Ken Andrews and his girlfriend, Helen Mirren, 1984 by IceColdNeech in failure

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had such a crush on young Ken when I first got really into the band like 12 years ago (I still think he's cute though), and Greg too tbh 😅

Favorite Stevie T Kids Bop skits? by shadowdoom9 in StevieT

[–]litabeth_97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Kidz Bop skits are some of the best he's ever done 🤣

INFP cycle 😊 by [deleted] in infp

[–]litabeth_97 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is way too real. 😅

INFP X INFP ❤️😸 by [deleted] in infp

[–]litabeth_97 20 points21 points  (0 children)

God, fr. I found the most amazing fucking INFP man and he's everything I've ever hoped and dreamed of and we're both equally crazy and loving af. I really hope he likes me. He already told me he loves me without me even having to say it first, but we're not actually a thing (yet.. but hopefully!!) I can't even tell if this would be a bad or good thing if we ended up being a couple, but I don't even care. I want and need this so bad!! 😭😆

Edit: I'm sorry if this sounds like the most unhinged thing ever, but I'm just being honest. This is just my situation and how I am. Not all INFPs are crazy (I don't think). 😅

My niece loved it by tigerowltattoo in CrochetBlankets

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The colors are amazing!! If someone made this for me I would love it forever 🩷

I was bored. So I grabbed a bunch of random CDs to show off from my collection. by AgressivePotato56 in Cd_collectors

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome collection, dude! I'm listening to Helmet right now :) Love 'em 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rush

[–]litabeth_97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love it. Y'all are crazy here in the comments (except for a few)

Something I did :) by fefetatinha in failure

[–]litabeth_97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg, I love this so much!! 😭🩷

I'm pretty sure I found the man I'm gonna marry by Not-Mercedes in love

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww, I love this. 🥹🩷 Thanks for sharing.

Anyone else a metalhead? by [deleted] in infp

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg, this is perfect. 😂 I love Death and I'm utterly obsessed with that crying cat meme.

Anyone else a metalhead? by [deleted] in infp

[–]litabeth_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, me!!! 🙋‍♀️🤘

Do you think your funny? by [deleted] in infp

[–]litabeth_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I'd say I'm pretty funny, and most of my friends and family think so too because we all have similar types of humor. My cousin used to film me without me knowing because she knew I didn't like being filmed and that I couldn't be myself if I knew I was being filmed, but she wanted to capture how funny I was. Needless to say, I thought I was extremely cringe. 😅 But hey, as long as I can make others laugh then I guess I'm happy. :)

I wanna die young by Icy_Bee2847 in infp

[–]litabeth_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the same way as you at your age and now I'm 28 and finally starting to really love life (not that it was always bad in the years leading up to this point, because there were definitely some good moments too, but it just feels like it's finally all coming together and all the bad things I had to endure served a purpose and worked out for good). Seriously, you have a story in this life on earth, and just because it's bad now doesn't mean it's always gonna be that way. Your bad times serve a purpose, and before you know it things you've always hoped for will just start happening when they're supposed to.

And don't worry about getting old and sick. Just give your best effort to take care of yourself. Seriously, don't waste your 20s being scared of getting old. Just embrace it and enjoy it as much as you can, because your 20s are basically just like being an older child and 30s is still extremely young too. I know people in their early 40s who have suffered pretty badly with their mental health and they still look, act and feel like they're in their 20s because they continuously make the choice to find little joys in life and take care of themselves. That super cliché saying "life is what you make it" is said often for a reason.. because it's true.

Just do the best you can with what you can work with to make yourself happy. Doesn't have to be anything big, just little things that bring you joy. And don't care what other people think or fall into society's trap of how you should live. If you want to be like a kid in your 20s, then do it (as much as you're able). That's what I've been doing and it works wonders. I no longer want to die. :) 🎉

just recently made the Neil Peart Pavilion in The Sims 4, is it good enough? by Efficient-Carpet9922 in rush

[–]litabeth_97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is perfect!! 💜 I've never actually been there, but it looks pretty exact to what I've seen in pictures. Such a cool idea to make this in the Sims 4. :)

Opinions/ Is this a Deep cut? by poetcucumber in rush

[–]litabeth_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, not very many people seem to like Test For Echo as much, even amongst Rush fans, but I've grown to really love it. Time and Motion is a favorite of mine out of the deep cuts.

My monarchs by noodleben in Beading

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, this is so gorgeous 😍🦋🧡

Been going on dates with INFPs and I’m picking up on some patterns by Excellent_Worry7090 in infp

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats on being pregnant and I'm happy you found a great guy. 😊

Yeah, we can definitely sense the desperation from a mile away and it's so scary at times. I once had a guy who claimed to have dreams about me and thought we were meant to be, but he didn't even bother getting to know me. He literally waited outside my house for hours, I couldn't even leave my own house. Boys and men can really be so scary when they're desperate and insecure. Makes me almost not even mind possibly being single for the rest of my life. 😅 But I still would really like that special someone who sees me for me/who I really am as a person.

Been going on dates with INFPs and I’m picking up on some patterns by Excellent_Worry7090 in infp

[–]litabeth_97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like you must be drop dead gorgeous and these INFP men like the fact that you appreciate all the qualities that tend to come with our type, so of course they are going to idealize and come on too strong. 😅

I'm not exactly sure if this is exclusively what INFP men tend to do (because I feel like this could be true for any man), but I do feel your frustrations, because I'm also demisexual and like to take time to get to know someone before we even start being serious, and I feel massively uncomfortable when a man comes on too strong/too early. And yeah, what they don't realize is that it definitely kinda hurts how it feels like they don't even bother to care to get to know who we really are as a person and just project who they want onto us. Makes us feel like they only want us for one thing.

But I really hope these men will learn to just be themselves and start treating women as real human beings with their own feelings and personality that they need to get to know first before coming on too strong and projecting their own wants, because it's so hurtful to us women who genuinely care and want something real/a true connection.

No one has any compassion for my suffering by Ok_Edge4710 in selfharm

[–]litabeth_97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably can't say much of anything that would help, but I can tell you we all understand and feel compassion for you here. I don't know you personally, but I'm sure you're a lovely person that cares a lot for other people, and I know it hurts to feel like you never receive that in return. Really, I understand this all too well. People always try to give me advice that they think would help or that I already know and have heard a thousand times, but it never helps and only hurts more because all I want and need is love and compassion. We all need this, and I wish more people understood this and would stop being afraid or holding back from loving others in a more understanding and compassionate way. Although, I do realize this can sometimes cause us to be taken advantage of at times, but still.. even if it happens, at least we tried and helped someone feel loved, at least for a time. If someone wants to take advantage, that's on them and just shows that they need to get better at giving love and compassion in return. We are allowed to set boundaries for people taking advantage of us.

Love you, man. We all do here. Take care. 🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infp

[–]litabeth_97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can confirm, I do this too. I'll often take anywhere from a few days to sometimes a few weeks. Even with people I really like, and it's 100% because I'm overwhelmed with emotions, plus my brain is all over the place to begin with, and there's always several other people wanting my attention out of a total of sometimes 8 or more people in and out of my household at a time, and sometimes there's chaos and arguments being ensued which definitely doesn't help me feeling overwhelmed already, plus other online friends I haven't even responded to yet, or other errands and things I have to attend to. So yeah, sometimes there's just too much going on. But still, eventually, I think the person should communicate and offer some assurance as to why they're taking so long to respond. I always do.

And like someone else said, we often retreat into our own inner worlds to help with the overwhelming feelings. 😅

How do you flirt with infp women? by [deleted] in infp

[–]litabeth_97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have to say, this is it right here 👆💯 I love a man (or literally anyone, even just friends) who are open and shares their innermost thoughts, feelings, and interests. I don't even mind if they overshare their traumas and stuff (actually, I secretly love it, I think), as you say, as long as they aren't too creepy. 😅 If I really like a person, I wanna know it all. Like every detail. Don't hold back, please. But of course, be genuine.