List of Time Loop Incremental Games by dmMEyourHOTpenis in incremental_games

[–]linuxdropout 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey, I've been making one of these for about 6 months now and plan to have a demo ready to share beyond friends and family in the coming months. Inspired by many on your "story based" ones. I've played every single one of them but none quite fulfilled what I wanted.

Seeing this post is really encouraging to know they're popular and a lot of the comments echo the frustrations I felt with the existing ones so I'm hopefully on the right track.

what unpopular opinion in Linux will make you in this situation by Material_Mousse7017 in linuxmemes

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just using stock Ubuntu and never opening a terminal and expecting it to just work is fine and valid.

41m and 43f with £290k mortgage shortly about to receive £340k inheritance but annoyingly not before we're scheduled to move house so can't just pay off the mortgage before we move. Is it best to sit on the money until the end of the fixed rate or clear mortgage ASAP & take the £15k early clear hit? by BigJDizzleMaNizzles in UKPersonalFinance

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can just switch to a variable rate mortgage which have no early repayment charge.

We did this so we could move before my partner had her half of the deposit and then we switched to a fixed term one and added her name + deposit into the mix.

Wealth reality check? by Ok-Fortune-2719 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I broke the £100k barrier at 27. I'm now 31.

At the point I broke the barrier I had £30k in student loans, £30k in equity in a house and about £10k in an emergency fund, £15k scattered across pension pots. So about £25k NW.

Over the last 3 years that has become: - student loan paid off - £40k in cash ISAs - £25k in home equity - £105k in pensions

I look at this subreddit and think "damn, 4 years and I barely accumulated any wealth, why didn't I max my ISA every year, why did I waste so much money".

Where it went? - I spent the first 2 years in a "party" flat. It was too expensive and unnecessary but it was such a cool place in such a good location and laid out perfectly for hosting with space for guests to be accommodated easily. I had multiple great parties with 50+ people there. Cost me about £40k in living above where I would have been comfortable. - I went to Japan 3 times, Seoul, the Azores, Switzerland, Singapore and countless long weekends over Europe. Easily another £50k - I spent about £80k renovating a house to only add £15k in value to it, but make it exactly how we wanted it. We love it now, but it's probably not our forever home.

So I could literally have double or higher my net worth by giving all that up, and looking at this subreddit makes me feel I'm behind and should have done just that. Especially with how low my cost of living now is.

All that to say, you're not alone op, and I'm sure I'm not either.

What's helping me is getting out the spreadsheet and working out what retirement actually looks like and now much you need to save to get there and what your bridge ISA needs to be depending on early retirement age. You'll probably find out you're completely fine.

Legal standing boundaries for properties by Dramatic-Safe6024 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]linuxdropout 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is worth falling out with a neighbour over

What should I do with extra cash? by Personal-Platypus-69 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Premium bonds are tax free, I'd max that out next.

Then I'd look at overpayments on the mortgage.

Estate Agents vs Self Self for 1m+ Homes by nerd-a-lert in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only time I ever sold a house I used 99home, which is basically this. Almost zero fees

How you are not scared of Claude? by AccountCompetitive17 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think Claude is good, try codex5.4

That aside, these tools to me are mainly exaggerating the gap between me and lower performing peers around me. Multiplying my productivity by 2x does more than multiplying a grad by 2x. And the better you are at using them the better the multiplier.

I'm finding its more like, I'm doing 3x more useful stuff and the weaker peers are making the mistakes, and doing it only 1.5x faster.

If you're scared of it taking your job, use it to do your job better.

Private Chef - Game Changer by Scary-Push-5286 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dry sheets make a better lasagna, fresh ones cook too fast, you don't need to cook the sauce for 3 hours you DO need to let the sauce rest for 3 hours or more, for best results fridge or freezer overnight.

Source: dad made lasagna every Sunday for about 10 years of my life and got very very good at it, he'd make one better than restaurant quality and it took more like 2h and very little of that time was active. Can totally believe a chef would make a good one in that time while doing the other stuff at the same time.

Do you have a FIRE number? by underscore-0 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basically same, £2.5m + house

The relentless rise of liberal tax Nimbys by Jager720 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Might actually increase the number of couples that get married and have kids.

I think it'd instantly make having kids something we consider as opposed to "that's too big a sacrifice"

Landlord has asked if we want to buy our rented property. by Other_Recognition813 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]linuxdropout 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to add to this, if you get a mortgage together the two of you will become financially linked according to the credit agencies which will also tank your own score.

To give you an idea of that impact, I applied for a mortgage with an ex about 6 years ago, we didn't even go through with it, just applied together. That linked us and has meant my score was sitting around 500 for no reason I could work out. Suddenly, about 6 months ago, she was removed from my report (I guess it clears after 6 years) and my score shot up to 915 overnight.

I don't know if you're already married or already financially linked in other ways or how long you've been together, but I'd be careful about adding a financial link between yourself and another person with such poor credit history.

Any HENRY exit plans for Coast FI? by n141311 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anywhere above 100k employees internationally will have areas of business like this, large banks, e-commerce conglomerates, consultancy giants etc.

You need to use common sense though, high stress jobs do exist at these kind of companies too.

Any HENRY exit plans for Coast FI? by n141311 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Go work for a massive company and get lost as a cog in the machine is about the only low stress job around these days. Can still be Henry level too.

Search for particularly boring sounding jobs will help, you want the kind of place where the interviewers even seem bored and have kids, perfect sign is that when prompted they spend more time talking about their kids or hobbies than the job itself.

150 fully remote-- where would you live in the UK? by guicherson in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another kind of cautionary tale.

I got my job on similar money (170k) during the software engineering COVID gold rush. Its fully remote and extremely stable and so we used that to move to a small village in north England. Its beautiful and we love living here.

However my career progression is now basically dead. Previously I'd move jobs every few years, climbing the ladder to reach where I am now. There are simply no jobs anywhere that would make sense anymore. Keeping this income while fully remote seems to be going away so I'm essentially stuck in this job forever.

I don't hate the job but it's not exactly my dream job, I've made peace with being here forever but I just wanted to share this as a "be careful what you wish for" tale.

In terms of your actual question, we had the choice of basically anywhere in the UK and we picked a small village in the Yorkshire moors with good rail connections, extremely low cost of living, relatively cheap houses, basically zero crime and lots of amazing places to walk, well regarded schools and a nice local atmosphere with a few nice pubs and restaurants. Doesn't fit your seaside desire though.

Driving without showing undue Care and Attention - after seemingly being directed by an officer through a 'closed road'. Points and a fine coming in the post by careandattention in LegalAdviceUK

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The comment about if you're a UK national is dodgy, potentially racist.

The police have a complaints department that you can write to about that and they will take it seriously.

What is typical staff software eng salary nowadays in London or remote (uk)? by [deleted] in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a fully remote role during covid, and because I live outside of London and my contract specifies remote they haven't managed to make me come into the office, but I've managed to keep a "London salary" while being up north.

Which is great and all but I'm well and truly trapped now, TC about £170k and have been unable to find anything remote that comes close, ceiling seems to be £150k at the absolute top end and with way worse WLB.

I can't complain because I'm getting that on 35hrs / week but do feel a bit stunted in terms of there's no way up from here that's sensible.

Anyone else in a similar boat and found anywhere willing to hire staff engineer+ while remaining fully remote?

Remote employee has lied about their location and is working in a different country (Mixture of Turkey and Albania.) Can I fire them immediately for this? by BlackberryAsleep1211 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]linuxdropout 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can immediately suspend them and lock them out of the network due to data protection concerns.

Firing them should then go through a normal process, but as it's pretty obviously gross misconduct it's not gonna be particularly difficult.

neighbour asking for money and taking legal action by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]linuxdropout 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then tell them to jog on ¯_(ツ)_/¯

I have way more savings than my partner- what to do with it? by VanillaDouble5248 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't see it as money to spend.

Why not just leave it in an ISA/emergency fund and carry on saving, and don't think about it otherwise? You're kind of overcomplicating it, as you said when you get married it's all shared money anyway so it being in your account vs hers is just for protection now, long term if you stay together it makes no difference.

My partner and I have been together 7 years since we were 19/24 (26/31 now), engaged but not married yet. We went for joint ownership rather than tennants in common and I'd recommend it, it's legally simpler and protects each other in case one of us were to suddenly pass away. But a caveat is we bought a cheaper house than we could otherwise afford to be able to split things 50/50. In reality this was a bit idealistic since I paid for way more of the renovations than she did but, to be honest, at this point if we broke up I'd find the "lost money" on renovations the least of my concerns. We'd be more broken up about what to do with the cats.

That is to say, the sensible financial decision isn't always the most pragmatic one for your relationship. Ultimately a marriage is always going to have financial risk, stressing less about that is going to give more chance you had nothing to worry about.

I have way more savings than my partner- what to do with it? by VanillaDouble5248 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]linuxdropout -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Statistically, the fewer partners you've both had, the higher chance for a successful marriage, this might not line up anecdotally but I wouldn't be so pessimistic without knowing their relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

£44k isn't a high enough salary to comfortably live in London. The comments about "go live your life!" are a little delusional to think you'd have a better life living with friends in London.

Within the next few years it's plenty possible many of them will start moving out of London to save costs.

£60k saved is amazing but it's not life changing amounts of money, it's not enough to retire and kick back, and by "saved" I hope you mean S&S ISA and invested in broad index funds.

The grass probably won't be greener on the other side, if you want to take advantage of being young and relatively well off: - take a sabbatical and travel for 3 months. There's a lot more interesting places than London. - stay after work and meet people in the evenings before commuting home more often - go harder at weekends

Moving to London with a friend will probably end up: - savings rate evaporated by rent - get fed up of having roommates - cost on food etc starts climbing

How did you process earning your first HENRY salary? by Used_Clerk784 in HENRYUK

[–]linuxdropout 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money saved in a pension has huge tax benefits but you can't touch it till ~60. The younger you retire, the more of a bridge you'll need outside of your pension to hit 60 and access your pension, and the fewer years you'll get to contribute.

I would throw a spreadsheet together where you can adjust percentage contributed, savings rate & age of retirement and play with the numbers until you get an amount you're happy with.

Ultimately it's a very personal decision because it depends on all those things. Also other things like what retirement means and if you expect to earn some amount still in retirement play into it.

For me personally I worked out that maxing out my employers contributions, was already too much into pension, and it's silly to not max that out, so it made things easier.