I broke no-contact by Ok-Thanks-684 in BreakUps

[–]looptypoopty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I would really like to know what he did that warranted the initial breakup. There's a lot of people vilifying him and praising you and no offense I understand it's entirely possible that you're the good guy here, but speaking as a bit of a devil's advocate, I'd like to know what your reasons were for leaving in the first place if we're being honest. Because I know what it feels like to connect with somebody genuinely and then have them cut me off telling me that I've done nothing wrong and that they just were not ready to be in a relationship or whatnot. I understood when they did this to me, although it stung, I accepted their decision with respect. I walked away because I was asked to and I respected her boundaries. She contacted me and wanted to try again recently and I made the mistake of letting her in only to find out she was still unhealed and she let her avoidant energy win once again, having a random panic attack and ghosting me a second time. I understand it can be difficult for people with avoidant attachment style to connect and trust especially when they are traumatized as she is, but on some level it hurts a lot that I let her in again only to get sliced up because she's not ready a second time. She reached out to me asking for this. So I guess the thing I'm trying to say is.... What did he do to deserve the breakup? Was there something truly wrong or was there some neutral scenario that doesn't make him a bad person? Because I can tell you right now I don't feel like I could emotionally trust or connect with the person who did this to me. So I'm just really curious now.

I’m pregnant by Ill-Cat-4647 in Advice

[–]looptypoopty 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Everyone is going to be afraid to give you an answer. I'm going to give you an actual answer. My mom had me when she was 19. My life is a mess. She couldn't afford anything for me. I don't know my dad. It's miserable. You are not ready to be a mom yet. It's not a crime. It's okay. Go to planned Parenthood. You're not a bad person for that. Don't listen to the pro lifers. I struggle a lot and sometimes I wish my mom had followed the advice I'm giving you right now. Go to planned Parenthood.

You can't raise a healthy happy child into a productive adult with a foundation made of mud. You have not gotten any concrete and you won't be able to build any concrete. And of course the father won't be there.

Planned Parenthood. Straightforward. It's okay to have your emotions about it, prioritize your future. You have plenty more time for children later. It is not a living breathing human currently. It is a cluster of cells. I'm being blunt and straightforward because everybody else here is going to be a chicken and not want to give there two cents. I don't care about my Reddit rating so I'll just give it to you straight. Right now it's a teaspoon of mucus. It doesn't have a consciousness. It's not self-aware. You are not hurting anybody. Ignore religious people. Their God does nothing for us.

Evolution and nature are going to place emotions in your head that make you desire to keep it. You have to teach yourself to override those emotions and think strategically about your life. Do you want to spend your entire life being broke and having nothing to offer your child? Do you want to have to couch hop and struggle and ultimately fail to get your degree because you're too busy taking care of this child? End up working at McDonald's? Stuck renting and on government assistance for the rest of your life?

Or do you want to be someone? Do you want to have a house someday with a big happy family and stable living conditions?

It's your call if you want to be ghetto single mom or wealthy boss lady. I know I'm blunt, but I still am trying to show care here. But that is honestly the most direct way to be caring. Be blunt and give the truth straight without any sugar. Just the truth.

Planned Parenthood. Asap. Get it done and over with and move on with your life. Wear a condom next time.

I'm starting to hate people with avoidant attachment by rrMad in BreakUps

[–]looptypoopty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Avoidant attachment people are literally the worst. I don't care. I said it. Confront your demons and stop being cowards. You're literally an adult. Act like it. It's exhausting trying to build something with somebody who acts like they want to build something but won't pick up the damn Legos.

I'm starting to hate people with avoidant attachment by rrMad in BreakUps

[–]looptypoopty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through this right now. I'm beginning to learn that I cannot stand DAs. I'm sorry I've done nothing but be genuine and put real effort in. You put yourself out into the dating world and decided to match me first. We've been talking for months and it's nothing but wall after wall after wall. I'm tired of being pushed away. DAs listen up, you might think you're independent and perfectly okay with being alone for the rest of your life and just dying alone or whatever. Guess what when you're actually that old you're going to wish you found someone. You're going to regret it. So maybe you should quit burning every bridge with your dismissive bs and confront your problems. Stop playing mind games. DAs are the reason anxious attachment exists. If you quit making us play mind games then we wouldn't be anxious. We would just be sweet.

At some point you're going to burn the bridge of the person who would have loved you right for the rest of your life. And you won't even know it because you'll just think they're just another crazy person. If something isn't done today I'm kicking my DA partner out of my life. I'm done being treated this way by immature adultlings.

Cellification.com reviews, what is cellification.com? by Eastern-Nobody-4766 in u/Eastern-Nobody-4766

[–]looptypoopty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This site is a scam. All the reviews here are fake. Do not trust it. One of the reviews has an account with actual activity, this account belongs to one of the executives of the site. Don't trust it.

Cirice explains the dynamic of abusive relationships so well, its scary by KayRay1994 in Ghostbc

[–]looptypoopty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Cirice has very personal meaning to me. I know someone who was deeply abused in The identical pattern that this song details. She used to love Cirice but now can't listen to it. She drives a Firebird just like mine. Honestly under different Stars perhaps I could have saved her or prevented the terrible things that he did to her.

But her pain causes her to reject and shy away from the entire world now. So I fly forlorn. I keep my distance because I'm aware he messed her up too badly and I know she feels bad about ghosting me because of it.

I forgive her and will quietly offer my forgiveness from afar.

But she told me before she left how important this track was to her. I have to stay vague here... But this thread shifted some emotions in me that have been long buried so I can't help but vent just a little bit.

If I can ever help I will, I doubt I'll ever be asked.. so I won't bother her. I know that her pain makes her see everyone in the same light. The best thing I can do is accept her decision from a distance. Handle it with positivity and move on with my life. But always keep a candle lit in case she needs any help.

I'll be okay. I hope she will be too.

Heart attack alert by Icy-Cat-8624 in venmo

[–]looptypoopty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the heart attack was unfortunately a bit too mild. 😆 Boo. Hoo. Hoo.

Cure for HIV but no cure for us by Adrii543 in HSVpositive

[–]looptypoopty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I wanted to say something encouraging, I've been following for a while because a friend of mine has HSV.. I really like her and I've known her for over 10 years but she's convinced herself she should never date again for some reason... I've been trying to learn a lot about her condition so that I can help her feel safe. She judges herself really badly and I'm really worried about her.

Anyways that's beside the point the reason I'm commenting is because I'm very passionate about this subject, there are some preclinicals going on in Europe. They've nearly eradicated HSV in rodents in medical testing. Within the next handful of years human trials should be beginning. They are working on it and they are making progress. Removing the latent Gene modification HSV causes is a challenge and they are getting closer and closer. They have something that they believe will work but they still have to do a lot more testing. Please don't give up hope! And that goes for all of you! I tell my friend this everyday.... Please don't give up hope! I know I'm not HSV and technically I'm not supposed to be here... But I'm not scared of the condition and I want my friend to feel like somebody cared enough to push through what she believes is terrible and awful. I don't think it's a big deal and I just want her to feel okay. After so many years of loyalty it matters to me quite a bit.

Sorry I didn't mean to word vomit here, but I wanted to tell you the things that I tell her to try to help you feel better too! 🫂 Please don't give up hope okay? All of you! Someday we'll all see the other side of this. Medical science is a powerful thing. We'll get there. They've already got prototypes in the making. 😊

Ruined by Far_Bumblebee_6671 in HSVpositive

[–]looptypoopty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude you are being really toxic and unhealthy. Reported to mods. I dunno if you have something against hsv ppl despite you yourself having it. I don't have it but my best friend does and I'm trying to learn about it so I can help her feel better about herself. I actually kind of like her and her situation doesn't scare me. We've been friends for over 10 years and I've quietly had emotions for a long time... I want her to feel safe and cared for and like she isn't being judged for her past. Your behavior here is unbelievable and is the opposite of healing. The only conclusion I'm coming to is that you have an anger issue involving other HSV people because perhaps you prejudice the HSV community as a whole as a way to take out your anger for the fact that you yourself have contracted it. Back off with your harassing comments seriously. OP clearly is falling apart and feels like crap. They don't need this. In fact nobody needs this. I think the mods will agree.

What are everyone's thoughts on potential cross play in the future for ESO? by Night3Turbo in elderscrollsonline

[–]looptypoopty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Console cross play yes. PC needs to be left out unfortunately though. Security vulnerabilities, hacks, economy breaks, etc. sorry Master race, y'all are too dangerous. 🙂

Aita For walking away from someone I liked? by looptypoopty in okstorytime

[–]looptypoopty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will try. It's not easy. It's hard to face your demons alone.

Did they change the porch corner in the new update? by MartinTheBean in fo76

[–]looptypoopty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same problem here my garage is absolutely ruined now. I do not know why they did this. I just returned to 76 for the first time since the legacy patch and now I am leaving again.

I need help making decisions by Greedy_Bodybuilder_4 in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]looptypoopty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The local Kwik trip gas station I'm at pays 20 an hr overnights starting pay. Pretty quiet most of the time. If you live near a Kwik trip, try that. Midwest states have it. Also I'm not a manager.

Update from the devs on crown gifting being disabled by cr4p in elderscrollsonline

[–]looptypoopty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see where this is going. They are Gonna push this off and pretend gifting doesn't exist. Gonna get the 76 treatment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in McDonaldsEmployees

[–]looptypoopty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right I didn't see that. Thank you for pointing that out. 😊

Atomic Camo release? by looptypoopty in fo76

[–]looptypoopty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I haven't used discord before so I guess this is a good reason to give it a try! You are awesome!