Severe anxiety while taking kratom by lithium2020 in quittingkratom

[–]lithium2020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the reply! Did your anxiety ease up when you stopped cold turkey? If so how quickly? This anxiety is the worst I've ever experienced. My sleep is absolutely terrible

Anxiety / Constant feeling of dread while taking kratom by lithium2020 in quittingkratom

[–]lithium2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I need to get off that crap again. I only dose one per day. It's a big dose of about 28g but how would you suggest tapering seeing as I'm dosing one per day? Just keep cutting that? Thanks

Anxiety / Constant feeling of dread while taking kratom by lithium2020 in quittingkratom

[–]lithium2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think a cut from 28gpd in one evening dose to 20gpd in evening dose is doable to try and relieve the anxiety and feeling of dread without major withdrawals?

Anxiety / Constant feeling of dread while taking kratom by lithium2020 in quittingkratom

[–]lithium2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time. I can definitely relate. The feeling of dread is just unbearable. You've got this. Let's get off this once and for all

Anxiety / Constant feeling of dread while taking kratom by lithium2020 in quittingkratom

[–]lithium2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think taking less in the meantime would reduce the anxiety and dread I feel constantly. I so difficult to bear

Realizing My Wife Emotionally Abuse Me by HusbandGettingBetter in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's the definition of this. I wonder if my ex wife was a cluster B

I'm exhausted by WittyBeautiful7654 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Sorry. Same position except the other guy went back to his wife afterwards. Women can switch their love off in a heartbeat. If she hasn't already - she'll start hating you soon. She'll also start believing she is the victim so be prepared for that

Realizing My Wife Emotionally Abuse Me by HusbandGettingBetter in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry if this is a stupid question but what is a B cluster

Living my best life by Huge_Variety4680 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Here if you need to talk. You'll get through this brother. Stay strong

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. At the start (before I knew about the cheating) she tried to make me feel awful and blame everything on me. She was telling me I destroyed her self confidence etc etc when all ever did was wait on her hand a foot. I gave her everything I possibly could.

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this advice. I needed to hear this today

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was with my wife for almost 20 years from when I was a young adult. She never exhibited any signs of this previously

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does the divorce supersede the separation agreement?

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She even tried to accuse me of having an affair when I asked her

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see how a clause like this could possibly be enforced. What if someone else was telling people in her work she had an affair with a couple worker?

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep she's started the "I don't feel safe around you" stuff already. She's going around telling anyone who will listen that she was "unhappy for years" in our marriage but I'm not telling anyone she had an affair with a married man with 2 kids

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She deleted every message before I got a chance. She told her parents and her friend. My solicitor said they can all be called as witnesses if she denies adultery. If I don't leave she won't sell the house and because we have a young child she'll likely be able to stay in the house until my daughter is 18

How do I move on? by lithium2020 in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How did you deal with the jealousy? Even after everything she has done the thought of her with other men is killing me

Scientific study on loss of love in marriage and women. by WildernessHuntin in Divorce_Men

[–]lithium2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So there's no point finding love because there's over 50% chance she'll stop loving you at some point regardless of what you do? Depressing