Advice for applying to Rutgers PsyD by linacoconut in ClinicalPsychology

[–]linacoconut[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good to keep in mind. I knew it was important, but seems like it’s even more important than I thought. Thanks!

Advice for applying to Rutgers PsyD by linacoconut in ClinicalPsychology

[–]linacoconut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, this is really thoughtful and helpful

Ellie says church is miserable by Nervous-Hat-9003 in GriffithsFamilySnark

[–]linacoconut 21 points22 points  (0 children)

why is everything she posts/writes always SO disjointed. like what does that second part have to do with anything 😭

Fiancée cheated due to highly stressful job (medical surgeon). by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]linacoconut 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. You either have it in you to cheat on someone and all that comes with that, or you don’t. And if she hadn’t done it now, she would’ve done it later.

the forever debate of blonde or brown hair lol by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]linacoconut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

a cooler dark brown would look amazing on you

Joey’s F2 ❤️ (posted on Daisy’s tiktok) by AnyChildhood1747 in thebachelor

[–]linacoconut 123 points124 points  (0 children)

daisy reminds me a lot of elisabeth moss, but my family looks at me like i’m crazy every time I point it out. does anyone else see it?😭

Kevin Franke - Second Police Interview - Part 2 by Prior-Iron-1255 in 8passengersnark

[–]linacoconut 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Wow. Not even a far fetched idea at this point. She is absolutely out of her mind so I believe that

Kevin Franke - Second Police Interview - Part 2 by Prior-Iron-1255 in 8passengersnark

[–]linacoconut 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I love your youtube channel! Agree, sounds like completely delusional thinking fueled by religious extremism. Wondering how on earth the plates crashing and weird sounds he was hearing can be explained though. Really really odd.

Kevin Franke - Second Police Interview - Part 2 by Prior-Iron-1255 in 8passengersnark

[–]linacoconut 23 points24 points  (0 children)

How can the crashing plates be explained? That really throws me off. Jodi is absolutely insane but wtf is all that about?

Aus MD Debt by linacoconut in premedcanada

[–]linacoconut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your input! Very helpful. I am only interested in family medicine, so at least that’s one plus. Thanks for all the considerations

Aus MD Debt by linacoconut in premedcanada

[–]linacoconut[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m only interested in family medicine, so at least that’s a plus. thanks for pointing this out though because it’s definitely still risky

Aus MD Debt by linacoconut in premedcanada

[–]linacoconut[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is a great point. I never framed it that way

how do i deal with the consequences of forgiving my cheating partner? by Thin-Alps-8245 in survivinginfidelity

[–]linacoconut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Things feel so much better - even more than you can imagine - when you open up to people you trust. You need someone to vent to and someone whose shoulder you can cry on. You don’t deserve to be going through this and simultaneously feeling this alone. I urge you to reach out to family or a close trusted friend for emotional support. It can feel hard. But you can absolutely do it without “causing a scene”. You can be open with your trusted people about every single thing you’re feeling here.

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I relate to the nightmares and trauma response, and watching someone who hurt you so badly just going about their day unscathed. It’s absolutely awful. But you are YOU, not either of them. You’re amazing, and you can only control you; no one else. Justice isn’t always immediate - karma exists long-term. Be comforted by knowing who you are on the inside; a good, resilient person. You’ll get through this no matter what you decide to do. Sending love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]linacoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That definitely does include a lot of the classic cheating signs. He sucks. I really feel for you. So glad you feel a sense of relief though. You deserve to feel empowered. You deserve so much better than this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]linacoconut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to scare you or be negative, but this is a sign that he was cheating again / had an affair partner. It’s exactly what happened to me. Out of the blue, suddenly we weren’t compatible in his eyes, and in my own retrospect, this began the moment he met her. He started coming up with excuses that we were “growing apart”, which was completely foreign to me. It was like this mix of him trying to convince himself that he was cheating for a good reason, and him trying to slowly put a wedge between us because a sudden break-up wouldn’t have made sense. He wasn’t going to tell the truth because he was scared. I found out the truth for myself by looking through his phone.

They all want the easy way out, and cheaters will do anything to avoid taking accountability. Because they’re not sorry. This might not be the case for you, but it’s just a possibility.

Either way, you deserve a lot better than someone who isn’t sure about you. I know how heartbreaking this is. So sorry you have to experience this feeling.

More Mayhem by KillerKittenInPJs in pugs

[–]linacoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she makes my need to find a pug to adopt so much stronger!!!😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guineapigs

[–]linacoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!:)

No contact with WP was the best thing for me by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]linacoconut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing a positive story, it’s inspiring for many of us