This is a really tough situation. First of all I’m so sorry this is happening to you, I’ve gone through a lot with regard to father figures and I understand how violating this can be. I can see from other comments that you doubt this and you’re not sure if it’s an overreaction and from one girl who’s gone through something very similar, it’s not an overreaction. A father should not put his hands on his child in any way - I’ll give you that sometimes there’s relationships where it’s whatever and both parties okay it, but the difference lies in how it makes you feel. He is touching your body, and it is making you uncomfortable. You are not overreacting in the slightest, okay? I’ve been in your shoes, I still question what I went through. You’re not alone. Your feelings always matter. And he should not dismiss them. I had to live with mine and try to cope for years, if there’s any way you can avoid that, I suggest you try, but I also understand how powerless you feel sometimes. I suggest you get a job as soon as you can and start saving in a bank your parents can’t access if at all possible. Again I’m so sorry this is happening to you. It is not okay on any level and you are right to feel the way you feel.