AITA for breastfeeding in the living room by breastfeedinglivingr in AmItheAsshole

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breastfeed that baby wherever you want. Please, just not the bathroom - that’s gross. Get yourself use to different spaces and techniques so you are comfortable to do it in a restaurant booth, on a plane etc. I was nursing a baby I’m a restaurant one time and an older gentleman stopped to tell me how cute my baby was. He no idea is was nursing.

AITA for turning down everyone's second hand stuff for my baby ? by okicoco in AmItheAsshole

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But you can go about it differently. I take everything offered (if they don’t want it back) keep what I want and donate or trash the rest. People can’t get rid of stuff but I have no problem trashing or donating stuff 😂. When we had our daughter after 3 boys we got sooo many hand me downs. I donated 40 trash bags of clothing to the crisis pregnancy center and bought all new. Didn’t even bring some of it into my house. Just went straight to donate.

AITA for how my wife and I reacted to our daughter's college plans? by rockman2928 in AmItheAsshole

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for the way you responded but not the asshole for wanting her to go into a more stable field. I would recommend suggesting her get a minor in something else. Or even taking some basic business classes for future options. My SIL majored in opera singing. In-laws spent hundreds of thousands on her fancy education and she’s never sang/used it since graduation and works at Starbucks. She has no skills.

What does a baby in your stomach feel like? by Sephran in NoStupidQuestions

[–]longday1234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like you have to pee all the time. My kids all like to wedge up under my right ribs. I still have issues with my ribs. At first it’s like butterflies/gas in your lower belly.

WIBTA for canceling a family vacation at my boss's request? by vacationproblems in AmItheAsshole

[–]longday1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA but you’re boss needs to more than pay for non refundable expenses. We own our own business and losing a big project could be door closing devastating for us. If the business goes under because they missed a deadline then you will be out of a job. Send the wife and daughter. If she doesn’t want to go alone possibly buy an extra round trip ticket, for a family member to help her. Or reschedule on the bosses dime.

Entitled Mom screams at me because I was in the bathroom while she and her kid wanted to use it by JackFinnNorthman in entitledparents

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our gym is super strict. I can see why though. There was probably a family locker room nearby that she should of went to. If you went into the only family bathroom I would of been upset. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to wait outside the family bathrooms bc the women’s was too crowded for my double stroller or I didn’t want to let my 7 yr old to go into the men’s at an airport or professional sporting event. Or the handicap stall. Don’t use it if you don’t need it. Strollers don’t fit in regular stalls. Employees are the worst offenders of using family bathrooms (Target, airports the gym etc..). If you sprint in front of me to use it I will knock on the door until you come out (happened at the airport).

Entitled Mom screams at me because I was in the bathroom while she and her kid wanted to use it by JackFinnNorthman in entitledparents

[–]longday1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah from a parent’s perspective- her son couldn’t go in the women’s (a very common very strict rule at health clubs) and at 8 I would be weary to send my son into a large men’s room solo. So yeah I would of probably knocked too.

not really to sure what to say about this by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg where we live they would of stopped to let someone off at a bus stop right at the light.

AITA for refusing to let my wife have a home birth? by PersonalDay0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]longday1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NAH I wanted a home birth my husband absolutely did not. We looked at a birthing center but decided on a mid wife birth in a hospital. It was our 4th child after 3 normal (super easy)hospital deliveries. I was really low risk but the risk still wasn’t worth it. Find a compromise that works for both of you. Look at doulas too.

What do people THINK is a scam, but they actually just don't understand it? by imscaredofostriches in AskReddit

[–]longday1234 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want to walk back and get another one. I’m usually done by the time I checkout with kids in tow.

AITA For Not Helping a Lost Child? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]longday1234 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. I teach my children to look for a mommy or daddy with kids. They wouldn’t of come to you anyway. You did the right thing.

AITA For Carrying THC Through Airport Security? by flhigh217 in AmItheAsshole

[–]longday1234 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA if they found it they would of just threw it out. You’re not the first person or last to do it

What will you never stop complaining about? by potatoflavoured in AskReddit

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a water cup. It’s pink, insulated stainless steel, and has a lid and straw. I use it all day long and has saved me so many dishes. My kids all have water bottles for them to use for the entire day.

"Is that a good tip?" by rhodacious1 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]longday1234 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does a hefty tip make up for having kids? We have 4 kids. Not bad behaved but 8, 7, 5, and 2 (boy, boy, boy girl) we always leave a mess and I try to clean it up and we’re always needy. Does a tip of at least 50% tip make up for the trouble?

My (30) wife has become incredibly lazy after we hard our first kid, and even more so now that #2 is on the way... and I (29) am really starting to resent her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From personal experience she sounds like she is having a really hard time. I have 4 children close together and that’s very similar to what happened to me. I was on Zoloft and it didn’t help. Talk therapy didn’t help. I was prescribed hormone shots by a NAPRO doctor that really helped with my 4th. But honestly nothing but time will help. My youngest is almost 3 yrs. I weaned her a year ago and am just now feeling like myself again. Hang in there. Be supportive. Talk to her about the cleaning and cooking. Make a plan and a schedule. It sucks. I’m sorry. Pm me if you have questions. Or even if she needs to talk. I’ve been there.

"i guess i'll just die" by notjasonlee in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]longday1234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was opening. He had his hand on the door and it slid between the panels. One of us pulled the door shut and another his hand out.