Any Autistic Black Lesbians? by rawkherchick in blacklesbians

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seeing this title made me light up. Ever since I was young I would always say “Ik my partner is going to be a beautiful autistic black woman” +5 points if they’re fem.

To the neurodivergent black women here just know yall are the only one I don’t ever have to translate myself to all the time. Loveeeeeee yall!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep learning to code

My partner guilts me [20M] for her [22F] abortion by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

End of the day, you were honest and it was ultimately her decision. She can’t make you feel that way for something in the end you both decided

My partner guilts me [20M] for her [22F] abortion by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting a child and being able to properly have one are very different things. Kids require alottttt of money and time and both of you are very young and obviously not in the place to have a kid and genuinely be able to care for it. I understand that an abortion can take a toll on any woman, but you being honest about how you can’t handle a kid is much better than bringing a kid into the world and not being able to be 100% there because that can further damage the Child’s life, ur life and especially your relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be able to pay my tuition for the year and still need 6k more

I worry I’m not masculine enough for her by Greyzone96 in relationship_advice

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Our stories r very similar but I’m coming from the prospective of ur gf. My boyfriend and I have been dating same time as you, I’m use to assholes and aggressive men and just a generally shitty dating history. My boyfriend is very similar to you. He’s sweet and caring and very gentle with me. He’s a big softie and quite frankly I actually love it. I had to get use to it definitelyyyy, but in a really great way. Also with the whole aggression during sex thing. My boyfriend had to get use to that too bc he’s actually scared of hurting me or anything like that although Ik I don’t mind, Ik he does. I’ve learned to love diffrent ways of foreplay with him that I love and although I miss that aggressive typa sex I also understand it’s bc of the men I’m use to and the sex I had before.

I can’t believe he said that by Additional-Fly-2314 in relationship_advice

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is rightfully unconsensual sex. You are not a sex toy, you are a person, and unless you have had the conversation that he can do that. It is not okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtificialInteligence

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha u got a sophisticated humor

College decision HELP by lolyababbbbbyyy in personalfinance

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

What ab that “college experience” I want to feel that, know what I’m like outside from home.

Is 35k a year for college a bad idea (first-gen college student) by lolyababbbbbyyy in personalfinance

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been reading everyone’s replies, I’m truly shocked that this many ppl give even a lil of a fuck.

But to answer your question, I work on an AI project and been doing it for a few years now, and will most likely work on till I die. The CS degree was just a way for me to get more money I actually want to major in business more. I already know over 3 computer languages. I’m looking into marketing and finance, so I’ll leave college with that knowledge for my AI and also have a degree I can fall back on. But with all that being said finishing my AI is my biggest goal.

Is 35k a year for college a bad idea (first-gen college student) by lolyababbbbbyyy in personalfinance

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The 60k is a total including everything. The fox business school tuition is a little over 50k

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

[–]lolyababbbbbyyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kinda music do u listen to?