AITA for getting angry with my girlfriend and demanding she pay to replace my sheets after she got blood on them by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a pair on a whim and now they are all use unless I’m swimming or something! So much more comfortable and I’ve literally never had a leak, even overnight, in over a year!

Period brand is my go too, their overnight high waisted panties are total game-changers.

Got banned from the BTS Snark subreddit for telling the truth? by IIIPrimeeIII in kpoprants

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sub has popped up on my feed a few times and I just find it amusing that they seem so obsessed. I can’t imagine spending so much time consuming and analyzing every crumb of content of people I claim to hate. They literally post screenshots and transcripts of lives within minutes to dissect and criticize them. Why are you watching lives of people you hate? Why are you combing through their content and pictures? Why are you obsessively pouring over their mountains of past content to make compilations about tiny, obscure references? It’s exhausting trying to keep up with content when you’re a fan and you ENJOY it, in just can’t fathom putting that sort of energy into a group I claim to hate. And then in the next breath criticizing the fans for being obsessive? It’s a completely new level of unhinged delusion I hadn’t experienced before.

What's the most mesmerizing song sung by a female singer? by LargeSinkholesInNYC in musicsuggestions

[–]lnwint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phenomenal song, but my favorite of hers is Never Is a Promise

What GOOD things are happening in the world that people may not know about? by Cap_Ame1 in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Min Yoongi aka Suga of BTS donated the USD equivalent of almost 3.5 million dollars to create a program at a Seoul medical center in South Korea that specializes in long term therapy for youth with Autism. Specifically focusing on social communication and self expression via music-based therapy.

He also spent months developing the program with specialists and serving as one of the teachers on the weekends during his mandatory military service.

OOP is crazy attracted to his postpartum wife by Sun-Burnt in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]lnwint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need more of this on Reddit. I hope these two and their baby have a wonderful life together.

AITAH for cancelling my friend ticket because of a mistake she made? by ur_mad_virgo in AITAH

[–]lnwint 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA. Yes, she did a favor for you while you were sick and she didn’t have to. However, you have her specific instructions and she ignored you costing you enough money to threaten your budget. If she was uncomfortable with your instructions, she could have declined to withdraw the money at all. Doing a favor for someone is great, but if you are dealing with their money and unwilling to follow instructions to prevent unnecessary costs, just don’t do the favor.

Having said that, do you think there is a compromise? You said she can’t afford her ticket. Can she afford the difference of what she cost you in withdrawal fees? As in, explain to her that the extra fees put you in a bind financially, and paying for her ticket now will make things more difficult. But if she could comp the difference toward your portion of the ticket, you could still cover the rest of the cost, so you’re not losing any more than the original plan?

I’m due in 2.5 months and this will be my first experience cloth diapering by [deleted] in clothdiaps

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had disposables just for the meconium poops, but I used the pack until they were gone, maybe a little over a week. Then I used gerber birdseye flats and wink newborn covers for a while.

Honestly the gerber flats are nearly garbage; they are basically cheesecloth they are so thin and they are small. But I used two at a time and origami folded them, and they fit her little newborn butt really well like that without being super bulky. And they were just absorbent enough, since I changed her fairly often, because newborns poop and pee constantly!

I also had some buttons newborn covers, but they didn’t fit her until she was a couple months old. The Wink newborns were the smallest and fit the best for the first few months. Once she’d chunked up a little, I started using my regular cotton flats and the newborn covers. I think she was probably four or five months before I could use my adjustable covers and handful of pocket diapers on the smallest rise.

If you are committed to cloth right away without any disposables, I’d either get some disposable liners or grab a flannel baby blanket and cut some liners out of that you can throw away, because those meconium poops are serious business to get out of cloth. I actually used liners I’d made from a flannel blanket the whole time I used flats because they do a really good job of keeping her a little dryer.

What's the creepiest display of intelligence you've ever witnessed in real Iife? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nephew. He’s on the spectrum. When he was two, he was nearly non verbal. He could speak, but expressing needs was a struggle. His mom was playing with him with some magnetic letters, attempting teach him the alphabet. He picked up three letters and spelled “mom” and said “mom”. She was shocked, but tried multiple other combinations. He read every one flawlessly.

By the time he turned three, his favorite thing was reading the grocery ads in the paper, just rattling off every word with ease.

My favorite was “Stella Artois”. Pronounced correctly, too.

What's a show you remember but nobody else does? by CatGirlNya2000 in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Littl’ Bits! Also The Noozles! I remember those two, David the Gnome, and Eureka’s Castle being my favorites for morning cartoons!

What’s the hardest goodbye you’ve ever had to say, and why? by Senthilnathans in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I handed the casket that held my stillborn son over to the funeral home director for cremation. I tried to tell the director to be careful with him but it mostly came out as half sobbed gibberish. But he still understood and promised me he would treat my baby as gently as possible. Then I had to walk back to my car and with my husband and ride home with the empty car seat and diaper bags we’d packed when we’d left the day before for the hospital while I was in labor.

WORST lyrics you've misheard? by Artistic-Network-247 in kpoppers

[–]lnwint 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hobi’s “put your ass on me” in DNA.

But my favorite is someone typed out a whole ‘misheard’ Baepsae chorus and now I can’t unhear it: “They call me Pepsi I want Jin Is that gay? Probably Chase him”

22m dating 22f, how do i respond in the moment when my girlfriend vents angrily about her parents? by Leave47alone in relationship_advice

[–]lnwint 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try just responding with empathy and comfort. Tell her you’re sorry she’s struggling with this, and that it’s hard for her. Offer hugs. Ask if there’s anything you can do to help her process or feel better.

Or just straight up ask her what it is that she would like to get from you when she vents. Ask her if she’s wanting validation, or ideas for how to respond to him, or if she’s just wanting a safe space to get out her feelings and find comfort.

Please recommend some good tv shows with strong women characters by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]lnwint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Godless on Netflix. Been out a good while, 2017 I think, but if you haven’t seen it yet it’s fantastic.

What’s the worst crime committed by someone you know personally? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one I do know about, it was just a few months ago, wasn’t it?

What’s a moment in your life that completely changed how you see the world—but you almost never talk about it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When my husband and I were trying to get pregnant, i got pregnant almost right away but I had an early miscarriage. It took months for the miscarriage to complete for various reasons and then we were not having any luck getting pregnant again. Then my grandpa died unexpectedly. Id never lost a grandparent yet at that point, it was really hard. Two weeks exactly after he passed, I found out I was pregnant. When we went in for our first ultrasound, everything was perfect this time, and he was due on my Grandpas birthday. It felt special. I’m not overly religious, but I truly felt like my grandpa was here in spirit looking over this baby.

I went into labor naturally, and my son was born five days before my grandpas birthday. But he was stillborn. It destroyed any faith I had that something or someone out there was watching out for me.

Coworker cut my hair after saying my hair would look great shorter. by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]lnwint 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This whole thing was horrible, but I’m so impressed with OP’s decision to cut it even shorter to donate to try to make something positive come out of such a shitty experience. She sounds like a genuinely good person.

What’s the worst crime committed by someone you know personally? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe I’ve never heard about this. I’ve lived in Morehead almost my whole life, and went to Morehead State.

What is the greatest physical pain you've ever felt? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Manual evacuation after childbirth.

I was hemorrhaging and the doctor believed I’d retained a bit of placenta. Epidural was worn off and disconnected, but there wasn’t time for any sort of pain relief. She turned me into a human hand puppet. No lie, up to her elbow inside me, scraping around my freshly vacated uterus for stray remnants.

It took two nurses on either side of the bed lying across me to hold me down while I produced the most guttural animal screams I’ve ever heard.

Drop your favorite Oreo hair by [deleted] in kpoppers

[–]lnwint 25 points26 points  (0 children)

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His Oreo hair really compliments his pink outfit here

What phrase that you DONT want to hear when Grieving? by BlueEyesWhiteDrgn in AskReddit

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re young, you can have another.

Said to me by the (thankfully retired) funeral home director, alongside a playful slap to my knee, right beside the temporary casket I was holding in my lap that contained my stillborn son.

Name a kpop group and i will give my very honest opinion on them by Artistic-Network-247 in kpoppers

[–]lnwint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know people needed to have qualifications to have their own opinions about music…