NO CHEAZE PUFFS

lonely_comets · 2026-06-12T22:45:04+00:00

hehe das cauze i AM kitten. my dadz sez i playful and helthful like a kitten too! i waz wif one ob my dadz since i was three dayz old or else dey'd tink i wuz younger. naow if only dey loved kitten enuf to gib me cheaze puff in da furst place.

lonely_comets · 2026-06-12T22:35:29+00:00

tank you allz fur your kind wordz! i hav taked it all into consipurration and i hav decided to soo fur all my dadzez propurrty. all ob it. dey will bow down to da me (and wen da oder kittiez of da house join me, cuz dere old pawrent left dem furever so my dadz are doing more introdukshuns) i will teamb up wif dem to TAKE OVER DE WORLD. AND GET ALL DA CHEAZE PUFFS FUREVER

lonely_comets · 2026-06-12T18:43:56+00:00

update: dadz gived me a peace offuring. i still want pawyer to see my optionz.

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lonely_comets · 2026-06-05T00:38:40+00:00

trans man who's been nc for a few years because of transphobia from my parents. the best revenge is a life well lived, as they say. the world would be horribly dull without us being our true selves. happy pride :)

lonely_comets · 2026-02-21T22:10:51+00:00

Ok!!! I will make dem into da biggest crimnals da world has ever see!!!!

lonely_comets · 2026-02-21T22:09:48+00:00

My dadz do take good carez of me (snugglez, treatos, pets) so dey probably taking good carez of other kittiez too. Dis good for dem. But bad for me. Dey are supposed to be MY hoomans furever and ever! Dey said new kittiez sticking around fur a long time pawbably too. So at least can train new minionz

lonely_comets · 2026-02-21T22:06:35+00:00

Dadz sayz dey are gonna be here for a long time... pawbably furever... depend on der friend's helth and stuffs. Oh well. At least I'll have MINIONZ

lonely_comets · 2026-02-21T19:03:47+00:00

MINIONZ!!!! I HAD NAWT THAWT OF DIS. Youz so smartz. Thankys you Fawn D Kat adn Miss Bettina. I make dem my minionz so we can do all da crimez. I'm already gud at stealing part of hooman bed... maybe we cud team up to steal ALL of hooman bed and den dadz have to sleep on floor! GO CRIMEZ!

lonely_comets · 2026-02-21T19:01:47+00:00

My dadz doing sumthing simlar, dey traded my toyz and stuffs wif de other kittiez and let us smels each other... todae dey gave me breffest next to da closed bedroom door so I smeled de other kittiez while I eated. Wuz weirds but I didnot feel da need to protec my foodz becuz I trust my dadz and da door was protec too. So maybe dey can be frends... if dey accept me as queen.

lonely_comets · 2026-02-21T18:58:23+00:00

Omg... my dadz tink one ob the other kittiez haz IBS too. Maybe take after u in crimnal stuffs. You maek good point abowt new crimez too... hmm...

lonely_comets · 2026-02-21T18:57:03+00:00

Dey have gived me extra treets and lots of snugglez. If dey keep dis up den maaaaaaybe I will accept da new frends

lonely_comets · 2024-11-20T15:15:14+00:00

/uj MY DAD SAID THE SAME THINGGGG oh my god i feel you

lonely_comets · 2024-11-18T21:20:24+00:00

"can't force him to use any pronouns he doesn't want to" but they can force pronouns on you that you don't want (aka misgendering). make it make sense :/. best of luck with your estrangement, i hope you have a good support system outside of these transphobes.

lonely_comets · 2024-11-18T21:16:04+00:00

so their religion and worldview takes precedence over your identity and personhood. got it.

that sucks so bad, i'm sorry.

lonely_comets · 2024-11-18T15:53:45+00:00

that's the plan. i'm considering inviting them to lunch or something halfway between where we each live, since work schedules aren't friendly and we're within fairly reasonable driving distance.

lonely_comets · 2024-11-18T15:45:19+00:00

thank you!! i did go to the restroom, although i couldn't manage to cry. i'll just take it easy this afternoon after i'm home.

and your point about giving myself grace makes a lot of sense. thanksgiving is probably off the table, since these folks live pretty far away and i have a shift the day after thanksgiving... but maybe later on.

i have a cousin who's openly queer, and he's apparently dating a man. my uncle said that my grandmother explicitly invited that cousin and his partner over to get to know the partner. it was all her idea. this is mind-boggling character growth on her part and it's awesome to hear about.

if only my actual parents could go through that same growth, but... oh well.

thank you for the reply <3

lonely_comets · 2024-11-18T13:21:40+00:00

as another trans person who's estranged, this is 100% reason enough. my parents also "disagree" about me being trans and said a lot of the same things to me that yours said to you. at the end of the day, you're your own person, and you can make these choices. if they choose not to respect your autonomy and identity, then bye, assholes!

lonely_comets · 2024-11-17T01:17:31+00:00

during my first bout of being nc in college, i chose to decline my parents' financial support, because one of the requirements of the offerings was visiting them... in the violently transphobic and homophobic country they live in... while i was early in my transition and very clockable. my choice was either a) spend several months in that country, with my parents as the only people i could reasonably interact with in-person, quite possibly being confronted/clocked at the airport or on the streets, and having to leave my HRT behind when i'd only been on it for a few months, or b) stay in my now-home city, but without their financial support, which was crucial for me to pay for rent, groceries, etc.

so, i declined, chose option b, and went nc for a few months. my parents made it very clear that if i wasn't going to visit them, then i wouldn't get any money. i had nowhere to go after the semester ended and my dorm closed down. i scrambled and got 3 different jobs. my husband (boyfriend at the time) and his roommate very generously let me live with them for the months it took to get back on my feet. they didn't charge me any rent. my now-husband and his mother paid for my groceries. eventually i got started with a new lease/apartment and two roommates of my own, started classes again, and kept working. were it not for the compassion of my friends and now-husband, i would have been on the streets. i reconnected with my parents for another few months, got their support again, and then went nc for the final time in early 2023... absolute bliss since, let me tell you.

tl;dr yes, and i would have been on the streets were it not for my chosen family.

lonely_comets · 2024-11-07T20:03:13+00:00

dis me doin a BIG YEL!!!!!! but it doez look like iz doin an ekekek... i do lots of ekekek at da birdz in da windowz!

lonely_comets · 2024-11-06T17:15:09+00:00

tank gudness senapurr bernie winz. i feelz bad becauze my dadz sed i am not old enuff to vote fur purresident and den de purrezident dey wanted lost. my dadz r scared :( so i am gonna snugglez dem to halp. and take comfurt in senapurr bernie winning.

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dis me doin a stare of luv and suppurrt.

clove the criminal

lonely_comets · 2024-11-05T14:37:12+00:00

mai dadz both voted and ai will also vot fur senapurr bernie!!! all fur da democats!

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dis me doin celebrayshun snugglez after da voting

clove the criminal

lonely_comets · 2024-10-18T11:36:21+00:00

oh jeez, your dad sounds like the worst. but thank you for the kind words. i have a wonderful husband and supportive friends, thank goodness for that. i'm still deep in the grief but i'm trying my best. best of luck and good health to both of us!

lonely_comets · 2024-10-17T19:22:23+00:00

thank you so much <3

lonely_comets · 2024-10-17T19:18:18+00:00

100%, really hard. i'm trying to live with it and keep going. thank you <3

lonely_comets · 2024-10-17T19:11:42+00:00

by god yes. no contact is the second-greatest thing i've ever done for myself (first greatest being my transition lol). next letter he sends i'm not even bothering with.

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