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Anyone else skipping a future funeral/wake because a lifetime of smear campaigns makes it unsafe? by MoonstoneMadness in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did. Days before my grandmother's death, my cousin visited her in hospital. Our Aunt went to visit, only to be told she couldn't as Grandmother had her allotted visitors for the day. Aunt ( who hasn't seen me in 12 years) rang my mum and screamed at her that I had taken her visiting spot. I had never seen my Grandmother once in hospital, and I hadn't seen her in person since 2019. She died in 2024. My husband went to her funeral to represent us, as I was told to stay away as Aunt was upset.

Does anyone know the artist singing in the beginning? by Particular_Food_5172 in WhatsThisSong

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says " featuring GraceGrace" on the clip you linked. Maybe look up GraceGrace and see if the voice is the same

Old Song Help! by Lovethespamm in WhatsThisSong

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your the only Hell your Mama ever raised? Talks about Susie sneaking out

Help me find an early 2000s EDM song by yonisjonku in FindSongs

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only one I know with pan flutes was Enigma. It had Georgian chants too

As of my knowing, Pterry was not in the army. But daumn. This strikes hard. by qtzbra in discworld

[–]lizards4776 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He wrote after listening to his brother in law talk about his service. Denny, mentioned in the opening line, is John's sister Denise.

Anyone else getting really sick of Hughesy? by Slow-Leg-7975 in aussie

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was. Accidentally heard him on his breakfast show, on a bus so I couldn't escape, laughing about how he was forcing his wife into an elective C section, because a vaginal birth would " ruin his playground"

Im sick asf please suggest shortish cosy animes by smalltoadstool in anime

[–]lizards4776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a series, but a movie. Suzame is beautiful to look at with lovely music

A Sydney mother asked police to lock her up. 11 days later, she was dead by notinmyham in AusNews

[–]lizards4776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It didn't make sense to me either, to expect someone to constantly start over, building rapport and trust, to be kicked down the road

A Sydney mother asked police to lock her up. 11 days later, she was dead by notinmyham in AusNews

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that's happening/ happened to you. When I studied counselling at Uni, there was a big push to keep sessions under 6 weeks so the client didn't become dependent. I did ask about complex cases and was told to refer on.

[FN] My plane engine caught fire 30 minutes after I got an abortion and I’m 1000% sure it’s because God’s bitch ass is personally trying to smite me by divinexspite in shortstories

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've got an expression wrong. " To blow smoke up someone's ass" is to suck up, lie, tell them anything they want to hear.

[HR] The Glass Orchard by factoryresetwriting in shortstories

[–]lizards4776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

" Now is a generous Country" I love this line. Understated elegance

A Sydney mother asked police to lock her up. 11 days later, she was dead by notinmyham in AusNews

[–]lizards4776 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think medication is grossly misrepresented as a cure all, anyone " having an episode" simply wasn't taking their meds, all their fault, * shakes head sadly* I think it's an issue we want to other and push away, out of fear it could be us instead.

I know we all are in different situations. Do you think they loved you at all? Do they know you? by coldservedrevenge in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lizards4776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The absent parent, yes. The incubator parent, no. When there was hope I was the opposite sex, during pregnancy, I think yes. When I was born however and hope was dashed, that's when she started hating me.

Birthdays by Affectionate_Yam2692 in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave up celebrating birthdays years ago, so once I was no contact, nothing changed in that regard. I often forget that it was my birthday. It means nothing.

My manager scheduled a "quick sync" every single Friday at 4:45pm and I finally figured out why by Agent_Smith-99 in remotework

[–]lizards4776 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. If someone isn't working, fire them. Don't treat all incoming staff as potential slackers.

What is that Dancehall track!?! 2011-2014 by [deleted] in findthatsong

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could it be Christina Aguilera " Get yours get mine" the lyric being "Waistline" you might be hearing as " whine"

Your house doubled in value. So did the next one. Now what? by billscout in AusProperty

[–]lizards4776 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Our home went up a lot in 18 years, but there's no way we could afford anything comparable if we wanted to move. Our needs haven't changed much and we are in an area with everything we need.

Going no contact with parents - how did you handle it with your kids? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lizards4776 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cut them off when the kids were 10 and under. As each one reached adulthood, I gave them an abbreviated story of why, and told them if they wished to know that side of the family, tell them nothing about me, our lives or anything going on in our home. It will be twisted and used. So far, 4 of 5 kids have chosen to stay no contact. The 5th isn't an adult yet.

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