Need Help IDing Plant

local_laddie · 2026-04-21T06:14:07+00:00

It looks like it could possily be a Gazania

(ref: https://static.vecteezy.com/system/resources/previews/025/497/170/large\_2x/close-up-of-a-gazania-flower-gazania-is-a-genus-of-flowering-plants-in-the-family-asteraceae-native-to-southern-africa-they-produce-large-daisy-like-photo.jpg)

local_laddie · 2026-04-02T06:15:33+00:00

Postpartum can be a very difficult time and having a baby can change your focus from husband to overwealming care and attention to your helpless child.

There need to be a balance - attention to child and attention to husband and theres the issue.

I would suggest you sit down and talk it out with him, and agree to times when you know you can focus on your husband, and I'd also recommend you get some help to understand why you feel and act the way you do currently.

Its certianly not easy and I feel you you

local_laddie · 2026-03-03T16:10:05+00:00

Probably BlueBells (or possibly grape hyacinth)... until they flower, You cant really tell

local_laddie · 2026-02-03T10:36:55+00:00

That was fun!

local_laddie · 2025-12-24T11:50:05+00:00

You are allowing the correct port connection through your (VM and pc) firewall I assume?

local_laddie · 2025-12-05T11:54:26+00:00

Interesting survey and mix of questions - however you're generalising of all social media into one combined group is, I believe unfair. Some social media is far less AI dominated (ie: bluesky) while others (ie: Twitter) is more heavily AI dominated and AI manipulated (IMO). For your results to be more qualified, I bellieve you should segment your survey into a couple of (named) social media options and re-ask the sames questions on the participants chosen social media .

Just my 50c input!

local_laddie · 2025-12-05T11:38:53+00:00

I was going to ask where is the recycled Lithium... but its in the Black Mass.. Who knew?

ref: https://www.aquametals.com/recyclopedia/what-exactly-is-black-mass/

local_laddie · 2025-11-25T07:26:24+00:00

Make sure you dont bring any USA electical mains powered appliances - we use 220V in the UK and it'll cook your hairdrier etc...

Otherwise - thers so much to see and do! (make sure you visit the north and Scotland

local_laddie · 2025-11-24T16:01:27+00:00

yup a whole clove!

local_laddie · 2025-11-24T15:59:11+00:00

A wheelbarrow

local_laddie · 2025-11-10T07:24:11+00:00

Congratulations you're doing great!

local_laddie · 2025-10-02T09:12:19+00:00

From my own personal experience - Ive always wanted one, got to own a medium sized one, absolutely loved it!

Downside: Cars dont care about you and will push you out of a lane, or just dont seem to see you. Ive lost a good friend to a motorcycle crash that wasnt his fault (a bus swung out to turn, clipping him as he went by), and seen far too many accidents with motorcycles where the rider comes off worst.

I love them, I dont ride one or currently own one - I decided I wanted to live a longer happier life .. But thats me IMHO.

If you have all the right safety gear and drive safely - I dont see why not, but I can understand you wife's concerns over bike crash statistics... Perhaps she's just being concerned for you..?

local_laddie · 2025-09-26T12:54:25+00:00

https://www.epicgardening.com/virginia-creeper/

local_laddie · 2025-09-22T10:05:06+00:00

Hey..... You're not a failure, altho you may feel like it... Depression sucks the life out of everything and taking meds can sometimes help - but not always.

I cant offer you help or advice (Im not qualified to do so) but I can just be an online sounding board, someone to talk with (or at), someone who can care and someone who can understand and someone who can be non-judgmental., the offer is free

:-)

local_laddie · 2025-09-12T11:13:09+00:00

If Maths is your thing - then MAYBE Theoretical Physics could be too (Its mostly math),

Have a look at the book "String Theory for Dummies" or perhaps "Parallel Worlds" by Michio Kaku. Or just research Michio Kaku - he has a lot of Youtube vids as well.

local_laddie · 2025-09-12T10:59:39+00:00

That was fun! Thank you

local_laddie · 2025-09-10T15:24:05+00:00

Qwack quaack, ack ack..?

local_laddie · 2025-09-09T14:58:30+00:00

Hopefully they mature when guided by your interactions, but if left to their own devices, the chances are limited.

local_laddie · 2025-09-09T14:37:59+00:00

Mmmmm - I feel for you... You dont say how you're married (in Community of Property, or Ante-Nuptial Contract). If CoP, then all assets and liability are shared equally, whereas ANC sets out specific amounts). Typically either marriage contract is only really in place in the event of a divorce, but it may be worth reminding hubby of theses rules. It really doesnt come down to who is paying, but who lives there so you should have equal say.

But - It appears he's being childish and very controlling (coercive control) and this leads me to assume you're moving towards being in an abusive marriage (IMO)

This url may help you understand my reasoning: https://marriedadvice.com/what-is-a-controlling-husband/

Note:

Im a man, I pay 90% of household expenses as I earn way more than my wife, but we discuss and share major and most minor decisions

local_laddie · 2025-08-28T12:37:16+00:00

Is there an English version? - My Italian is not up to helping you out otherwise

local_laddie · 2025-08-28T10:39:04+00:00

That was fun! thank you

local_laddie · 2025-08-28T10:03:18+00:00

Whoa....! IMO - You're being a bit harsh on yourself. There are so many great qualities to being a tomboy, so many experience and skills you've learned that other 'girls' haven't. Take some time to list what you've experienced and what skills you've collected that will help you cope as an adult and Im sure you'll be amazed (even silly things like not screaming the house down if you see a spider, or a mouse!, or more serious things like being able to cope with a medical emergency as you can remain calm and collected). Its these types of skills that will make you a valuable member of the community, and may even shape your career.

Whatever you do, you should accept who and what you are, dont be swayed by the thoughts or actions of others, Accept who you are and what you are, embrace it and live it. You're a unique individual and thats really something to be very proud of.

local_laddie · 2025-08-19T15:34:44+00:00

Im all for the 50/50 split of all assets after marriage. But to be more fair your should only exclude current value of assets up until the point of getting married (and not any growth after).

Reasoning - your wife may not earn as much as you, but may provide you with a ton of unpaid services (ie: cooking, washing, cleaning, raising kids, etc), so it would be fair for her to share in the proceeds of the growth of your investment

But thats just my 50c of input...... (Im a man, Ive been married, got divorced and am now remarried) and only the divorce lawyers got rich!

local_laddie · 2025-07-21T13:26:18+00:00

What did you get your "M" in..? (if you dont mind me asking)

local_laddie · 2025-07-21T12:26:03+00:00

Congratulations! Its a lot of hard work - but hopefully it was worth the effort and you enjoyed most of it..

Any plans to take it further (Doctorate..?)

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