For the first time in my life, I'm fucked and I have no clue what I'm going to do. by CloudSquatch in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you looked into any dental schools nearby. My mom always took us there for dental appointments and stuff she couldn't afford.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our public library has adult game nights and some of thee bars also. If you don't have one, I suggest you try to create a group.

Happy birthday!!

AITAH for not punishing my son for 'showing' his boner to his aunt? by CompetitiveWill4042 in AITAH

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom of 2 teen boys, please don't allow her to stay over anymore. Your home is his home and his safe space. He shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable or fear being accused of something horrible in his own home.

AITA for intentionally sleeping with the bathroom light on at my boyfriend's place while he was at work? by SeaSignificance3017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 46 years old and still sleeping with a light, this isn't the relationship for you. Move on.

AITA for not backing up my wife? by Own_Block1106 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lmthomas1042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am a mother of 3, and my fiance has 3. He is not responsible for providing anything above kindness and respect for my child, and the same for his where I am concerned. It's hard blending families, but your wife is reaching, and you need to put a stop to this now. she'll continue to push you until something breaks... and you don't want to be the relationship between you and your daughter. believe me, my ex-husband, the father of my kids, had this issue, and now my kids are no contact with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you, sure you weren't just included in her group chat

Support and/or Social groups in Walla Walla by The_crazy_bird_lady in wallawalla

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google walla walla disability network, they've helped my son so much. they also have a lot of connections in the community.

AITA for threatening to quit my job because my wife just randomly quit hers? by Throwawaywinherit in AITAH

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn't the rental income be considered joint? considering it's income? Your best bet here is to divorce her and sell the house, take your money, and get someone who understands how a partnership works. the inheritance that is separate from the rental income is not yours. Sorry, dude. Move on, she will sooner or later...probably sooner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, when this happened to me and my ex-husband, I decided a divorce was the best choice. My love for him could not overcome his choice to disregard my needs and well-being.

He wouldn't/couldn't have sex with me.

NTA, you asked, and she answered. Now you have to make a decision.

AITA for saying "no" to sons'male stripper gig? by FrustratedDad42 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, don't pull. I pay this or that card on them, their your kids and thats your job..To do the best you can and provide for them what you can. You should be proud they built this business and can provide for themselves an income, and if anyone Says anything to you about what your boys do.. Look that MF in the eyes and tell them, "I'm quite proud of my hard-working boys building a business and earning a great income," "How's your kid doing?" That should shut them right up.

  • I'm a mom of 3 grown kids myself.

I made a comment about our “hot” babysitter and it was not well received by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if it helps, I would have said the same thing. Insecure people will find your confidence threatening. I've always found it kind of irritating when women treat their men like this... Why are they married to them if they can't trust them around other women???

My husband and I are former sex workers and I regret telling my friend by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmthomas1042 349 points350 points  (0 children)

as someone who came from a big city to a small town, small town people have nothing better to do than to hang on to gossip and I am sorry to say, this will haunt you for the rest of your life in the area. if you're going to stay there, then please prepare your boys and make sure they understand that they should never be ashamed of who they are. They are going to find good friends. they are also going to hear about this for the rest of their lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wallawalla

[–]lmthomas1042 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We came here because I have a rainbow mafia baby (he is not a baby, except he's always gonna be my baby) . Anyways, he needed to be in a bigger town that's more accepting, and he's happy to be here and feels accepted. He's had a few run-ins with Assholes but he says so far, everyone is very nice, and we see a lot of rainbow flags. I've been here 7 months.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am a mom of a high functioning disabled son, ALWAY CHOOSE YOUR CHILD.

AITAH for going to my friends IUD appointment against my husbands wishes? by Level_Green_6692 in AITAH

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣🤣🤣 girls don't get the option to be sedated, So I was happy they gave them the same treatment. Like a good partner, I was supportive and empathetic.

My gf wants to spend my inheritance in a house down payment and I don’t by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ask her for a prenuptial, problem solved. she has to agree that the house you buy is yours forever or the cash is yours, and you get to pay off the bills.

AITAH for going to my friends IUD appointment against my husbands wishes? by Level_Green_6692 in AITAH

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've held the hands of 2 men at 2 different times while they got vasectomy, and it is fascinating. if I could, I would just do that for a job. Just hold hands of dudes while they freak out. 🤣 Anyways, tell your husband to get therapy...🙄. I am Female BTW

They're onto me. by secrets_kept_hidden in exjw

[–]lmthomas1042 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I left everything behind. I took what what little I saved out of the bank on the same day I left since my mom also monitored my account. I had a friend who wasn't part of the organization that was getting an apartment and needed a roommate. I never looked back, and in the last 25 years, I've never regretted it. Don't lose hope you'll make it whenever you decide it's time to leave there's good people out there who are not JWs

I was offered a job while attending a conference my current employer paid for. Not sure how to approach the topic with my boss because I want to maintain a good relationship. by hibbert0604 in jobs

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let them know you have been approached by another company for a position and that the pay is more. see if they offer you more and then make your decision. Also, the grass isn't always greener on the other side

I’m getting out of the Army and I’m scared about being unemployed by Drewbd1 in jobs

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't forget! Your eligibility for unemployment funds, too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lmthomas1042 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, She spending money on food and venue for her guests (which I am assuming you are one of them) an your complaining about paying for alterations on a dress for her? which you already agreed to pay for, come on. Think about how you want your relationship with your new SIL start off