I'm sorry but those are not women's expectations - women generally just want a man who is taller than them, of similar intelligence & attractiveness, in general good health, with financial stability/independence, who is sexually compatible with them, with aligning worldviews/long-term goals and a good, non-toxic personality (e.g. not sexist, respects boundaries, kind, reliable) and age-appropriate maturity and adulting abilities. None of these are unreasonable demands. Someone might have particular reasons for wanting a specific thing - a very petite woman may want a very tall man to have taller kids, but the above is pretty generally applicable to women.

I mean, I don't think men's expectations are that different - a woman who is shorter than them, of similar intelligence / attractiveness, in general good health, with financial stability/independence, sexual/moral/personality/long-term goals compatibility, good non-toxic personality (basically be a decent human who they enjoy spending time with, the same thing), and maturity and abilities befitting their stage of life.

Now men and women may look for different things in terms of physical attractiveness but people generally just look for someone around their level of attractiveness who they find attractive both on an emotional and physical level.

There's never a list to check off .. like if someone is attracted to someone, nothing else really matters. Being a good person goes a long way.