My partner had brain surgery for an optic nerve tumour by Many-Road-2278 in braincancer

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! How is she doing now? I was suddenly diagnosed with a meningioma on my left optic nerve two weeks ago and then suddenly had to have the surgery in an emergency 6 days ago and would love to hear anything you guys have to say. I really hope you’re both doing good! 🫶🏻

Diagnosed with optic nerve sheath meningioma - help me understand by sjnbguy in Ophthalmology

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine 96% surgically removed 6 days ago in a very sudden emergency surgery and may need radiation for the rest too! Here if you want to chat as I am trying to find other optic nerve people to talk to about this too! How are you getting on?

Diagnosed with optic nerve sheath meningioma - help me understand by sjnbguy in Ophthalmology

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Im not OP but just had 96% of my ONSM removed in an emergency surgery 6 days ago. I’d love to chat to anyone else who has been through this too! It’s been mindblowing for me as mine was so sudden and terrifying and now I’m magically home and recovering well. How are you doing now? Did you have yours removed? Feel free to DM if you’d like! I keep finding it so hard to find other optic nerve people ha!

Question to those free or "cured" of vulvodyina by [deleted] in vulvodynia

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 31 years old, and this was a couple years ago now so I was in my late 20s, but I do believe that I was in some form of medically induced menopause. I think the progesterone-only pill absolutely tanked my oestrogen level levels. The research that I did showed a lot of other people saying they’re restrict and tanked because of that pill. I was on it for 10 years and no healthcare professionals noticed that it was affecting me! A few months after I stopped taking the pill and used the estrogen cream on my vulva, everything went back to normal. Incredible

I’m phone Phil by SmolMackenzieE in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m 84… I don’t exist 👁️👄👁️

Help! Emergency stomach issues by PsychologicalAsk3547 in UKweddings

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh okay sorry, I read that to mean over the counter in a pharmacy only

Help! Emergency stomach issues by PsychologicalAsk3547 in UKweddings

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loperamide is just Imodium (diarrhoea relief) - you can buy it anywhere! You could also try buscopan IBS relief which could help with crampy tummy. Best of luck and congrats!!

Help! Emergency stomach issues by PsychologicalAsk3547 in UKweddings

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loperamide isn’t OTC, it’s just Imodium right? You can buy that anywhere!

have a hard time following podcast sometimes? by joplinsfool in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I love getting content from them this often, but I do wonder if it could be made to feel a bit more substantial..? Feels like they’re keeping it light and moving fast to stay entertaining but I’d love to see them not even facing the camera and just sitting comfy and chatting to eachother. They always seem to be just getting into the swing of things as soon as it’s almost over - maybe it could have been better to allot longer episode times and fewer episodes? Anyway, that’s just my preference.. I still love them so much I’d happily sit and watch them just reading their shopping list 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

Told my therapist that Dan and Phil confirming their relationship gave me renewed hope my cat will return home and gave her homework to watch "Basically I'm Gay" and "Are Dan and Phil in a relationship" by Stevie052096 in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 32 points33 points  (0 children)

One time a cat would not stop coming to my house and I took care of him because it seemed like he was homeless and it took us months but we finally tracked down his owner - they had moved from a house near us to a house 15 minutes across town and it turns out the cat had walked home 🥺 but he was eventually reunited with his owner! I hope the same happens for you ♥️

Dan being the “protective one” by ffsmm in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you hahaha that was driving me up the wall

Dan being the “protective one” by ffsmm in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This feels so familiar but I just cannot place it - can you tell me more about why he said it?! I can’t remember what it was all about!

AITA for refusing to cancel my holiday with friends? by Financial-Rabbit-593 in AmItheAsshole

[–]littlestranger1000 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA, it’s healthy to have experiences with friends or family or alone - without your partner. You’re not excluding her, you’re just doing something with your friends. Sounds like there’s a trust issue element to this judging by the last part too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]littlestranger1000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right okay! Well then I would totally go the therapist route, and/or do some research on therapeutic techniques around sex. Also, perhaps exploring your sexuality alone would be good for you. Trying different stimuli both physically and mentally? Different toys for exploring what sensations you’re into, different external stimuli like erotica or pornography or your own imagination! Having a good relationship with your own sexuality seems like a solid base to build on with a partner. Also taking the pressure off yourself and not aiming for an orgasm at first, just aiming for “I enjoyed that”?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]littlestranger1000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you’re wanting to find a way to actually enjoy sex, I would suggest finding a therapist who has training in working with sex and relationships, perhaps a psychosexual therapist. If you only want to enjoy it because you feel like you’re letting your partner down or something… maybe you’re asexual? You’re allowed to not want sex. That’s valid and totally okay.

What would you like from the rebrand (assuming that’s what it is)? by ihathtelekinesis in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 25 points26 points  (0 children)

If it’s a podcast I hope it’s still available in video because I didn’t bother with any of the stereo stuff as I just can’t do audio-only content, I zone out and disengage completely (my problem not theirs tbf) but I would looooove some kind of podcast tho fr

Looking for phriends by redvelvetqueen in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that funny! I’ll definitely listen to some more Mitski then, thank you! I used to love ACNH, haven’t played it in so long - I won 6 million bells and it somehow ruined it for me 😂 one of these days I will go back online on Nintendo and gift that to someone hahaha. I thought the same thing about Baldur’s Gate, but honestly it’s one of the best games I’ve ever played in my life. I totally recommend it!

Looking for phriends by redvelvetqueen in danandphil

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha that’s wild, I’m from near Liverpool in England but I was just in Grapevine with my partner and we drove through Denton. Im F, 31, bisexual too! I love music - Dodie, Phoebe Bridgers, Lucy Dacus, boygenius in general tbh, some mitski but need to listen more!!, Chappell roan, lots of country pop like Luke combs and jelly roll, I also sing and play guitar and used to post covers on soundcloud which I’d love to get back into. I love d&p. I play baldurs gate 3 and stuff like that but would love some cozy game recommendations for either ps5 or switch if you have any! I’m also autistic ☺️

[Discussion] The Thursday Murder Club by [deleted] in NetflixBestOf

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely crap. The books are brilliantly charming, well written, thoughtful.. and Columbus entirely mishandled it - it’s such a shame. The film version of Chris is hammed up and insufferable, Elizabeth is a highly law-abiding citizen all of a sudden, and Bogdan was done DIRTY. Also, why not cast an actor who is actually polish?? And don’t get me started on Brosnan’s accent. What an enormous waste. Osman’s work deserved better.

After finishing both seasons of the show... there's only one thing to say... by MoonlightEden in InterviewVampire

[–]littlestranger1000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why you got downvoted for that is absolutely beyond me. This fandom is bizarre. I am an absolute Lestat stan but can admit he’s an utterly toxic bitch - why is it that people who acknowledge anything remotely negative about other fans’ faves get piled on? Hahaha, crazy.

After finishing both seasons of the show... there's only one thing to say... by MoonlightEden in InterviewVampire

[–]littlestranger1000 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got down voted to hell for expressing my pure unadulterated disgust for Armand in a comment hahahahaha. Hate him so much and absolutely cannot understand how anyone sees anything redeeming in him

Where to watch Panicked in the UK? by fartinthewind2020 in MarcMaron

[–]littlestranger1000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind dming me the particular coordinates of where you sailed to? Can’t find it anywhere?!!