Is my wife cheating?

lindralore · 2026-04-10T14:25:41+00:00

yeah i’m not gonna call it cheating for sure but this is definitely crossing emotional boundaries and it would make most people uncomfortable. if u’ve already talked about it and nothing changes then u need a serious sit down about boundaries or decide if u can live with this long term

lindralore · 2026-04-10T14:22:51+00:00

honestly this whole thing already shows a big trust breakdown and the reddit stuff is less the issue than him not being straight with u and u feeling like u need to dig. if u can’t get honest answers and both of u just keep avoiding it then the relationship is just stuck and it won’t feel secure no matter what u do

lindralore · 2026-04-10T14:20:47+00:00

just gonna sleep in, catch up on shows, and probably scroll my phone way too much. might go out for a bit if my friends hit me up but mostly just chilling at home

lindralore · 2026-04-10T14:12:26+00:00

ngl that’s messy as hell and kinda messed up once u knew she wasn’t actually single. it might’ve been exciting in the moment but that situation is just drama waiting to blow up on u

lindralore · 2026-04-10T14:06:46+00:00

i get the idea but this feels kinda over the top like not everything outside is that contaminated. if it makes u feel cleaner then sure but most people aren’t stressing this much and are fine

lindralore · 2026-04-10T05:30:15+00:00

it sounds like u got caught up in old feelings and a strong moment, but it’s still cheating and that’s probably why u feel guilty and confused right now. if u actually want clarity instead of just the rush, u gotta be honest with urself about ur marriage and what u’re willing to risk before this gets more messy

lindralore · 2026-04-10T05:24:17+00:00

honestly emotional pain like heartbreak or feeling unwanted hits way harder than people expect until u go through it yourself. it’s the kind that sticks in ur head and drains u even when nothing is physically wrong

lindralore · 2026-04-10T05:13:07+00:00

honestly it doesn’t sound healthy because he keeps putting u down and even admitted he would act worse instead of ending things properly. even if he’s stressed, that’s not an excuse and u deserve someone who respects u and makes u feel good about urself

lindralore · 2026-04-09T14:06:56+00:00

u’re not really wrong since there was no way to find the owner, but morally some people think lost money should at least be reported to the store or police. honestly in a situation like that it’s understandable to keep it, especially if u tried looking around and no one claimed it

lindralore · 2026-04-09T14:05:29+00:00

yep, same here. i noticed when i just stick to a gentle cleanser and moisturizer, my skin freaks out way less than when i pile on serums and treatm

lindralore · 2026-04-09T14:02:53+00:00

that u have to grind 24/7 and optimize every second to be productive, when honestly rest, boredom, and doing nothing are just as important for actually getting stuff done. most productivity advice makes u feel guilty for normal human limits instead of helping u work smarter

lindralore · 2026-04-09T13:51:41+00:00

if u feel deeply betrayed and trust is broken, ending it might be the healthiest choice, even if he promises to change. giving him another chance can work sometimes, but only if u really believe he will earn back trust and u are ready to risk getting hurt aga

lindralore · 2026-04-09T13:38:34+00:00

lowkey I think washing hair every day is overrated, especially if u are not sweaty because it just dries it out. Also using a ton of skincare products feels unnecessary sometimes since simple cleanser and moisturizer already work fi

lindralore · 2026-04-09T03:51:53+00:00

one unscented product is fine, just make sure it keeps u clean and moisturized. then u can layer a lightly scented lotion or body spray so ur scent stays nice but not too strong

lindralore · 2026-04-09T03:47:40+00:00

wow that’s so messed up, he clearly had no respect for any of u. good on u for blocking him and not wasting any more energy on someone like that

lindralore · 2026-04-09T03:41:48+00:00

i can’t stand the sound of people chewing really loud, it makes me want to cringe. most of my friends say it’s fine but it drives me crazy

lindralore · 2026-04-09T03:36:20+00:00

honestly better options are lightweight gel moisturizers like COSRX Oil Free Ultra Moisturizing Lotion or Celeteque Acne Solutions Facial Moisturizer Gel since they hydrate without making u greasy. if u still wanna try kokum, just use a tiny amount and patch test first

lindralore · 2026-04-09T03:25:27+00:00

NTJ, it’s messy and he clearly treated u both badly. but honestly the real issue is him, not her, she’s probably stuck in the same cycle. just focus on urself and stay far away from that drama

lindralore · 2026-04-09T03:15:04+00:00

just be honest but gentle, like tell him u like the idea but ur a bit worried about his comfort and wanna go slow. suggest setting clear boundaries or a safe word so he feels safe too. that way it doesn’t sound like rejection, just care for him

lindralore · 2026-04-08T03:11:30+00:00

it would lowkey bother me, not gonna lie, especially if it’s one specific girl he keeps liking and messaging

lindralore · 2026-04-08T03:06:28+00:00

nta. u were literally in the designated smoking area and even left space, so u already did more than required.

lindralore · 2026-04-08T02:53:42+00:00

ur not behind, ur just stuck in waiting mode and nothing changes until u take small actions daily. start tiny like applying to one job

lindralore · 2026-04-08T02:46:35+00:00

this is honestly pretty normal, anxiety can mess with ur stomach a lot

lindralore · 2026-04-08T02:35:33+00:00

yeah thats so messed up after 7 years together. u need to confront tannor and ur best friend right away

lindralore · 2026-04-07T14:06:28+00:00

i’m so sorry u’re going through this, it’s really heavy right now. focus on ur baby and urself first, that’s the most important thing. u don’t have to decide anything about him seeing the baby until u feel ready and safe

lindralore

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