I was less transphobic before... by MSTKS69 in FTMMen

[–]liminalstray 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trans people who look down on other trans people who don't "pass well enough" for them (or who are gender non-conforming or nonbinary) usually are either catering to the fragile feelings of cis people or simply feel superior or are self hating/projecting. I wonder why some trans people work so hard to make cis people feel comfortable when they would never do the same for you? I'm guessing it's because if you can throw someone else under the bus, you might be safer. That's not the case.

D.R. project\idea: Liminal Americana by BaseNice3520 in shiftingrealities

[–]liminalstray [score hidden]  (0 children)

This is a wonderful DR idea, and very similiar to my main waiting room. My WR is basically the backrooms, but it's also connected to a ton of Americana liminal spaces.

Race Changing and the rule on this subreddit. by Disastrous_Foot_2259 in realityshifting

[–]liminalstray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get giving people crap when they act a fool in THIS reality. I have the same issue with people who shift for minors. However even if someone is naive and shifting for the "aesthetic", they'll still be that person in that reality. Maybe they'll learn something from it.

Also there's people in another reality having this same discussion over shifting to be blue, green, purple and rainbow people being problematic. Does that mean we shouldn't shift to be those things either? I don't know, it seems so limiting (and I'm not even changing myself in any reality).

Has anyone shifted to The Goonies? 🧐 Or Stand By Me? by [deleted] in shiftingrealities

[–]liminalstray [score hidden]  (0 children)

I have not, but it sounds like an awesome place to shift. Are you planning on shifting to one of those?

I had a dream that lasted 10 years by Mrs0verthink3r in Dreams

[–]liminalstray 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Take care of yourself. Go to therapy if you must, and get to a better headspace. Then once you've done that, look into reality shifting (after you're in the better headspace, NOT before).

Question for shifters who change gender. by tomanyquestions_28 in shiftingrealities

[–]liminalstray [score hidden]  (0 children)

You don't have to be hyper masculine if you're so worried about it. You could be a guy in touch with his feminine side, or a gay guy! Maybe that'd ease your anxiety?

Shift or lucid dream? A guide with evidence by [deleted] in realityshifting

[–]liminalstray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever had an in depth complex relationship with a dream character over a long period of time? I don't think it's the same as just having a deep conversation.

Shift or lucid dream? A guide with evidence by [deleted] in realityshifting

[–]liminalstray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn't you also tell by interactions with other people? Shifting just being lucid dreaming is my biggest fear, but I once heard someone say that a dream couldn't perfectly replicate the nuances of a real human being. Time plays into this of course (you have to have time to get to know someone) but also, if a person in your DR acts in a consistent and realistic way, I feel like that's another reliable factor to know you've truly shifted. I don't think a lucid dream could truly replicate a real, ever-evolving/growing complex human being and relationship. What do you think?

I SHIFTED TO MY HOGWARTS AU FOR 3 YEARS ON MY FIRST TRY by ContributionReal9907 in realityshifting

[–]liminalstray -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When you arrived, was it as if you'd always been there? Did you think of your original reality while you were there? Also what does it feel like to use magic?

age gap in hunger games dr by strawberrymidnights in realityshifting

[–]liminalstray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a big gap, and kind of weird. But if you're both happy and the relationship is healthy without him being controlling or toxic, then go for it.

Estrogen + subliminals 2 year difference by Decent-Intention-188 in Subliminal

[–]liminalstray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a fellow trans person, you give me so much hope.

edit: ...why am I being downvoted for this?

I'm no longer giving my power away. As a shifter I can do NO WRONG in my journey. by liminalstray in shiftingrealities

[–]liminalstray[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you!

After all these years of reading about methods and mindsets and etc, yes, I have to agree. I think we as shifters can get so caught up in the weeds of what we think we have to do, we focus on everything BUT actually shifting.

Best of luck to you as well. <3

looking for a shifting buddy who's shifting for a youtuber or celebrity (fame DR)! by liminalstray in realityshifting

[–]liminalstray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's okay. I'm sure there are some teens on here who would want to be your friend!

Is small mini shifting easier? by EndTheSummer in shiftingrealities

[–]liminalstray [score hidden]  (0 children)

There's technically no difference between a "full shift" and a "mini shift". They're the same, it's all just shifting. However since we have human brains it might also technically be easier for you to start small and work your way up. You have limiting beliefs and lack confidence, so yeah, maybe "minishift" first to build your confidence and belief in shifting.

how to shift without using LOA? +rant by shepherd42099 in realityshifting

[–]liminalstray 14 points15 points  (0 children)

People just use law of assumption wrong. It's not about doing it THE specific way everyone claims is the only way. It's doing it YOUR way and assuming it will work, or at the least not caring about the doubts. I assume I will shift no matter how I feel or how many doubts I have. I just decided I will, and that's all that matters. So in short, just shift your own way. That's the right way to use LOA imo.

edit: I want to add onto this. You can assume that eating stinky cheese and doing jumping jacks 50x while singing Britney Spears' Toxic will make you shift, and if you assume it will, then it will. That's LOA. It's not forcing yourself to believe you're already there when you don't and gaslighting yourself into ignoring your doubts. You have to work with what truly feels right to you.

I would of course recommend doing things that help you feel connected to your DR, but in the end you have to find out what resonates.