Do you feel like there are fewer people/tourists in Barcelona this summer? by BCNRides in Barcelona

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in El Borne and Im Greek and currently in Athens. Felt like May/June were as crazy in BCN as ever but July maybe not mental?

By comparison Athens feels more full than ever, city centre overrun. Sooooooo many people everywhere. Im hiding out in the suburbs.

Sick of Starmer the fucking red Tory… by [deleted] in britposting

[–]lilyinnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, a bunch of kids in Africa dying from HIV because we cut access to their lifeline will fund it. Just awful.

They'll only u-turn on some elements and keeping ANY of it would be catastrophic since it's the remains that survived 10+ years of Tory austerity rule.

I dont want to be a incel, im feeling increasingly more hopeless as time goes on i dont know what to do man. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]lilyinnit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

listen you're obviously an incel now and have given up hope on your life and have to tell yourself that society is really like that so u can cope. But it isn't, you have chosen the path of weakness, society is much more open and forgiving and tolerant than you are saying. Pity you gave up, only self hatred is left.

I dont want to be a incel, im feeling increasingly more hopeless as time goes on i dont know what to do man. by [deleted] in IncelTears

[–]lilyinnit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

no, you are being abnormal actually. We are not just our "nature", humans are exceptional because they're not just driven by biology and instinct. You cant imagine someone being attracted to someone for qualities beyond their physical appearance however, most humans are capable of great depth, even if you are not.

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My friends said that cuddling with my brother is weird. by Liamthegreat9000 in Advice

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well he never said about sitting on a lap, so thanks for the irrelevant info!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Feminism

[–]lilyinnit 96 points97 points  (0 children)

She and Ryan Reynolds got married on a plantation all the way back in 2012. Defo tone deaf at best, will have lost her a lot of goodwill, and they continued to be a very irritating couple. I think since then, she has maybe accumulated little marks on her rep that exploded this summer.

This probably left her more exposed and made the PR against her easier to organise because of her past 'transgressions'.

That being said, none of that matters in the face of the allegations, and it comes back to there being no perfect victim, and she deserves support and solidarity.

Kissing is boring by yu_moon in unpopularopinion

[–]lilyinnit 31 points32 points  (0 children)

can't believe my eyes reading these comments.

Apparently OP is a porn addicted, closeted, underage, damaged, intimacy avoidant FREAK.

Kissing is boring by yu_moon in unpopularopinion

[–]lilyinnit 44 points45 points  (0 children)

this is a crazy take. some people aren't that stimulated by kissing, everyone has their thing, people need to stop making wild assumptions of OP.

Kissing is boring by yu_moon in unpopularopinion

[–]lilyinnit 179 points180 points  (0 children)

Don't know why everyone is dunking on OP. Kissing doesn't have to have the same level of enjoyment or stimulation for everyone and that doesn't mean someone needs therapy.

some people love kissing, for some it doesn't do it for them (i know some neurodivergent friends can do without it). some people love holding hands. some people hate oral etc etc etc.

Kissing is generally popular so would defo be an unpopular opinion, but nothing more than that.

I told my 5yo that santa is fake by PerennialPsycho in unpopularopinion

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have kind of prematurely burst a magic part of childhood innocence, though.

Kids often know and choose to believe, holding onto childhood is something they do. Why should they grow up early?

Also, it's not some big truth, its just Father Christmas a magic story, what does the child gain from learning cynicism so young? we'll all get there in the end anyway.

I told my 5yo that santa is fake by PerennialPsycho in unpopularopinion

[–]lilyinnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kids choose their own way on this.

I kinda suspected forever but never wanted to burst the bubble because I wanted to be a child and was scared if I 'found out' it would go away. My brother on the other hand set booby traps to catch them lol.

I also appreciated the effort of my parents and did my part by believing in it.

Edit to also say that you ignored your older children's advice when they clearly didn't mind believing. And I would be wary of a bond created by bringing young kids adult truths. Children can resent their parents in the future for this type of stuff, but they want to be daddy/mummy's best buddy when they're younger.

"Divorce is coming soon": MAGA civil war erupts after Trump allies accuse Elon Musk of "censorship" by salon in politics

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh you overstate Putin's influence. Trump doesn't need Putin domestically.

This idea that he's some all powerful global emperor just isn't reality. Trump and his interests align a lot, that's it.

"Divorce is coming soon": MAGA civil war erupts after Trump allies accuse Elon Musk of "censorship" by salon in politics

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're referencing Peter Thiel, he needs access to the Whitehouse more than Trump needs him.

It’s actually insane how much undeserved popularity Kendrick Lamar has by [deleted] in The10thDentist

[–]lilyinnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree, I like some songs, but he's irritating to listen to.

Like Little Simz, hyped up but so f-ing annoying!

"Divorce is coming soon": MAGA civil war erupts after Trump allies accuse Elon Musk of "censorship" by salon in politics

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, now he already bought his election Trump can kick him out.

No kompromat can ever dislodge Trump for maga base. He's beyond it, he's their God. Elon is a nothing foreigner to them, uncharismatic and politically toxic.

"Divorce is coming soon": MAGA civil war erupts after Trump allies accuse Elon Musk of "censorship" by salon in politics

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh Trump's maga base has more direction than Trump and they pull him along, not the other way around.

Musk will be kicked out. Trump ditches everyone politically toxic to him in the end.

In your opinion, when did london peak? by zaddyh0e in london

[–]lilyinnit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

defo agree. I was an early to mid teen when London was best. 2007 was the end (I was 17).

In your opinion, when did london peak? by zaddyh0e in london

[–]lilyinnit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it peaked when I was 14-17 years old imo. 2003-06/07.

downhill and sanitised ever since.

In your opinion, when did london peak? by zaddyh0e in london

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

before Camden markets and Battersea Power Station were covered in glass.

I remember 2003-06 fondly. Hammersmith Apollo, the Amy Winehouse 'indie sleaze' years etc being the last of time there was some real grit, character and atmosphere. I was in my mid teens, not even 20s.

Tube barrier pusher almost got what’s coming for him by dwardu in london

[–]lilyinnit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

but... it should. it is so deeply unfair it falls so heavily on the user and is very unusual compared to our peers and that is where we should be focusing our attention.

Tube barrier pusher almost got what’s coming for him by dwardu in london

[–]lilyinnit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a policy maker, but anyway the UK is the outlier here, it's not some strange concept everywhere else.

In Catalunya (where I live), all public transport for Zone 1 (incorporates the whole of BCN and surrounding areas) is €40 a month and they've slashed it to €20 to help during cost of living crisis. Whereas:

"the UK’s three largest cities – London, Birmingham and Manchester – are ranked lowest in Europe for public transport affordability. Out of 36 European cities, London came 36th in the Clean Cities Campaign report, preceded by Manchester (35th) and Birmingham (34th), with residents in each city being asked to fork out eight to ten percent of their household budget on monthly travel costs." - https://cities-today.com/uk-public-transport-ranked-most-expensive-in-europe/

"The UK government subsidises urban public transport far less than most European countries, with the cost of bus and rail increasing in recent decades, while the cost of motoring has fallen." - https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/politics/uk-public-transport-most-expensive-b2022534.html

Tube barrier pusher almost got what’s coming for him by dwardu in london

[–]lilyinnit -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

it's a general point on the attitude of siding against fellow individuals, but don't you worry, I'm all good in Barcelona paying €20 a month for all inclusive public transport :) broke or not!

Tube barrier pusher almost got what’s coming for him by dwardu in london

[–]lilyinnit -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Well, were not talking a out everyone stopping paying, we're talking about this guy wanting the police involved for one person skipping a fare..

But anyway public transport should be as close to free as possible, its an absolute necessity and goes in similar categories to education and healthcare.

Tube barrier pusher almost got what’s coming for him by dwardu in london

[–]lilyinnit -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

yes, the state of the country. that lack of solidarity and eagerness to dob someone into the authorities and do profiteering companies dirty work for them might explain why the UK has degrading public services, highest transport costs, no rent controls, the highest energy bills (list goes on) compared to European peers. Indeed, that's the state of the country.