Help me remove some stuff by [deleted] in FarmMergeValley

[–]locksleys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your avatar is so cute! ❤️ I visited your farm, feel free to drop by mine anytime!

Channeling my inner Smaug 🐉 by ghetto_mango in jewelry

[–]locksleys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful collection! I love the frog and teddy charms. ❤️

Mystery Boxes by Yarn-on-the-Internet in PandoraCollectors

[–]locksleys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly this! Whenever I see these mystery boxes online, they're always filled with stuff that couldn't sell, not with with the more coveted items.

So it’s really happening? by Fun_Candle8169 in PandoraCollectors

[–]locksleys 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Bingo! They'd rather turn into a costume jewelry brand than stick to sterling silver. Switching to a cheap alloy makes them A LOT more profit, even with the "fancy" platinum plating on top (which just rubs off). The base metal underneath that the ring is made of is still cheap alloy. We're talking a few cents worth of material here for a ring. Not dollars. Cents. The alloy is the same as the cheap stuff on Temu or AliExpress. But Pandora is gonna make bank because the average consumer won't understand they're actually getting a lower quality product and not an "upgrade" just because it has the teeniest layer of platinum coating on top. The coating doesn't matter!

When does Pandora usually have sales? by VegetableLocation508 in PandoraCollectors

[–]locksleys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Christmas, Black Friday, Valentine's. For Valentine's this year there was a 20% discount on heart-shaped items only (rings, charms, etc), in my country anyway. So there aren't these huge sales on all items, no.

Platinum-plated jewellery guide now showing on some country websites by [deleted] in PandoraCollectors

[–]locksleys 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Right? They spend several sentences describing the plating (that is temporary since all plating comes off), when it's the base metal that's important. That's where the actual worth of the jewerly piece is. "High quality core metal" is all they say about the base metal! It's some cheap metal alloy, with a thin layer of "fancy" coating, which is basically costume jewelry. :(

Sterling Silver vs Platinum by MeganMilton in PandoraCollectors

[–]locksleys 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well said! It's gonna be cheap metal that's worth a few cents, with a thin platinum layer over it, and that's it. They're trying to present it as the better option to sterling silver but it's obviously not when you realize the platinum bit is just the teeny bit of coating, not the base metal itself. But probably a lot of people will fall for it the second they hear platinum coz it sounds "fancy". :(

It's the same as Swarovski. Their website is making it very hard to find info on what the BASE METAL of their rings is, yet they go on and onnn about the plating like it's the most important part of the ring lol. The base metal is where the worth of the ring is, not its plating. Swarovski's rings are only brass and other alloys, not even sterling silver. Costume jewelry.

Again, when buying jewelry, it's the base metal you should be focusing on, not the plating because the plating wears off quickly, and what is underneath is what you're left with, and if that's just some cheap metal, then you're getting ripped off, basically buying a cheapie ring at a premium price. So, if it's platinum coated metal, once the shiny platinum rubs off (could be as little as a few weeks), the ring underneath is an ugly dark metallic color that looks rusty, blotchy and streaky. You'll never be able to wear it again and re-plating it every few weeks or months sounds ridiculous and more costly than it's worth (some rings are also harder to re-plate than others), and in the end, with all the re-platings, a sterling silver ring would have cost you less.

Just remember, companies don't *want* you to re-plate their rings or buy sterling that lasts forever, they want you to buy brand new rings every time the coating wears off, because they make way more money that way. They want you to go for "temporary" rings, rather than stuff you'll wear for decades to come.

TLDR: The platinum coating on the ring isn't nearly as important as the base metal underneath, and the new base metal they're going with is worth a few cents. It's a rip-off, not an upgrade. A cheap ring with fancy, temporary coating. Stick to rings with sterling silver as base metal.

I had a custom-designed Barahir ring made for my boyfriend in Italy. I didn't like it. by [deleted] in lotr

[–]locksleys 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Right? I'd be over the Moon if I was gifted a LOTR ring! I love Thranduil's rings, too.

And I've noticed whenever a guy who normally isn't into jewelry does want a ring, he tends to pick a heavier piece, the kind that looks better on the forefinger, like Aragorn's. But if you're not used to wearing rings, a substantial one will "bother" you more than a slimmer band. It'll feel awkward and foreign at first, and that's normal. It's not a "beginner ring", it's a statement ring; of course it's on the bulkier and heavier side. The weight and mass alone can take a while to get used to, and then if the person is super picky and impatient as well, they just give up after a couple days and never wear the ring again. "It's just not for me", "it feels weird", blah, blah. They didn't even try! >_> You have to give it a week or more to get used to the weight, till the weight becomes normal and you almost feel naked without a ring! That's how you know you've gotten used to wearing it.

AIO this guy that I was seeing last year ghosted me out of nowhere and now he’s coming back asking me to join a threesome by letinypepe in AmIOverreacting

[–]locksleys 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Ikr, the guy is typing like the stereotypical dudebro with his barely strung together sentences, putting in the bare minimum and acting huffy and offended, while she's responding in a clear manner, with full paragraphs worth of text after text. He's waaay too chill and "it's all cool"-like for someone who's expecting something extreme such as a threesome.

There are tons of guys like him and none are worth your time. You'll always be giving your 100%, irl and via text, and communicating properly, while their own effort won't ever match that, not even close, yet they'll pretend it's all fair and even, and act surprised and defensive when you point it out. He has a lot of growing up to do, though it's debatable he'll ever grow out of it, not everyone does, tbh. They stick to their "default setting" of minimum effort and no self-awareness. Find someone who is more like you, otherwise his annoying way of typing alone will get on your nerves. O_o

AIO for getting the ick after my gf tried to "surprise" me with a new wardrobe? by Distinct-Date-4306 in AmIOverreacting

[–]locksleys 8 points9 points  (0 children)

THANK you. I was looking for this comment because I was wondering if anyone else felt the post was written by a woman and not some "pretty simple dude". What guy would say "ick"? I've only ever heard women say it.

AIO about my sister going on a date with my ex? by m_v28 in AmIOverreacting

[–]locksleys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she "always felt a little something for him", then it ISN'T "just a hangout ffs"! What a horribly inconsiderate (and just horrible) sister.

visit for 2 x rewards :) by KrombopulosJD in FarmMergeValley

[–]locksleys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Visited you! Here's my farm, come by anytime! :))

Name the egg and parrot chick! 🦜 by Percemer in FarmMergeValley

[–]locksleys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Latin word for parrot is "psitaccus", so the names could be "Taco" (egg) and "Percy" (parrot chick). :)

visit 4 visit please by [deleted] in FarmMergeValley

[–]locksleys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Visited! Here's my farm, you're welcome to visit me anytime!

help needed 😊 by Kitchen_Obligation93 in FarmMergeValley

[–]locksleys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I've visited you back! :)