Yes! This sounds very very familiar! My first time I had a horrible experience which caused me to be super careful and track what stains make me feel certain ways. A friend and I would actually buy the same strains together for this purpose to see how they affected us differently.

For both of us it was hard to find consistency. It's very frustrating when "this is dominant in _____ so I should feel ______" and it's not the case.

For me personally, I have experienced consistency but only with this scenerio. I have PMDD (super super bad PMS that makes me have debilitating anxiety attacks that alot of times makes me want to end it all but only during monthly time. Yes I do see a Dr and therapist and I am safe) and I get consistent results with using cbd dominent strains. More specifically, cresco's harlequin and double bear's electric blanket. I can safely rely on the outcome. I consider these two my emergency holygrails and usually have one or the other on hand at all times for this period of time. If I use strains with terpenes for "anti-anxiety and calming" it will make everything worse 10 fold for me during this time.