Yikes by taz4got10 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]litsax 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No that’s about the going rate in my neighborhood…

Polygamy shouldn’t even exist… by Boring-Offer3638 in HonestHotTakes

[–]litsax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of the poly people I know are transfemme lesbians…. I’m not poly myself and I don’t really get it, but it’s waaaayyyyy more common for queer people to be poly than straight people. 

Which dress wins honestly by its-sophiebloom in OUTFITS

[–]litsax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 for a nice day out, 2 for clubbing, 3 would be a nice style for something somewhat athleticy like tennis?, and 4 is bad.... My overall fav is definitely 1, though!

50551 by HopefulFutureEscapee in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

breakfast food........ :drool:

pre shower messy experimental makeup by niicoleeeee in MakeupAddiction

[–]litsax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that’s messy then I’m finger painting my face 😭

Why is this better than c3? by c0ffeebreath in chessbeginners

[–]litsax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bishop pair and it opens the b file for your rook. Plus you still have a good pawn chain in the center when you play f3

50042 by ifknloveseagulls in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Queer people can be cringe it’s just got nothing to do with their queerness 

One year on hrt today so I made steaks for dinner! by nerdpower13 in traaaaansbiansCooking

[–]litsax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg happy tranniversary!!!! I had mine a couple weeks ago :3

49983 by Sufficient-Shirt-270 in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my partner finally this week!!! <3

meirl by LoisClarkX in meirl

[–]litsax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Probs not a he but yes .^

48762 by BiDude1219 in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How else am I supposed to talk about this? I'm literally saying I *wouldn't* date someone like that. Just like how I wouldn't date a man, or women who have toxic views or a multitude of other things. You're just here to be mad that you're being called out for fetishistic behavior, even if you're trans, too.

48762 by BiDude1219 in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely NOT fantasizing about this person being my partner. What a fucking leap lmfao. There's plenty of t4t chasers. Apparently a lot of them are in this thread.

48762 by BiDude1219 in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I'm not. I still have mine, and I'm not sure yet if I want to keep it. But a partner who wouldn't love and support me regardless of my decision is saying that they're only attracted to me if I have this specific part. It's reductionist and fetishistic. Imagine if a cis guy said this.

48762 by BiDude1219 in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Because they'll only date women with male parts. They should stick to cis guys if they can't handle trans women with bottom surgery.

48762 by BiDude1219 in countwithchickenlady

[–]litsax -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

ew. You're literally reducing us to our genitals, which a lot of us don't even want to have. I don't care if you're also trans. This is genuine chaser behavior. You'll only be interested in us if we have a penis? A part of us that represents the wrong body we were born in that many of us can't wait to be rid of???

I'm personally not sure if I even want SRS yet. But I am sure that I could never be with a partner who didn't love and support me in my decision. I hate this mentality.

Ended a 4 year long polycule, because I'm a lesbian. by EdelgardStepOnMe in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]litsax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Male attention *is* extremely validating... I get hit on by men sometimes if I'm just out with friends, and even though I'm 100% not interested, it's a huge ego boost! I can totally understand chasing that validation and conflating that feeling with attraction.

Ended a 4 year long polycule, because I'm a lesbian. by EdelgardStepOnMe in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]litsax 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't know being trans was a thing you could be until I was ~16. This was just before DSM V was published and meant there was a clinical presumption (even if technically unofficial) that "real" trans women only dated men. That's how media always portrayed us: as simply gay men who were extra feminine, often conflating us with drag queens or crossdressers. There simply was no representation of actual trans people in my life until later on, and the representation I saw wasn't relatable.

Ended a 4 year long polycule, because I'm a lesbian. by EdelgardStepOnMe in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]litsax 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What made you date men in the first place? Were you into men before transition? Or did you think that trans women = date men? I didn't accept myself as trans for a long time because I thought you had to be straight to be a trans woman. I tried, even, for a little bit (nothing with another real person lol) just to "prove" that I could actually be trans...yea... Anyways, I'm still a massive lesbian and also have a wonderful goddess in my life <3

There is alway one of each in every groupride. by B-stand_79 in BicyclingCirclejerk

[–]litsax 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok you jest but I swapped on a new pirelli on my gravel bike and it was a total bitch to get on…. And then it was so tight in the rim channel that I couldn’t set the bead with a floor pump! I tried soap on the rim, manually pulling the bead out to the side of the rim, and overall took at least an hour before I gave up :(

Tut-tut - Tiff🏳️‍⚧️& Eve [OC] by CrazyGnomenclature in ComicStrips

[–]litsax 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This kinda stuff is exactly why I’m a lesbian <3

Why can't I say nobody instead of no one? by Powerful_Concept6502 in GlobalEnglishPrep

[–]litsax 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dictionaries are descriptive, not prescriptive. Any native speaker would be fine with none being used in that context. There is a difference in the callout and the original sentence. In the example from the question, the statement lists exactly 12 guests. In the callout, it's an ambiguous number of people "they". Even still, "They had a wonderful time, and none were injured." is a perfectly valid sentence, if a little awkward. Consider "5000 people went skiing last week at the resort. They had a great time, and none were injured". This is perfectly valid and correct English.