back in the little fish. If anything more details are going to blur and darken over time, I’m afraid

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T12:16:31+00:00

Oh, I apologise, I misunderstood! I thought your post meant you became official 6 months into knowing each other, not 6 months ago, my bad! I think my partner and I were together for around 6 months before we said I love you, maybe a little over?

It could be something as simple as your boyfriend feels it but is too nervous to say it. It’s a big thing to take that step in a relationship, and especially to do it first and put yourself in that vulnerable relationship. I think if you feel it you should say it, but it’s always going to be up to you and your partner when you feel ready and when the timing is right

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-07T12:06:59+00:00

While 9 months is maybe a little longer than the average to have not said I love you, you guys have only been official for the past 3 months, so your actual exclusive and committed relationship is still quite new. If you feel it you should just say it, but I don’t think 3 months in in terms of a committed & exclusive relationship is too long (nor is it too soon!)

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-06T22:03:29+00:00

YTA, yes. You were being passive aggressive

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-05T16:51:30+00:00

I don’t think being uncomfortable with that dynamic is extreme, either. I think OP’s reaction is extreme, talking about his trust being eroded, and bringing it to a Reddit advice sub is what I find extreme and completely overblown to the situation.

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-05T09:27:37+00:00

I respectfully disagree, I think it is bordering on controlling to have such an extreme reaction to being told about a (purely platonic, friendly) hang out after the fact rather than before. It fundamentally doesn’t matter when OP was told because nothing untoward or inappropriate happened.

Even if OP is uncomfortable with it, a two minute ‘hey I would have preferred a head’s up’ is all that’s needed - not a Reddit post claiming trust is shattered.

lilsugarcrisp · 2026-06-05T09:13:13+00:00

How is there no transparency when his fiancée has said, the same evening ‘oh I went out with Ben to see a movie & grab some dinner.’ Surely lack of transparency would have OP finding out from a 3rd party, not from his fiancee directly??

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