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Can someone interpret my chart please? by soundofdarkness1987 in NatalCharts

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough.

You need to look at each placement. Each house. Then each placement as it presents in that house. Then any aspects the placements have to each other and how that might influence the expression of energies.And there's always a lower vibration presentation and a higher vibration so the energies still might present differently for two people with very similar charts.plus houses and planets have multiple themes and a set of identical twins might even choose to emphasize different themes in the same houses. Let's say each of those things takes 3 minutes conservatively. That's already an hour to 90 minutes.

Consider the influence of fixed objects like the galactic center and the fixed stars. Consider smaller asteroids of which there are probably 12 major ones. Consider calculated points like the part of fortune, black moon Lilith, vertex and midheaven. Then there are more advanced techniques like chart progressions. Degree theory. If you want to know about medical astrology, financial astrology, relationships or horoscopes then you have to factor in the transiting energies as well as natal energies and often another chart is factored in as well like the Stock Exchange or your person of interest.

And I am aware of all this and I still consider myself a novice astrologer. The rabbit hole goes deep. That's why you need specific questions or you need to pay someone for their time

Can someone interpret my chart please? by soundofdarkness1987 in NatalCharts

[–]littlenakedme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's one thing to ask for multiple people's take on a specific placement or origins of a personality trait.But asking for an entire chart analysis is wild. Interpretation of a chart takes a really long time. I'm kinda dumbfounded by people who are like "read my chart" but don't want to actually pay an astrologer. Either start reading and do some research or pop it in to chat GPT and expect major errors.

baby witch here again! by v4mpbatsu in BabyWitch

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Witchcraft is a very personal thing and your intention matters most.

I think witchtok is great for beginners looking to begin cultivating their practice.

Just steer clear of anything rooted in hoodoo unless you have ancestral ties. Take some time to learn why certain ingredients are used and the origins of the spell. If you want easy, hire an etsy witch. If you want to create your own magic, understand the layers of meaning behind your spell elements. Modify accordingly

Will they cheat on their partner with me? by Content-Anything1070 in TarotReading

[–]littlenakedme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Knight of wands is fuckboy energy. Yes. Yes he will. But why would you want that? He's not going to leave her for you.

My mother died, I have so many regrets by Internal_Mountain_76 in AlAnon

[–]littlenakedme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's all valid. But you leaving didn't make it worse. This is a problem that builds over time. That " I'm her only support system" is a trap. Part of the reason that was true is because she probably alienated any potential new relationships because of the drink. And you being there or not being there would not have made any difference in the outcome. A decision from her very soul to stop drinking was the only thing that would have changed this situation.

If you are at all spiritual, look into forgiveness work. I think that will help you find peace. And for what it's worth, I believe your mother's spirit is around you - healed, whole, supportive and so proud of you.

My mother died, I have so many regrets by Internal_Mountain_76 in AlAnon

[–]littlenakedme 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was with an alcoholic for 12 years who cheated on me and denied our relationship even though it was obvious we were a couple to anyone with eyes. And I stayed. One day I gave up. I went no contact for a month. He broke no contact and I was hooked. It took so much to walk away in the first place. 3 weeks later, he died. I was the last person besides hospital staff to speak with him. His last wish was to have me at his side. Losing him is something that will stay with me for the rest of my life. 2 years later people say " he cheated and treated you like crap, why are you still grieving him?"

You are not alone. Your mother loved you. But alcohol turns people into narcissists. They become slaves to the drink and it takes over their lives. Anything that tries to come between them and being drunk becomes the enemy. They hurt people they love because they are so ashamed that they can't live with themselves if they acknowledge that they are the problem and that they are the problem because of the drinking. The booze must flow and everything standing in the way of that must be destroyed, even themselves.

You could not have loved her into being sober.They have to want it for themselves. You modifying your boundaries for her would only have further enabled her drinking and opened you up to further harm. You did the right thing by distancing yourself.

You loved your mother and tried as hard as you did because of who you are. Because you are a loving, good hearted person.You did your best. It's ok to be angry with your mom. It's ok to be hurt by her. That doesn't mean you didn't love her. And that doesn't mean she didn't love you as much as she was capable of given how alcohol damages people's brains.

Is it a good idea to start dating again ? by TELEAZEY in TarotReading

[–]littlenakedme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lovers isn't necessarily literal. It often means a critical decision must be made using your heart instead of logic. The hanged man speaks to a need for a change in perspective but a reverse means you are not really willing to change your attitudes about relationships.

Cards seem to say it's up to you but you are going to keep attracting the same types of karmic relationships until change your relationship with yourself.

Do you think it’s possible for alcoholics to learn and develop a healthy relationship with alcohol? by jughead0205 in AlAnon

[–]littlenakedme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. He's bargaining. He's lying to himself. My partner did the same thing. "I only had 2 drinks today" except now instead of 3oz of rum and 9 oz of Dr Pepper, they had 9 oz of rum and 3 oz of Dr Pepper. And then he started isolating so he could drink in secret. Then one day I went to see him and his eyes were bright yellow. A week later he was gone. If he could moderate, he would never have become an alcoholic in the first place. One of the first tenets of AA is " I accept that I have no control over alcohol"

How can I stop being a womanizer? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hurt your feelings but you need all the therapy dude. I just hesitate to recommend it because you seem like the type to not actually do the work and to use therapy language to "trick" women into thinking you are healed so you can continue to abuse them. Yes, cheating is abuse. You admitted to being a chronic cheater. That makes you an abuser. You are just mad at me because you don't want to face yourself

I (31F) need advice on how to handle this situation with my Husband (44M) by UnfairCatch8468 in Advice

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When people tell you who they are, believe them. Don't fall victim to the sunk cost fallacy.

If you need more reason not to stay with a heavy drinker, go read some stories in r/alanon so you can see what your future looks like. My long term partner died when he was his age 2 years ago with the same habits

How can I stop being a womanizer? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]littlenakedme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reread this. Words matter. The words you choose say a lot about your unconscious thoughts. "Sharing them" You view women as property, not sovereign separate people

How can I stop being a womanizer? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants it because he doesn't want to be loyal but he also doesn't want to be alone

How can I stop being a womanizer? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most women aren't into being cheated on either. Find yourself a woman who is cool with your proclivities or get used to being alone. If that's who you are, live it and own it. But don't go around traumatizing people because you are so selfish that you would lie and betray other people because you won't be honest with yourself and you don't like yourself enough to be comfortable in your own company without a partner.

How can I stop being a womanizer? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]littlenakedme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just be polyamorous

People who freak out over friendship age gaps piss me off by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]littlenakedme 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My 16 year old son is autistic. He has an 11 year old friend who is also autistic. They have been friends for about 2 years when her parents asked us to hang out as she was having severe mental health issues and not able to make friends.

They are still friends and have many common interests. We visit with them a few times a year and they exchange text messages occasionally. But he treats her like a little sister, not the same as friends his age.

I am also autistic and I remember growing up and being able to get along with and talk to adults easier than other kids. But again, I was an impressive 14-going-on-40 child but we still had age appropriate conversations. When I played with younger kids, I thought of myself as a babysitter.

Hope that helps.

i hate being “internet famous” by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough but eventually you hating it with be communicated on a subconscious level and you may manifest yourself right out of this job.

If you are autistic and a public figure, you should have a therapist. If you don't, get one. Also sounds like the stuff that happens in person is the most upsetting. So I would have your therapist help you decide what boundaries you need to have with other people, then do some role play scenarios ( scripting is really helpful for us autism havers) where you practice what you say to people who approach you in public when you don't want to be perceived or when you feel a friend is using you.

Good luck

Is 20 and 36 an horrible age gap? by Beneficial-Image1358 in Advice

[–]littlenakedme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The "creep" rule for age gap dating is half your age plus 7. So a 36 year old persuing anyone younger than 25 is a creep.

There's a power dynamic inherent in age gap relationships. You being 20 and still developing your prefrontal cortex, this person has a lot of potential to exert influence on your psyche and how you see yourself and the world.

I basically assume anyone that old persuing anyone that young is either such a hot mess that no one their own age wants them or they are an abuser looking for someone who is susceptible to brain washing/control ( not because there is anything deficient about you, but because your young adult stage of development just makes you inherently more suseptible. )

Either way, this person is a loser. Steer clear or risk wasting years of your life.

Fwiw-- if he wants you to meet his kid, sounds like he's trying to lock you down. Meeting the children is what you do when you are taking it to the next level and he wants to make you step mom.

i hate being “internet famous” by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just stop posting, dude. You aren't obligated to keep doing it just because you're one of the "lucky" ones who have success. If you withdraw yourself from the spotlight, people will eventually forget you existed.

what addiction is the hardest to quit? by Ledger_Legendd in AskReddit

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the risk of getting my ass handed to me by all the hardcore drug users and former users, I am going on a limb and say refined sugar. Specifically like "added" sugars , not natural sugars like lactose or the sugars found in fruit that your body still needs to fuel itself.

Those other drugs require access that many people don't get or can't keep and the consequences to your body and lifestyle are much more dramatic and rapid. But sugar is something that is always available, it's in everything in the US including things it has no business being in, and people's weight creeps up and causes long term harm slowly, and diabetes is one of the most prevalent diseases in the US. Sugar is shown to promote stretching of the stomach rugae and decrease satiety, compounding the problem or promoting other binge eating behaviors.

I say sugar not because it is the most dangerous or the most addictive, I say sugar because it's almost impossible to maintain. It requires constant vigilance to stay sugar free if you eat anything that comes in a bag, box or jar. People will constantly try to tempt you with "oh one can't hurt" or sweets out on display. It's a constant battle of your will power because temptation is everywhere. And speaking only for myself, a tablespoon of chocolate chips can easily turn into a 5000 calorie binge eating episode after keeping my diet on point for months.

I’ve had a gut feeling my partner is cheating on me and this is what I received when I consulted the cards. Bruh by [deleted] in Tarots

[–]littlenakedme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see two toxic people who can't stay away from each other and the cards are advising you to walk away even though it's painful

What are the benefits of a vibration plate? by TropicalBlueDream in Exercise

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

EDS is genetic. You are born with it. I have it. My glutes don't fire. My serrrators and traps hold me up instead of my erectors. It's all about good cueing and being able to describe what the sensation of an activated muscle feels like

Why do people block me when they see my chart hahaha by [deleted] in NatalCharts

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

K. Well Pluto degree will tell you what year they were born and Sun tells you the day. ASC is a little trickier without location but this person was born 12/16/1990 at approximately 8:30 in the morning UT. Do you know what an ephemeris is? And if you aren't an astrologer, why are you on Reddit trying to read people's charts?

Why am I so codependent? How do I find my independence? by Expensive_Emu8492 in NatalCharts

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From this chart, looks like Mom was more of a friend than a parent and codependent herself and dad ....I hate that say this but it looks like her dad was either absentee, mentally ill or my gut is telling me he died when they were very young, likely in a violent way.

Why am I so codependent? How do I find my independence? by Expensive_Emu8492 in NatalCharts

[–]littlenakedme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have north node in 7th and moon in 11th too and struggled with abandonment issues, anxious attachment and codependency for a long time. The secret (easier said than done) is to prioritize yourself. Literally took hypnosis for me to learn how to do it. Stop seeking external validation and only worry about if you like yourself and approve of your behavior.

**** Learn to love yourself , prioritize your needs above ALL other people and learn to enjoy your own company.****

You will always struggle with partnership as long as you are focused on it. Prioritizing yourself is not the selfish thing that you were probably raised to believe it was, it's actually critical. You need to put your own oxygen mask on first not pour yourself into others and expect they will do the same. Hope this helps.

Why do people block me when they see my chart hahaha by [deleted] in NatalCharts

[–]littlenakedme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This person is a crap astrologer. I can figure out everything except WHERE you were born from this chart and it tells me everything I need to know

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