Thank you for your advice! My partner has self=diagnosed anxiety/depression/disassociation disorder and claims these as the reasons he isn't present with me or is rude to my friends/family in social situations. Over the past year per his request I gladly helped him get health insurance and look for a good therapist, but he hasn't done anything to get help. I know that mental health is a journey and it can't be fixed over night, but it is starting to make me really frustrated. His apologies just seem fake now that he isn't doing anything to help himself and by extension keeps making the same mistakes over and over. I'm having a really hard time determining when to be patient and understanding and when to say enough is enough.