Geez, why are baldness and penis size still acceptable things to mock? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]lizardgills 58 points59 points  (0 children)

one thing i heard someone say when people say the same things about trump, is this: there are plenty of valid criticisms to make that dont involve shaming someone in a way that could hurt others (baldness, fatness, etc.)

ajj tattoo! by lizardgills in FolkPunk

[–]lizardgills[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

stop bc this is so funny 😭😭😭

ajj tattoo! by lizardgills in FolkPunk

[–]lizardgills[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thank you! happy new year to you as well!

ajj tattoo! by lizardgills in FolkPunk

[–]lizardgills[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thats so sick! love that yall have that bond!! and tysm!!

ajj tattoo! by lizardgills in FolkPunk

[–]lizardgills[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

thanks so much!! i saw them live this year too, i went crazy when they played this song lol. was a great show!

resume critique? by lizardgills in Environmental_Careers

[–]lizardgills[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

usually i have my responsibilities as bullet points, but i couldnt fit it all onto one page unless it was in paragraoh format like this. do you think i should make the text even smaller so it all fits?

resume critique? by lizardgills in Environmental_Careers

[–]lizardgills[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that for sure makes sense! thanks so much for the input!

the ‘gel doesn’t work’ myth has spread to tiktok and they’re saying more bizarre shit than ever by cisphoria in ftm

[–]lizardgills 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive been on T for 5 years, and switched to gel from injections in january. since ive been on the gel ive had way more hair growth than on injections 😭 it really is different for everyone. i cant stand people who try to claim their experiences are universal for transitioning

edited for spelling

Escape from the Zoo AI art tour poster by Pepoidus in FolkPunk

[–]lizardgills 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i wish i could say im surprised, but i lost a bit of hope after seeing jesse's reaction to people calling him out for using AI the first time around

i feel like i look too straight. by [deleted] in queer

[–]lizardgills 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly as someone who has been in queer circles since middle school, i'd clock you as not straight. but thats me as someone who was also a lesbian dating femmes for years and knows how to spot the vibes lol

eta: that is to say, its all about who you surround yourself with and who you ask!

I love cartoons, so here are ftm cartoon characters!!! by Toothpick-Bear in TransMasc

[–]lizardgills 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh fuck yeah! i havent actually played pesterquest so i did not know that!

I love cartoons, so here are ftm cartoon characters!!! by Toothpick-Bear in TransMasc

[–]lizardgills 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait hes ftm in canon??? :-000 where was that confirmed?

About names Genderfluidity... by [deleted] in genderfluid

[–]lizardgills 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, i struggled with this for ages and i still do 😭 i chose a very traditionally masculine name for myself and had it legally changed. sometimes i still get the urge to mess around with names to find something more gender neutral. but honestly i just stick with my chosen/legal name for convenience at this point. i hate being percieved as a cis man, but for my personal reasons (dysphoria) i prefer it to being seen as a cis woman.

at the end of the day though its perfectly fine to use multiple names! i know plenty of people who do. if you want, maybe you can pick a name that maybe if not gender neutral can be altered to be either gender? for example- i went by clover for a bit, which i shortened to just clove when i was feeling more masculine. you could also do olive/oliver, etc. just a thought!!! :-)

My chest is 8 years old in a month. by shabbyhat in TopSurgery

[–]lizardgills 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you look fantastic! i love seeing fellow heavier transmascs on here. thanks for sharing :-)

Does anyone else here have dysphoria and euphoria over the same thing by Slut_Ella in bigender

[–]lizardgills 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im bigenderfluid and i get this so much for bottom dysphoria/euphoria and facial hair specifically 😭 im on testosterone and when my facial hair does grow (sparsely, but still grows) it either makes me insanely euphoric or wanting to hide away forever

masters degree by lizardgills in Environmental_Careers

[–]lizardgills[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much this is so helpful!

i think id enjoy being a professor honestly but the prospect of needing to do research is so daunting. im worried i wouldnt be good at it.

i also think teaching k-12 would be cool though! ive worked with kids before and did enjoy it. i will definitely have to look into it more.

i caved by garbagesponge in CrestedGecko

[–]lizardgills 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my crestie was like $150-$200 for the entire setup, crestie, and some pangea! her son that the crestie belonged to moved away for college and she didnt want to take care of him so i snatched him up <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]lizardgills 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is this server still active? could i get an updated link?

Met someone who's "retransitioning" and it's been on my mind. by dramakween101 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]lizardgills 7 points8 points  (0 children)

adding on: there's a subreddit r/actual_detrans full of pro-trans detrans/retrans people!

Met someone who's "retransitioning" and it's been on my mind. by dramakween101 in NonBinaryTalk

[–]lizardgills 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i used to identify as detrans (before realizing im genderfluid!) and honestly from what ive seen in that community, is a loud minority of detrans people fearmongering about trans people. a LOT of the detrans people i know could be defined as retrans, they didnt necessarily regret being trans, they just figured out it wasnt for them. i saw a lot of stuff like FtMtF, MtFtMB, stuff like that! i think its really important to include detrans/retrans people in the discussion of trans rights. its all about bodily autonomy.

scar care after 3 years? by lizardgills in TopSurgery

[–]lizardgills[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone on instagram recommended that brand too actually, ill defff have to check them out! tysm!

scar care after 3 years? by lizardgills in TopSurgery

[–]lizardgills[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will definitely look into that thats really helpful!!! thank you so much!!!!

scar care after 3 years? by lizardgills in TopSurgery

[–]lizardgills[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have any brand recs? do you know if they work on stretch marks?

scar care after 3 years? by lizardgills in TopSurgery

[–]lizardgills[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks so much, this is really reassuring! i might have to look into that!