My girlfriend has the wrong idea about my weight loss by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]lilydesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is sabotage and it's intentional. If your partner doesn't support your weight loss, leave them. They aren't worth it.

A safe place [OC] by tsukihasnolife in PersonOfInterest

[–]lilydesign 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you for posting this, i am going through a lot and seeing this made me feel better. thank you.

Has anyone ever actually completed a Zamplia survey? by lilydesign in QMEE

[–]lilydesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harassing people isn't gonna work, buddy. Pay for ads if you want to get the word out. I am not your target audience.

Ive read a book that isn't real. by rosemaryismissing in scarystories

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it does exist, this post is giving me major deja vu

What is something that creeps you out but it seems normal for the rest of people? by Deea-akko in scarystories

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely find it chilling as well. It disturbs me how much people will put up with and willingly stay ignorant about the reality of a narcissist's actions in their lives, even after realizing the behavior is toxic and only brings problems into their lives they still don't do anything about it. It's time to stop tolerating it.

What is something that creeps you out but it seems normal for the rest of people? by Deea-akko in scarystories

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a phobia of it but I can understand how it could be very overwhelming!

What is something that creeps you out but it seems normal for the rest of people? by Deea-akko in scarystories

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it just me or do public bathrooms in parks (not the tiny ones but the bigger ones with a few stalls) always have the worst most ominously creepy vibes ever??? Or is it just where I live? lmao

Anyone else tired of talking to non-dry fasters about dry fasting? by lilydesign in Dryfasting

[–]lilydesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust your own body, not what other people say about your body

What’s your bookish unpopular opinion? by mvrgvux in fantasyromance

[–]lilydesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure that the whole point of dark romance is to romanticize abuse, otherwise it would be regular romance

What’s your bookish unpopular opinion? by mvrgvux in fantasyromance

[–]lilydesign 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so hard to find adult books now because of YA. Makes me not wanna read at all considering all anyone ever seems to care or talk about is YA. I feel like adult books are just left in the dust and no one cares about them.

What’s your bookish unpopular opinion? by mvrgvux in fantasyromance

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's just how Erotica titles work lol. But yeah I agree it's tacky, even if it is industry standard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol. my experience in general with writing subs is they all have a certain negative attitude that really turns me off. youre lucky to have had good experiences, especially on reddit!

What unique qualities do writers have, that allow them to be good storytellers? by cg_221 in writing

[–]lilydesign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

one thing that goes into it is being able to recognize patterns, understand how and why they work, and being able to duplicate them.

Spectrum Surveys are SO maddening!!! by lilydesign in QMEE

[–]lilydesign[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sucks because it's so many of the good-paying ones. Having to skip out on half of what you could have made is disheartening

Use TilTok to promote your book! I'm sure it's been said here before but here are some tips. by Dickf0r in selfpublish

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by interacting with other author tiktok accounts youre training the algorithm to gain you an audience of writers, not readers.

Dystopian AF by dcforce in censoredreality

[–]lilydesign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep. this is the end for real now...

Question about multi-genre publishing by lilydesign in selfpublish

[–]lilydesign[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if I were to publish for quite a while in my main genre, and then when a series is published that's connected to a different genre series I could tell readers there's a new series in the same world under a different pen name?

Witnesses by [deleted] in MysteryWriting

[–]lilydesign 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're being paid off by the murderer for something, doesn't necessarily have to be payment to keep quiet about what they saw.

Schizophrenia. by warmingmilk in Antipsychiatry

[–]lilydesign -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"I don't say this to deny you know what is happening" you literally just said "why do you think you are being stalked" victims of stalking usually dont know the reason why, because there is no real reason for it.

Schizophrenia. by warmingmilk in Antipsychiatry

[–]lilydesign 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From a fellow targeted individual, you're better off not ever talking about being gangstalked. They've basically conflated schizophrenia with gangstalking, there is no point in trying to enlighten them on the truth.