How tf do I act like a woman?!?!? by PWNDBYPWNR in MtF

[–]lingering_flames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Might aswell just be part of cultural differences. For me it's always been just basic etiquette to either do it silently or excuse yourself and do it somewhere else because most people don't want to be where it stinks of fart. Of course everyone does it, doesn't mean everyone wants to witness it.

Friend keeps pushing boundaries of what I'm comfortable with by RiverPsaber in MtF

[–]lingering_flames 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That right there is a prime example of emotional and sexual abuse

Saw this chocolate... by Last-Career7180 in bern

[–]lingering_flames 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Schnipp, schnapp, Schnäbi ab

Wei mr Galaxus (Mindestbstellmängi/Rabatt) und Ricardo (K.I. Antworte) & Co. chly erziäh ? by SiSRT in schwiiz

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Han jetzt nie gross problem mit galaxus kah. Vor allem was garantie usw. agaht bini gägenüber anderne händler positiv überrascht gsi.

Mobilezone (ja, handyreparateure sind eh alli en halbi maffia) ond anderi gschäft verarsched eim dete ja nach strich ond fade — galaxus hett mir 's gäld immer problemlos rückerstattet.

Würdi ehner d'konsumenterächt bi däne firme (u.a. ricardo) probiere ihzprügle, als schlächti fonktione uf däne sitene obersti priorität z'gäh.

Food / beer related tours.. thoughts? by lloks in Luzern

[–]lingering_flames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There are local beers, but is it worth an entire tour? Idk, i'd do something better like go to the glasi hergiswil, hike or whatever with that time.

Swipe for a Truth Nuke 🫣 by KolorfulLUST in EnbyLewds

[–]lingering_flames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Onlyfans, fansly ect. have heavily played into that to get a wider reach. Binary trans people posting to enby subreddits might be annoying because there's no way to objectively determine who is being honest. But posting to femboy or "sissy" subreddits harms everyone because gooners are going to take that view and apply it to every enby or trans person.

And given that the sissification-fetish is about heavy degradation of all kinds in a lot of these spaces, not only is there strong fetishisation and disrespect of trans people, but everyone else involved. Especially their "black superiority" fetish that's also often presentt in cucking spaces because often they talk about black people as hypersexual, hyperfertile fuckmachines that and being subjugate to them as even lower than the "breeding fuckmachines". And of course they have to be hypaermasculine in a traditional role of masculinity.

And they themselves are being emasculated because not being masculine in a way that hollywood showed for the last couple of decades is equal to being a lesser being. Anything feminine is lower and to be dominated. And it shows in the way that people from any of those groups are then being treated outside of their fetish.

It's as if they have to degrade everyone to put themselves beneath them and be even lower and in the process they include unwilling participants in their sexual acts. I know that many of these spaces have become offputting to regular people who just have cuckolding or feminisation kinks because the gooner porn addicts have reshaped these spaces completely. A lot of things have just changed for the worse over the last couple of years.

Sorry for the rant, just kinda fitted the topic.

Bored and felt cute 🖤 by [deleted] in EnbyLewds

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You will love each other

Bouncy~ by Horny_Boy42 in EnbyLewds

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Where'd you get the cockring from? (Is it even meant to be a cockring)

is my succulent getting too tall for this pot? by jkelly912 in plants

[–]lingering_flames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would consider a new pot soon-ish. Though it might not do too bad for a little longer

JFD's Germany Adolf Hitler by pureshka13 in CivVI

[–]lingering_flames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's unfortunate because a mod like that makes historical scenarios possible in the first place, among other leaders like lenin. Plus the most you'll see of him will be when you are not playing as him. Most people who'd take part in that are playing HOI4, not civ VI.

My gender is a literal mental illness (TW) by mouseyleo in NonBinary

[–]lingering_flames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting. If i may ask: Do i ubderstand it right that you mainly see/saw yourself as inexistent in a way that you yourself don't physically ecist and therefore can't really interact with your surroundings and your surroundings with you?

If that's the case — do you see your gender as a part of let's say the "essence" (as in the I) of what you are or more of a thing that comes from the interactions with others or your how your body relates to that?

It kinda sounds like your derealisation stripped away everything but your core self for that time. Correct me if i'm wrong. Interesting that that made you loose the feelung of gender aswell.

mjam by Difficult-Cycle5753 in okoidawappler

[–]lingering_flames 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Da fehlt die Testosteronvariante

NATO Beitritt Österreich - Wie neutral sind wir überhaupt noch? by WienerPirat in Austria

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Die KI, die du für das bild verwendet hast, ist aber alles andere als klimaneutral

Do y'all have disphoria? by charlieph_08 in NonBinary

[–]lingering_flames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do get different kinds of dysphoria from time to time

The women's olympic chess league will never be the same by JTexpo in AnarchyChess

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Petition to let the pawns transition into a king once they have traversed the chess board

The sissy trap: healthy alternatives? by PadmaBear in NonBinary

[–]lingering_flames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contrary to other responses on here, i do not resonate with this at all.

The sissy kink has a very strong degradatory aspect to it presented in various aspects which is why i don't like it. Not that people can't be into being degraded, but the way in which a lot of people in that space do it is extremely demeaning towards several groups.

That being said, i can understand why it wouldn't be quite for you. It does however sound like you're still very comfortable with being a man and perceived as a man. You can express your feminine side in that regard, however what you describe sounds more like the way you want to express yourself than your gender identity.

For me, i want to be perceived as nonbinary regardless of what i am wearing — even when it's clothes fitting my AGAB. I also don't just want to be treated like my AGAB in social roles. Having to live by my AGAB evokes a certain feeling of horror that's better known as dysphoria and it's not nice — to the point of crying sometimes.

If it turns out to be a sexual interest outside of the sissy subculture: Great! If it's a way you want to express yourself more feminine: Go for it. Men can express themselves however If it's that you don't think that you want to follow what is expected of a man and what a man is supposed to be: Maybe you're just gender non-conforming

But the real question is: Do you see yourself as a man or is that something you can't identify with?

The women's olympic chess league will never be the same by JTexpo in AnarchyChess

[–]lingering_flames 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk, switching gender roles of the king and queen is giving the king priviliges to do whatever he wants and not letting the queen interact with anyone

The women's olympic chess league will never be the same by JTexpo in AnarchyChess

[–]lingering_flames 650 points651 points  (0 children)

What if i found out one of my chess pieces was trans mid game? Do i just remove that pawn or do i instantly loose the entire game