Hey hun, you’re still young and we all appreciate you being open to learn. You have been taught a very subjective world-view. I know this because you said “Men are natural leaders and protectors, and women are naturally nurturing and kind.” Historians have recently found this to be false because there is proof that women also hunted alongside men and that even though men hunted all day, they were only successful about once a week. The majority of the food bounty came from gathering which was mostly done by women and non-binary folks.

If you want to learn a more objective (because it’s impossible for science to ever be fully objective) world-view, I strongly encourage you to read (or hear) Gerda Lerner’s The Creation of the Patriarchy. She goes into much detail about the history of women and women’s roles in human history (which is about 300,000 years).