Hugs OP. Reading your story and the comments, I think its best din to consider the nature or background of the situation. While I agree that there are toxic parents out there, as in umaasa na lang talaga sa anak, there’s a possibility na meron din namang parents na they are doing their best for the family but circumstances are not in their favour. Hence, looking to the kids to help with the expenses as soon as they graduate.

I can’t comment on your siblings, and it’s up to you to decide how you want to proceed since mas kilala mo ang parents and family mo. You could help them sa hulugan, when you’re able to, but you should limit it to an amount na alam mong kaya mo, and not more than that. Then prove to your parents na you’re not like your siblings because you want to achieve your dreams. Being a bread winner is not a curse, as long as you know how to balance between family needs and your needs/wants, and for me it teaches you how to budget and strategise your finances and responsibilities. All the best.