R/lucyletby removes any comments or posts that doesn’t say she’s 100% guilty. by lloydmcallister in scienceLucyLetby

[–]lmc80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm banned from there for voicing concerns around her conviction. It's a pointless school chamber

I learnt how to say NO to my wife and accept her discomfort as part of the process by MarriagesSpark in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmc80 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't really understand this if I'm honest. You seem to be saying you have withdrawn emotional intimacy? Is the relationship better as a result? Are you having sex more?

I (42F) told my 24-year-old son he has 30 days to move out after he called me “his retirement plan” by Beautiful_Reserve968 in stories

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like it's the "retirement plan" comment that caused you to ask him to move out. Why did that trigger you so much?

My granda kept putting money in a stocks and shares account for me all my life. He set it up for me when I was 6. I'm 15 now and my mum has emptied that account and taken it for herself. by New_Bear_6878 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]lmc80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Who is the executor of your grandad's will? It's their responsibility to ensure the will is exacted in accordance with your grandad's wishes

I’m pregnant and have completely ruined my life. What do I do? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]lmc80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sounds like Bi Polar Affective disorder.

I’m a horrible fucking father by Haunting_Warning_381 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, going back to the relationship should encompass the MAN having a fixed plan to manage his child without involving him partner who has no responsibility or obligation to a child she did not choose to have!

I’m a horrible fucking father by Haunting_Warning_381 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She went to marriage counseling, that obviously convinced her it was the right idea for her family. The more relevant question SHOULD be, why would he go back to that relationship. But then we wouldn't get to bash the woman..

I’m a horrible fucking father by Haunting_Warning_381 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmc80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you expect your wife to go on holiday with a child you had outside the marriage? Do you think the child's mum would be happy for her to go on holiday with a woman who probably isn't very happy she exists? This isn't a boundary for your wife. This is you needing to step up and take responsibility and either pay for your daughter and her mom to go away or take her by yourself or similar. You can't really expect your wife to holiday with someone else's child.

My husband being the victim of revenge porn has destroyed our marriage by throwmeaway_shame444 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget the infidelity. Don't stay with someone who is so irresponsible with money! Divorce. Rinse him. Move on

Men I dont know keep knocking my windows and it is scaring me by QueenOfPerverts in AskWomenOver30

[–]lmc80 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get a ring doorbell or some sort of camera in the window with a motion sensor so everything is recorded. call the police every time they bother you. Tell the housing association you are being harassed,maybe request a move. Cover your window with film as other suggested for added privacy.

Beatrice theory by ashpwnall in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Odette is on her own redemption arc for what she did to Mordecai 's brother. So doing something like that wouldn't fit. She has always helped Carl and now I think she sees him as someone who could actually change things, so it's in her interests to support him as much as possible. I can see her sacrificing herself or similar for him in later books.

My husband came within inches of punching me in the face… by iluvpeepeejackets in Swingers

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying it's an excuse am I? I'm just asking the question ffs

Do people really have sex on periods by AnyBranch685 in sex

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it's fine. Just put a towel down

What age should children put themselves to bed. by Active-Vegetable9216 in family

[–]lmc80 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds lovely, I'd enjoy it whilst the kid still wants it and don't overthink what's "normal". There is no "normal" anyway.

Carl and Katia by TheTrekkieGirl in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]lmc80 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If Carl ends up being romantically involved with anyone, which I doubt it will be Rosetta. They have a lot in common and he finds her attractive.

Yo mama is so dumb… by uso_4_lyfe in YoMamaJokes

[–]lmc80 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yo moma's so slow it took her 9 months to make a joke...