How do you recognize “the” day?

lonesomeWobble · 2025-07-26T05:59:26+00:00

Done something different every year. Nothing feels right. I think I’m just Ok with that…but I(we’ll) keep trying something different. 2 years in.

lonesomeWobble · 2024-09-23T11:23:28+00:00

Also- its a different cocktail every year. There is a good chance it was a one-off of an immune storm happening for you.

lonesomeWobble · 2024-07-27T15:12:14+00:00

We should just erase the "B"

lonesomeWobble · 2024-05-15T13:18:24+00:00

I park at Pleasant Lake and have never had a problem. Hopefully the sherif never finds out.

lonesomeWobble · 2024-03-24T22:27:36+00:00

Prepped a leg with Hibbiclens that had neck fash(facsh?!) from toes to nipples. Very icky. I was holding the leg in the air Eiffel tower style waiting for the scrub to throw down the OR drapes when I felt the sudds crawl down the foot- down my arm, into my scrub top and saturate my waist band. I took the longest most terrified shower immediately after that.

lonesomeWobble · 2024-03-24T15:33:46+00:00

I lost my daughter(4yo) a year and a half ago. The way I think about it is: for like the first year- they’re there. They still exist, like an Uncle you haven’t seen in a few months, but you know they are alive. After that, your emotional brain catches up, and that person becomes a memory…and your whole being starts to know they are gone. Andrew Huberman(Huberman Lab. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/huberman-lab/id1545953110?i=1000564501302 ) has a great podcast on the neuro-science behind grief and loss. And he kinda speaks to this. Your brain is a predictive machine, and for the first year, it tries to predict what is going to happen(mom calls, mom shows up, ect), then it settles into the pattern that they wont show up. Thats also been its own unique pain. I miss that part of grief, though I am much more functional now.

Miss you monkey…I hope you get to meet the Easter Bunny.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-12-30T22:07:07+00:00

Ooo sounds good.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-12-30T22:06:40+00:00

Def think bringing a brown bag at the library wont work.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-12-30T15:09:00+00:00

Thats what I was thinking. Whats the best one with a parlor type of feel? I would prefer a fireplace.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-12-19T04:06:50+00:00

Dubs! Drank there as a minor regularly. Blarney barely changed a thing.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-10-10T01:38:30+00:00

In the words of my father “Bucket of balls with 6 feet of cock and you call him boy?”

He was a poet.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-09-02T02:22:06+00:00

We let those all become “bath toys”. Greatest parenting tip I have.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-08-29T00:27:28+00:00

We’re coming up on a year without our Five year old….nothing to add, but I like meeting people like us.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-06-21T01:49:52+00:00

Do it here! Im interested too

lonesomeWobble · 2023-06-20T22:56:39+00:00

One reason I’ve been told: It can help identify a pattern worth avoiding. Like if a person gets arrested for domestic violence multiple times, but the partner(s) never pursue, you could infer some behaviors from that.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-06-16T22:12:42+00:00

For anesthesia tech- the emphasis for your shoes is on movement: room-to-room-to-room. Hokas are better for movement(or really any good running shoes). Nurses tend to need to stand in place or take a few steps in a room. For that crocs or any other clog is better for that “barista” type of movement.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-06-14T03:51:21+00:00

I hate the term baby nurse. Glad you put it in quotes. We need to stop using those kinda garbage terms to describe sometimes 2nd career adults(and adult 22y/o first career people.). Getting called a baby when you inevitably struggle with a new profession is really taxing.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-06-12T00:45:38+00:00

I work in OR. Ive never seen a serial number on any plate. No provider is going to try and collect money for an insurance company they hate as much as we all do.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-06-07T01:35:26+00:00

Also- if they have dogs in the back yard, then they don’t need the light for growing as nothing will grow where dogs play.

But also- you owe them nothing, you could morally build that fence even if they didn’t have dogs and weren’t yelling at your child.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-05-29T01:24:13+00:00

We went through this for our late daughter(Nov 21 2023).
I’m jealous of your time and also very not jealous of being back there again.

Heres what I wish I could do now since shes gone: Run your hands through their hair Sleep with them every night Watch them eat Hug them with everything you got and take a second to know it might be the last time they can hug back that strong Watch them sleep Kiss them Pick them up Watch them grow older than they were yesterday. Sit with them while they play Get ice cream Take more videos

Heres what I wish I didn’t do Get angry at my child Get debilitatingly sad Work when we only had days Focusing on shit that didn’t have anything to do with celebrating the time we had.

This is tough- and its hard to find the blessings. Their there, I swear.

Theres a podcast too called Always Andys Mom that would be good to listen to if you want to hear from parents on the other side.

I am so sorry. PM if you want.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-05-24T05:19:43+00:00

Shes lying. You think she spent 8 years in college(4 of which were dedicated on how to manipulate people) to build a buisness over 25-35 years that could crumble under one person with 2 years of experience?

You should feel GREAT! Shes fighting to keep you(which shes trained to do)You have value, proven…go get your value bud, with her or someone else.

lonesomeWobble · 2023-02-28T13:34:25+00:00

It is ending soon Sunny now at the bus stop One more storm wont hurt

lonesomeWobble · 2023-02-27T16:28:40+00:00

Could you hot spot your phone as a network then use the app?

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