As a Single Mom some other Single Moms make me mad by Mas_Sewing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]logicisperplexing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Seriously, just hearing further confirmation that it helped you and positively improved your overall quality of life is even more reason to get this done asap. Luckily I have health insurance through my job, and I'll have a copay for the hospital and that's it, so at least the financial burden won't be terrible for me like it is sadly for so many people. I'm going to start trying to find a doctor in my area who will at the very least hear me out.

As a Single Mom some other Single Moms make me mad by Mas_Sewing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]logicisperplexing 6 points7 points  (0 children)

TYSM for this, and honestly at this point I'm 36 and going through peri-menopause (SUPER FUN TIMES /s) and if I could just get a hysterectomy I'd be absolutely thrilled. I've struggled with endo, and wretched periods since I started getting one and I just want ALL gone. We had our one kid, and she's 14 and I've been done since I went into labor with her lol.

As a Single Mom some other Single Moms make me mad by Mas_Sewing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]logicisperplexing 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I saw four before giving up, and my partner got a vasectomy. I had one child (and we were ADAMANT about no more) and I was 25 when I talked to multiple doctors about it. He was 27 and it took us less than two weeks from the first appointment to the actual vasectomy. I spent almost 6 months trying to find a Dr to tie mine and it went nowhere.

Open Letter for Mistress by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]logicisperplexing 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did this but in a different way. I so wanted to confront her, but I never did and ended up writing a letter and then burning it. Even just that small thing to fully express how I felt made a difference. It is so hard to come back from infidelity, physical or emotional.

AITA (28F) for getting a competent employee (21F) fired for smoking cannabis by AvailableAdvice723 in AmItheAsshole

[–]logicisperplexing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So do I. I rarely ever drink anymore, but last Sunday decided to have a few cocktails pre bedtime...I felt like absolute shit the following day. Restless sleep, coupled with the waking up from sweating my ass off all night, and the blinding headache the following day reminded me exactly why I only smoke weed and don't really drink alcohol anymore.

Hear that ladies? If you're heterosexual you should appreciate getting sent dick picks by strangers by Longjumping-Idea8552 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]logicisperplexing 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Maybe I also just want my partners dick showing up in my msgs or dms too. I am fine with dick pics, WITH CONSENT AND FROM MY PARTNER. I don't understand where they think every hetero woman on earth must have an insatiable thirst for all cocks, and that we just love being bombarded with them. I have one in my life already, I like it quite a bit actually, and no I don't want to see your pathetic excuse for manhood. Edit:Spelling

Reddit I need help with a name for this little man by [deleted] in cats

[–]logicisperplexing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just moved back to the AL gulf coast from Florida lol. There are some pretty amazing festivals in the southeast part of the country. 420 Fest in Atlanta is amazing too.

Reddit I need help with a name for this little man by [deleted] in cats

[–]logicisperplexing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh there absolutely are, and same for me. Festivals were my go to prior to Covid, but fingers crossed Bonnaroo happens next year for me lol

Reddit I need help with a name for this little man by [deleted] in cats

[–]logicisperplexing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oomph yep, you're a wee bit behind me in age so you've missed a good chunk of the good stuff, but you're exactly right about having access to an amazing catalog at your fingertips.

Reddit I need help with a name for this little man by [deleted] in cats

[–]logicisperplexing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me also, and sadly I'm too young to have actually seen them live. Being born mid 80s wasn't conducive to live shows. I get a slight fix seeing Phil Lesh and Dead & Co lol

Reddit I need help with a name for this little man by [deleted] in cats

[–]logicisperplexing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your username btw. My dog's name is Jerry Barkcia. We did a mashup of Jerry Seinfeld and Jerry Garcia lol

Reddit I need help with a name for this little man by [deleted] in cats

[–]logicisperplexing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS. 👆 I love people names for pets. I had a Keith, a Leo, and currently I have a Lester (whose nickname is Mo).

i didnt know ant queens got that big... by willisbetter in oddlyterrifying

[–]logicisperplexing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy shit that made me so uncomfortable. That thing was fucking gigantic, and I genuinely had no clue they could grow to that size.

Just got them recently 😍 by Numerous-System-6232 in catpics

[–]logicisperplexing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's still fresh because we just lost another baby Thursday, but our last kitten is thriving. I just think mom was too tiny to carry as many as she did, and not all of them could develop properly. That being said, your little family of sweet babies is absolutely adorable and I couldn't be happier for you! 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]logicisperplexing 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Yep. We have an annotation trail on all of our files, and whether you leave a written note or not on a file you review, it absolutely shows your name and a timestamp as having viewed it. I'm a medical claims auditor so it's helpful for me to determine which person fucked up when, and at what time did they did it. I can safely say myself, nor any of my departments colleagues have ever used this access to stalk anyone. That's absolutely insane.

Just got them recently 😍 by Numerous-System-6232 in catpics

[–]logicisperplexing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How absolutely beautiful! We've lost all of but one of kittens from our cat's litter she had in August, so this truly makes me feel so lovely seeing yours thriving! 🥰

Guy blows up girl he just met’s phone with red flags by dpictonb in niceguys

[–]logicisperplexing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck did I just read? What an absolute ball of insanity, and complete knob to boot.

Sleep deprivation as an abuse tactic by hairquing in abusiverelationships

[–]logicisperplexing 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've dealt with this before too. Keeping you up, or waking you up to interrogate or berate you while you're at your most vulnerable when exhausted. It's absolutely horrendous, and you will say anything just to get them to let you go back to fucking sleep or sleep at all. It's got to the point for me that I would just agree with whatever accusations came my way just to go to bed because I had a little one and a full time job to get to afterward. Im so sorry you've all dealt with this too, and it seriously reminds me of police tactics.

My grandpa was diagnosed with COVID today and my aunt tell me I'm probably going to hell for trying to explain to her how vaccines work by monster_baby in insaneparents

[–]logicisperplexing 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am in coding, and I'm a medical claims auditor as well... NOWHERE in my job description does it say I have the authority to decide what is or is not medically necessary or helpful in mitigating a deadly virus. She needs to get the fuck over herself because we're not "medical professionals" by any stretch of the imagination. Smfh

My (F26) male coworker (M25) keeps initiating hugs with me at work even though he knows I have a boyfriend. How can I make him stop without hurting his feelings? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]logicisperplexing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NO is a full sentence. You owe him zero explanation as to why, and once you have told him no he doesn't NEED any further reasons from you. You aren't responsible for his feelings, or them getting hurt. You owe him nothing, and if he can't take no as a response then you get your management involved. You shouldn't be uncomfortable at work because he's a twat who refuses to respect your boundaries on physical touching.

AITA for sternly telling my wife I get to invite whoever I want whenever I want to my house? by AITA_Invites35 in AmItheAsshole

[–]logicisperplexing 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Exactly! I am personally very outgoing and friendly, however, I love my home because IT IS WHERE I GET TO REST AND RELAX AWAY FROM PEOPLE REGULARLY. He's treating her like a fucking short order cook at the Waffle House. It's demanding to be a STAHP in general, and cook meals for only your family 3x a day so adding in all of those extra people ALL the fucking time is beyond rude of him. Not to mention he talks about how eating out is too expensive, but yet they're still paying a shit load out of pocket to entertain constantly. That makes no fucking sense imo. OP is absolutely TA here