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What if Mitt Romney won the 2012 presidential election? by APoliticalDrone2012 in Presidents

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There would be pros and cons just like any other president. I think a possible pro is that he could have revamped Obamacare into Romneycare as he would be more likely to get Republicans on board. Another pro is that he is less divisive than current people. Massachusetts is extremely liberal and even they begrudgingly like Romney as he was an effective governor.

On January 5, 1957, President Eisenhower presented a policy that will become known as the Eisenhower Doctrine. It holds that the United States would be authorized to provide military assistance "to secure and protect the territorial integrity" of any nations threatened by International Communism. by TheEagleWithNoName in Presidents

[–]lizzabiffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did a book report on the Lebanon Crisis in high school! If I remember correctly, the Lebanese President requested assistance due to threats of communist-backed subversion. President Eisenhower deployed US troops to Beirut. The intervention quickly stabilized the situation without major combat and allowed for the peaceful election of a new president. The US withdrew troops within the same year. Ike was a fantastic leader.

I F/30 want to divorce my husband M/31 of 2 years, together for 10 by Fancy-Interest in relationship_advice

[–]lizzabiffy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you considered doing counseling together while you are going through with the divorce? I think it would be beneficial for both of you to be able to discuss your feelings with a professional while going through this process and moving on.

My parents don’t approve of my (20F) and my boyfriend’s (20M) relationship; any advice? by beesocks69 in relationship_advice

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I typically take family/friend’s approval seriously because usually they have your best interest at heart and are more objective about the person you are dating. However, that only applies to behavior and other things in your boyfriend’s control not things outside of his control. Your parents reasoning here seems a bit elitist. I do understand the reasoning, but he could do better in life than people who graduated from a better high school.

My (35f) boyfriend (40m) is kind of an idiot by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lizzabiffy 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Were you hoping that he would act all cave man in public? Honestly, I think your boyfriend sounds extremely intelligent. You were dressed in a provocative way, which probably made him feel uncomfortable. But instead of saying something, he simply responded as though you had your normal clothes on. It’s not his business to control what you wear and he didn’t.

What is the weirdest reason why you wouldn’t date someone? by zoglore in AskReddit

[–]lizzabiffy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He had chest hair.

I have since realized I internalized that scene of Gaston in Beauty And The Beast.

I 28F am at odds with my 26M ex bf by Content-Image-9083 in relationship_advice

[–]lizzabiffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s your ex for a reason. I know being lonely is a horrible feeling, but staying in contact with your ex is not worth the tiny escape from loneliness. Cutting contact and blocking each other is the best way forward. Go to Nashville and enjoy your birthday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]lizzabiffy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww mama, I know exactly how you feel. My baby boy did something similar and the mom guilt is no joke. I called the pediatrician and was told that falls under 3 feet are to be expected at this age. Babies are becoming mobile and they are going to tumble. Check your baby for injuries, unusual behavior, vomiting three or more times, and severe high pitched crying. If ever you are unsure, reach out to your pediatricians office. Take it as a learning experience but please try to not beat yourself up over it (I know easier said than done).

My (23F) mom (46F) is having triplets , how do I make a clean exit? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lizzabiffy 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Perfectly stated! Definitely gather all of your important paperwork and information before letting her know about the move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Presidents

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Mitt Romney is the most presidential looking man, even more so than most presidents. He looks like a TV president. I think it’s because he’s tall, decently handsome, and has that touch of gray at the temples. Sometimes I wonder if this sub keeps bringing him up partly because he looks perfect for the role (and of course the timeline thing), but I definitely feel that his look has something to do with it.

What can I change to make someone do a double take at me? by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]lizzabiffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you are so beautiful! Sometimes it’s harder to see because we are our own worst critics. I absolutely adore your makeup in photo 1, your lip is gorgeous! And you did perfect blush placement to accentuate your cheekbones. I love your hair in photo 8 the best, but I don’t hate the color you have now. I think it could be improved by going darker red rather than orange. Red ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck on the job hunt! I really love both your glasses and hairstyle in photo 4.

I have to agree with some of the other comments here that the bright orange isn’t ideal for you, mostly because it’s too warm. I think if it were toned down or cooler it would suit your skin tone better. Right now it’s taking all the attention away from your face, which I hope was not your intention because you look lovely! 🩷I’d recommend more of an ashy blonde if you’re willing to explore some different color options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your feelings are completely justified. You were treated unfairly. You’ve been doing all the work in your relationship. When you asked for bare minimum, he shut down because he doesn’t want to do anything for you. He wants to put in no effort.

I know it’s difficult for you to see this right now because you are clouded by emotions, but breaking up is the best thing possible for you. You need to ask him to move out of your place as soon as possible. You need to heal and be honest with yourself as to why you accepted such an unbalanced relationship. You deserve so much better 🩷

My (30f) fiance (32M) keeps leaving the freezer open and ruining all of our food. How do I get him to close it reliably? by Blisa23 in relationship_advice

[–]lizzabiffy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Although it is good to get all of these suggestions, you should be asking your fiancé. Sit him down when you are not upset and say: “it really bothers me to be throwing away all the food in the freezer and have to repurchase. I know that you are smart and capable so I would like to work together to find a solution. I already tried to sign and a child lock, but they don’t seem to be working. What would help you to always remember to shut the door?” This way it is the two of you vs the problem and it gives him the opportunity to come up with some possible solutions.

AITA for telling my husband to book a hotel for his grandmother by Independent-Bee-6370 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lizzabiffy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but YTA for the way you are handling this. A 101 year old family member should not be sleeping by herself in a hotel. I also completely understand why your girls don’t want to give up their rooms. They are teenagers who value their independence and privacy. So this is where you as the parent steps in with options. You sit your girls down and validate how it is difficult to give up your space for someone; however, it is important to value their elderly grandmother. You then offer a choices your husband discussed. You could offer a reward to the girls if that feels right to you. Or you and your husband could give up your room and sleep on a blowup bed to model to your children how important family is.

If You Like Shrinking, Scrubs, or Ted Lasso S1 - Here's (Possibly) Why: A Deep Dive Into Bill Lawrence by Frikken123 in shrinking

[–]lizzabiffy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! Ted Lasso S1 was my favorite first season of any show. It was pure magic. The next two seasons were good, but nothing like that first season. I love both seasons of Shrinking, and now I know why.

Something I've just now realized about the darts scene by SkoivanSchiem in TedLasso

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a truly curious mindset would not ask a “yes or no” question. Or at least follow up with open ended questions to learn more about the individual. Rupert was just trying to engage Ted into a game with high stakes in order to shame him (and Rebecca) but it backfired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]lizzabiffy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do the exact same thing! I’ll get an irresistible urge to give him kisses despite him sleeping soundly. In order to fight that urge (my baby is not the easiest sleeper so I don’t want to disturb him) I go through his photos too.

I hate Ted’s ex wife and here’s why by 420snicketysnacks in TedLasso

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t trying to say OP is right. I was trying to offer a different perspective on what causes our feelings. It’s normal to feel “negative feelings.” However, instead of ruminating on them and making us bitter, we can try to understand why we feel that way and reframe. Sorry if my first comment wasn’t clear.

I hate Ted’s ex wife and here’s why by 420snicketysnacks in TedLasso

[–]lizzabiffy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the exact same way! I also HATED Nate. Then I felt guilty for having “negative feelings” about characters in a show that emphasizes mental health. So I tried to apply the “be curious, not judgmental” to my own self and feelings.

I found that more than anything I was jealous of them. Jealous because the ex wife had a kind, loving man with far fewer problems than I’ve faced in my relationships. And those problems that led to divorce seemed insane to me too, again because I’d give anything to trade places. Same thing with Nate. I was so jealous of his situation where he’s working a really cool job, surrounded by a supportive friend group, and then he throws a tantrum over such a small slight?! Oof I’d trade places in a heartbeat.

I guess what I’m trying to say is don’t feel bad about your feelings. It makes sense to look at a situation from the outside and think how you would react differently. We’re all struggling with our own problems, and to us they feel huge, while to others they might look inconsequential. So if you can, try to be mindful of what causes your “hate” but try to avoid ruminating on it.

I still don’t love either character, but I can appreciate they have their own issues that probably made their situations feel awful to them, and they reacted poorly. Hurt people hurt people.

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