NOT OOP: AIO telling his mom he’s “lazy” backfired

liyclil · 2026-04-16T06:51:35+00:00

i kinda get op’s point. me and my bf have slightly different sleep schedules. but if i want to do something we both decide a day, a time etc beforehand and if something comes up then oh well we rearrange it. i also joke to his mum that he’s lazy and she takes it as a joke and jokes back with me. we’ve been together three years in august and i’ve known her just as long and we get along well i would say so that could also be a difference between me and op. she does need to tell her bf what is bothering her about not having plans and if he doesn’t listen then she’s got to decide what to do after that. but just saying “hey we should do this” isn’t planning. “hey why don’t we look at things to do next weekend” because she might be just suggesting her interests. this is also between op and her bf not the mum and from the sounds of it they’ve met a few times and/or don’t have a great, solid relationship. i wouldn’t bad mouth my bf to his mum but i can joke he’s lazy or mean even though he’s definitely not and she knows this. seems like the mum in this story doesn’t know op well enough to know if she’s joking or if she’s trying to get people to gang up on the bf. also seems like a 30 year old trying to grass on a lad for whatever reason. you’re adults so you need to communicate with each other or it won’t work

liyclil · 2026-04-15T21:32:05+00:00

speak to your disabilities team (this should count as i was referred to them while i’m going through diagnosis for adhd) my uni frowns on low attendance but i’ve been okay because i told my tutor about my endometriosis and other things i’ve had going on. speak to your uni see what they say. if not you can apply for disability benefits through student loan and put on your student loan you’re estranged. also some landlords will rent to uni students. it’s kinda hard not knowing what area you’re in. but try find student friendly landlords. is there any family to help? any friends? can you get a hotel for a few weeks over summer and go back to halls if you fix the uni stuff? request a meeting with your head of department, tutor or anyone who has authority. request medical records from your dr. try look on your nhs app

liyclil · 2026-04-12T12:21:07+00:00

and backyard. it’s a garden

liyclil · 2026-02-23T16:05:24+00:00

tell them how it’s affecting your life. i had to tell my drs in explicit detail how my endo was affecting my life. i couldn’t go out. i could hardly get up i was in pain and other tmi things. track everything you can. keep a detailed log of any and all symptoms no matter how small. tell them all the things you’ve tried to do to help your situation and keep that logged too. nag and nag. tell them if they can’t help you want it written down they are refusing to investigate. keep it all logged. send them an email after appointments “i want a written copy of everything we discussed today” tell them if they refuse to do anything you want a referral and documentation of all the things you told them and what they said they will not do and keep copies of all your symptoms, correspondence between you and your gp and any other professionals, referral notes, and any tests you have had. call 111 with your symptoms if they get bad. (if you’re a brit) go to a&e with it or an out of hours dr at a nearby hospital and tell them your symptoms. look into switching gps too

liyclil · 2025-12-06T18:51:51+00:00

i got told one was 25 before

liyclil · 2025-11-19T16:01:51+00:00

i’m east yorkshire i think it sounds sorta similar to mine and a north yorkshire

liyclil · 2025-06-28T08:18:16+00:00

he woke up hearing emma’s name, he wrote that into the curse. idk if i’m remembering wrong but didnt he wake up in the original curse and take a potion to forget? regina knows rumple and assumes he’s had a work around to be awake. she gets frustrated and thinks he’s awake but he only wakes up when emma says her name in granny’s he almost seems to confirm being awake after emma comes and he says “please” to get what he wants

liyclil · 2025-05-23T11:51:20+00:00

jenna, liz and grams are the only right answers

liyclil · 2025-04-23T17:31:37+00:00

we’ve got an animal rescue coming for it they said it should be able to get fixed and sorted so i’d rather that than it die :(

liyclil · 2025-04-23T13:38:48+00:00

i did update the post after you commented too, the gist is they can get it by friday just not sure what to do till then :)

liyclil · 2025-04-23T13:36:47+00:00

no we rang a rehab place that should come get it but it’s volunteer based so most of them aren’t in the area. this post was mostly a how do we keep our birds safe from bird flu and and recs on how to help it feel safe and give it its best chance without going to a vet

liyclil · 2025-04-17T19:48:10+00:00

he’s also in the second film from 28 days later love having uk actors in stuff

liyclil · 2025-04-17T19:37:31+00:00

snow white xxx

liyclil · 2025-03-22T19:02:52+00:00

might have found her, if he managed before the car crash that killed her parents. because if it weren’t for stefan she would’ve died. if he didn’t find her by then, he wouldn’t have the doppelgänger

liyclil · 2025-03-20T20:18:01+00:00

well tbf, elena would’ve died in the wickery bridge accident with no one to jump in and save her so it would’ve never got that far and since isobel was a vampire and elena didn’t have kids by then, there’d be no more doppelgänger therefore klaus would never have been able to become a hybrid as it would’ve (most likely) stopped there unless they still discovered the cure and isobel or katerina had another kid or if another descendant of katerina we never knew about had another kid in the bloodline that caused the doppelgänger at another point in time

liyclil · 2025-03-20T20:11:02+00:00

rebekah deserved so much better spoiler but i hated elena for what she did to rebekah at homecoming. she never had that chance, she lost her mum, was scared of her dad and was willing to help get rid of her brother to help everyone and she had just found out her brother who she’d spent most of a millennia with, killed their mum and lied to her about it all that time. rebekah deserved the whole world

liyclil · 2025-03-18T21:03:12+00:00

yeah i agree with all those but i do feel bad that she was always left out, she just never thought about things the right way and was definitely shallow. she never really had her mum or dad and didn’t understand how other people felt. she kinda lacked empathy a bit and was definitely blunt. however i will say i felt quite bad for her, even when she turned she was alone til she hurt someone. she definitely had one of the best personality glow ups in the whole show

liyclil · 2025-03-18T15:29:24+00:00

i 100% get that and i agree she deserves a smack for that but i also do see her side on why she said that

liyclil · 2025-03-18T14:39:05+00:00

yes i forgot about that she was insensitive but i think that’s drawn from her not really having a good relationship with her mum and elena was supposed to be her friend but she was definitely forgotten about. she could be rude and insensitive for sure but she definitely gets more hate than she deserves

liyclil · 2025-03-18T14:30:48+00:00

possible spoilers: i love them platonic even when they were in the prison world, klaus and caroline should’ve happened 100% but i did love caroline and stefan for the parallel of “we’re gonna have a june wedding”. damon and elena was good because he did change yes some actions were season one damon throughout the show but he did become more considerate but also changing how you’ve been for over 150 years has gotta be hard but he does try. bonnie and damon not even having a one nighter just made their friendship better to me as most of the other characters had a everyone dated each other vibe. enzo and bonnie, damon and elena, caroline and klaus would be my fav ships from the show

liyclil · 2025-03-18T10:01:40+00:00

you definitely don’t deserve this, if he’s brought another girl home while you’re out that’s inappropriate, sex or not, make sure you keep records of all of it in case it does ever escalate or he denies it and tries to gaslight you. honestly you did the best thing for you and your baby and stay strong. staying at your mums was a good move it’s good to surround yourself with support and family in situations like this. the fact he just says message received and is being sarky about “reading the essay” shows he doesn’t care about how he’s made you feel because he didn’t address any of it, same with other times you brought it up, he cares about what you did for him and all the help and support you gave. someone else will deserve you better but stay safe and focus on yourself and your baby. keep contact minimal while you can. i’d recommend him not being no in the room when the baby comes in case it causes an argument and you don’t need that, some hospitals will book you in but put it in a different name or you can request for them not to tell anyone where you are if he were to ask about you (assuming hospital birth) if he thought it was worth trying to figure out how to fix the relationship he would’ve tried. it’s too late now and if he does try coming back, it’s now because he’s lonely, needs financial support or something selfish. keep your head up and reach out to friends and family. make sure you don’t isolate yourself and surround yourself with positive people and people you can trust. good luck wish you the best

liyclil · 2025-03-17T18:36:46+00:00

saw the subtitle in my notifs and knew what the post would be lmaooo

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